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Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by We4all: 8:53am On May 01, 2025
A man who is serious about you will propose within 6 months of dating because he would be scared of losing you to another man.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by almarthins(m): 8:54am On May 01, 2025
lightwind:
She said WOMEN are you a woman huh
How u take see the question?

Shey na you I ask? grin
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Dhoneymix: 8:54am On May 01, 2025
No one can tell if a partner is serious or not. We've seen those who are serious just before they knack.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by ebexofficial: 8:54am On May 01, 2025
Only time can tell

Feelings come and go
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by 1stola: 8:55am On May 01, 2025
Okay
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by almarthins(m): 8:56am On May 01, 2025
Brandiebird:
"If you wanna know if he loves you so...
It's in his kisss!
That's where it is!"
This one no join, u wan tell us say if u no kiss you no go know.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by almarthins(m): 8:57am On May 01, 2025
Prinss:
One sure sign is that he will introduce you to his family voluntarily and let them know you are the one and/or visit your own family without hesitation.
Correct. But some men sabi disappoint.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by victorazyvictor(m): 8:57am On May 01, 2025
Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?
Madam na only ur kneels go tell you.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Hemanwel(m): 8:58am On May 01, 2025
Then, you have to slice his chest into two so you see his heart with your korokoro eyes
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by victorazyvictor(m): 8:58am On May 01, 2025
almarthins:
This one no join, u wan tell us say if u no kiss you no go know.
If his eyes are open, run o grin
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by b0rn2fuck(m): 9:02am On May 01, 2025
Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?
as a player , if I'm serious about girl, commitment, spending time with her when I am less busy, focusing on her future and making her a better person, sensing her needs without asking and responding ASAP and always try to make sure all is well with her because you wouldn't want the girl you are serious with low, you will want to upgrade her to your standard except you lack.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by emmanosyclo(m): 9:03am On May 01, 2025
Fiscus105:
Don't open legs for him until, at least, introduction. Any serious guy would do that if he has genuine intention for you.
Most guys would accept that condition “no sex before introduction”. If only the rule also apply to the woman “no billing of the man before introduction” in that everyone is on the safe mode. But most women will see it as being stingy.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Harddiskng(m): 9:05am On May 01, 2025
lightwind:
Why are only Men answering all the questions here. Question weh she asked women ??
Fasting declining female participation

@Seun
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Jeezuzpick(m): 9:07am On May 01, 2025
A guy here.

We're the ones who can really tell you what's what.

Here's my take:

He's really into you when:

1. He doesn't lie to you.

2. He's really interested in what you do.

3. He scolds you when you do something he doesn't like, especially if it's something you know is wrong.

4. He takes interest in the well-being of your family, but is wary of your friends, especially if you have any with questionable traits.

5. If he's more interested in helping you with meaningful things than vanities, i.e. he pays for your Mom's treatment but refuses to buy you an iPhone. The guy who does the opposite is really after your body. Isn't it an irony?

6. He can mess up, but he does show true remorse and you can see he's really trying to change, just for you. No one is perfect, after all.

7. He encourages you to be a better person. He's doing that because he secretly believes he can be the primary beneficiary if that works out.

There's a lot more to say, but I gotta work.

Others can agree or disagree.

It's a free world.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by emmanosyclo(m): 9:11am On May 01, 2025
Domyresearch:
Women will only take you seriously if you are serious about your life, hussle and serious about your purpose and then you are making money from them. Gifts, time, Valentine, Christmas, going to the best restaurant won't budge a serious lady. Infact, pushes them away.
Even if you have money and you meet a great lady but she eventually sees that you don't have a purpose for the future or a direction for your life and the two of you, she will leave you. Sorry, but that's the hard truth.
Or women should only take men serious if the man is serious with his life. To women, if you cannot spend the money on them upon meeting them, that man is the most unserious fellow on earth.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by maxiuc(m): 9:11am On May 01, 2025
JAOS:
He will try to impregnate you before marriage
this is trap and bondage not love ooo
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Fiscus105(m): 9:11am On May 01, 2025
emmanosyclo:
Most guys would accept that condition “no sex before introduction”. If only the rule also apply to the woman “no billing of the man before introduction” in that everyone is on the safe mode. But most women will see it as being stingy.
Since the lady herself sets the rule to open legs before introduction/marriage she must endeavour to accept no spending as well.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Philosopher1979: 9:11am On May 01, 2025
emmanosyclo:
Most guys would accept that condition “no sex before introduction”. If only the rule also apply to the woman “no billing of the man before introduction” in that everyone is on the safe mode. But most women will see it as being stingy.
That is the main problem. Most girls say no sex before marriage and then they want their man to spend on them. Its mot as if the guy will not spend but most girls are demanding abd put money as a condition, yet they claim no sex. Its funny
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Fuckyoumod: 9:14am On May 01, 2025
Prinss:
One sure sign is that he will introduce you to his family voluntarily and let them know you are the one and/or visit your own family without hesitation.
you they learn work.

Have you heard "our wife" before?
After 2 or 3 years it's over and another lady is called our wife?

The seriousness of a man is dependent on the man and solely his choice. No man or woman can ever tell when anybody is serious or not.

A man can look so serious about a relationship, take you to his mom. but not serious about you, Same for a woman.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Proudlyngwa(m): 9:16am On May 01, 2025
Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?
Them tell you say ladies dey nairaland
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by obinnaxci(m): 9:25am On May 01, 2025
This question is best addressed to men. Women think they know a man's intentions but they don't. Men express seriousness by talking about their future plans with you. He sees you in their future. We rarely use words to express how we feel. Just actions. But in this instance where our assumed actions can be misleading, sometimes, just pay attention to how often he keeps you in the loop of his future plans. Whenever he tells you about his future goals, actions, and ambitions, he sees you with him in the immediate future. Him taking you to his family is never enough, he must be proactive when talking to you about his goals and future. Every other thing that comes with is a bonus.

An example is a man who has plans to build a house, but he never tells you. Shows he never trusts you to begin with.
Women have a natural gift of foresight, but some don't know how to use it. Just use this gift and you will easily tell when a man is serious about you.

Fellow men can input their hot take on this if they have additional points to make

Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious i.e. calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by ogascomax: 9:28am On May 01, 2025
A man's true intentions is never confused. If a man want to keep you you will know. A man that want to keep a woman will acts in that manner. If he wants to sleep with you he will acts in that manner. If you are for keep he would know also.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Nobody: 9:29am On May 01, 2025
ogascomax:
A man's true intentions is never confused. If a man want to keep you you will know. A man that want to keep a woman will acts in that manner. If he wants to sleep with you he will acts in that manner. If you are for keep he would know also.
💯
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by jaxxy(m):
Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?
Too much attention means nothing, it can be love bombing or obsession..

Gifts mean nothing unless u are the greedy or hungry type, anybody can give Gifts if its convenient for them.

Sweet words mean nothing it can be lies All lies.

Set ur eyes on the real things that matter and u will know if a man really loves u.

When a man is serious about u it's known and clear there's no doubts or confusion.

why u girls are confused is because u are looking at the wrong things and carried away by fake things so guys now use that to decieve and confuse u. Lol
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Nobody: 9:32am On May 01, 2025
grin
FalseProphet1:
When he starts acting like a simp and gives you everything you request for.

This I have seen.
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by israelmao(m): 9:32am On May 01, 2025
PerfectStranger:
Na your fellow man wan take u serious abi?Gaybriel i see u.
Gay-briel grin
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Sonofgod1990(m): 9:34am On May 01, 2025
Fiscus105:
Wen we were growing up, I have a friend then, ALEX, he effortlessly doing that, yet he fuckss and disappears. In fact, I also remember another guy not too long, TAIWO, even though he is married, yet, he would introduce gfs to his mother, the mother who is educated would accept and pamper the girl as if Taiwo never married, he would sleep with the girl in his Mama's house, after the body tires of him, he disappears to tin here.
Tin air not tin here. Olodo

Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Nobody: 9:34am On May 01, 2025
Blitzking:
If a man gives you all these he truly loves you but sometimes he might be taken or isn't emotionally or financially prepared to do life with you. Just know that in an ideal world you would have been his spec as wife material. Men don't give their long term affection and attention just anyhow.
is the person male or female

I'm confused 😕 tongue

Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Blackdisciple(m): 9:36am On May 01, 2025
As a guy reading comments now grin grin
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Blitzking: 9:41am On May 01, 2025
Firebox123:
is the person male or female

I'm confused 😕 tongue
Lolz
Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by Fryx: 9:45am On May 01, 2025
If you are a dependable woman, you will easily spot a dependable man.
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