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Being a single mum is not a death sentence or sentence to remain single for forever. Off course a single mum priority is going to be her children, what do one expect when you are dating one? To cook rice for you and buy you beer while her children are hungry. if you have sex with one, expect billings- It is what comes with the terrority. if you do not want date one, leave them alone. Let them find someone who wants to date them

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atoliman:
Being a single mum is not a death sentence or sentence to remain single for forever. Off course a single mum priority is going to be her children, what do one expect when you are dating one? To cook rice for you and buy you beer while her children are hungry. if you have sex with one, expect billings- It is what comes with the terrority. if you do not want date one, leave them alone. Let them find someone who wants to date them

Abeg... wetin inspire you to write all this talk?

AllBlack:
wetin inspire you to write all this talk?

i have seen two mature ladies who were single mum get remarried and now living with their husbands for almost 15 years. No one is perfect and people get divorced. A lot of men tend to bash single mum and sometimes some single mum dey fxxk up by sleeping around with multiple men

atoliman:
A lot of men tend to bash single mum and sometimes some single mum dey fxxk up by sleeping around with multiple mum

You might want to put down the beer now. Clearly you've had too much.

I hate single mom with passion

Baronthecelebri:
I hate single mom with passion

Get lost!

Baronthecelebri:
I hate single mom with passion

This one na small pikin talk .

Baronthecelebri:
I hate single mom with passion

Nairaland also needs to consider age restrictions cos we're having a lot of teenagers here that comment nonsense

Baronthecelebri:
I hate single mom with passion

This one no get sense at all

COMRADES are speechless, I don't understand what the topic is all about, ebi like these don lose control

Lol Single Mom Advocate welcome.

If you have seen what he has experienced you will love to hate them

The baggage is just too much.

atoliman:
Being a single mum is not a death sentence or sentence to remain single for forever. Off course a single mum priority is going to be her children, what do one expect when you are dating one? To cook rice for you and buy you beer while her children are hungry. if you have sex with one, expect billings- It is what comes with the terrority. if you do not want date one, leave them alone. Let them find someone who wants to date them

Nawa O

E get why single women de go after married men. This life eh, experience will make you wise. No need to argue.

Sometimes you need to make the mistake of opening your legs for the wrong man or letting one rubbish boy scam you for you to wise up as a woman.

Me I believe single mums deserve to be married again. Their kids need a father figure and that is the most important thing for society. Please don't get me started with single daddies, those are useless men.

Once a woman knows how to take care of herself ( I am not saying women cannot take care of themselves ordinarily) the stakes are higher. When we say women are hypergamous, they say na lie. One of the reasons single moms become bitter is because the man left his duties. His number one duty is to care and provide. She will raise alomo bitters kids, full of venom and spits. Na dem we de see online. Any society wey destroy the family system is set for failure. When I small, e no de make sense say Igbo people go allow the brother marry him brother wife but when I begin grow, I come understand the sense. They don't want the legacy of their sons to be for the streets so dem take cloth cover their family fast. Today all of us de claim independence, "You first", "my single life" , mothers whoring around and sex becoming so cheap. Posting fake pictures on Instagram of a glamorous lie.

Most African culture believe in family system but we Don use modernity scatter everything. Instead make we choose the one wey we fit use protect ourselves, we wan copy oyinbo system. You gonna learn!

ChilliPepper:
This one no get sense at all

u be single morther

I recently had an episode with one.

Single mum of one. Her marriage lasted less than 6 months and the ex husband blocked her everywhere and has even abandoned their 5 year old kid.

She tried enticing me with gifts and some dramaric nollywood style of love.. But deep inside, I knew there was something wrong with the lady, I sha wanted to see what made baba to run within a span of 6 months, and even abandoned his kid

Everything was going well, till she started showing me her true character.

Omoh. I need not go into details...

See ehn.. Run from anything single mother. Even the one that you made, just run.

I repeat, RUN..

It's not about being a single mom, it's about your ability to achieve your goals and becoming useful to yourself and child without putting yourself at the mercy of any man.

The reason why most men detest single moms is because of how easy they give up on life. Most live waywardly, get pregnant and keep trying to force themselves on men without developing themselves.

I've seen women who had kids and still went to fulfill their dreams. I know one (a childhood friend) who's currently a senior staff member in a bank. She got married and is enjoying her marriage.

If you're a single mom looking for a man to adopt your child and shoulder your responsibilities without lifting a finger, life would be extremely difficult for you cos the men you'll come across would just keep you for sex and nothing more cos that's the only thing you can offer them.

Having a child isn't the end of the world. Not developing yourself or learning a skill that can feed you after giving birth, marks the beginning of your doom.

Hmmmmmmm!

Ose, minister for single mothers.

atoliman:
Being a single mum is not a death sentence or sentence to remain single for forever. Off course a single mum priority is going to be her children, what do one expect when you are dating one? To cook rice for you and buy you beer while her children are hungry. if you have sex with one, expect billings- It is what comes with the terrority. if you do not want date one, leave them alone. Let them find someone who wants to date them

Unfortunately, nobody wants to date them.

Build your home while married because being a single mom isn't no child play

Never marry a single mother. Never try it.

I can marry a single mother.





If she's still a virgin.

atoliman:
➜Being a single mum is not a death sentence or sentence to remain single for forever. Off course a single mum priority is going to be her children, what do one expect when you are dating one? To cook rice for you and buy you beer while her children are hungry. if you have sex with one, expect billings- It is what comes with the terrority. if you do not want date one, leave them alone. Let them find someone who wants to date them

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stan4b:
The baggage is just too much.

This is the real issue

Amumaigwe:
➜Unfortunately, nobody wants to date them.

There is no truth to this conclusion of yours, given that many of them actually have more dates, some even married, before many single women.

Some single mothers too are something else