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MikeofKd:
Lol like I said at 23 you barely have a life.
All these achievements this achievements that ,it just fills you up with emptiness at the end of the day.

Smh.
I know people who at 23 were already married, with a child and finished from top prestigious university with best result! If at 23, you cannot see what you spent your teen years for then you must ensure that by 30, you don't repeat same mistakes.

She is right. 23 years is big o! By your early 40s, you should actually have at least your first child in the university. Your teen years are the most critical period of your life. Once you waste it, don't waste your twenties.

Her lips is loud 🤔🤔🤔🤔 you gerrit

Better don't overthink .. Na person wey dey alive dey reason all that ... Life is in stages ..Just make sure you put your efforts...

Some of us are well past that phase and we haven't figure out what we want in life, Musa, dice the onions please I want the eggs to be fill with onions.

Kobojunkie:
At 23, with no school, means she was not given it by her parents before she turned 23. Yes, parents are responsible for giving schooling to their wards before they become adults. That is a given!

She owe herself the need to have a meaningful life,with or without parenting and schooling.Adulthood starts in Nigeria at 18.My late mother always hammer it in that government has no authority to compel her to have us under her roof if at 18 we don't sit up.
What I know is that the fastest runner do not always wins the race Ecclesiastes 9:11

tommy589:
➜She owe herself the need to have a meaningful life,with or without parenting and schooling.Adulthood starts in Nigeria at 18. My late mother always hammer it in that government has no authority to compel her to have us under her roof if at 18 we don't sit up. What I know is that the fastest runner do not always wins the race Ecclesiastes 9:11

The gal literally told you her mother came in her room to pray for her, meaning the mother is not your mother. Why are you people unable to disconnect the experience of others from that which you have been saddled with by your upbringing?

You arm your children with all they need to succeed before you then allow them to leave once they are ready to leave. Suggesting that all are ready to leave home by 18 is to lead a deluded existence of your own.

You should, at a sober moment, sit down to reevaluate your journey of life to see what happened that you're not able to succeed in some things at your age. After that, work at making correction to whatever you discover is responsible for your situation.
Don't forget to talk with God and place your situation before Him. He will intervene in your life. May God lighten your path and give you victory over your challenges.

Jagermeister:
She no get job but she can smoke weed

I think say na only me see lips..

Kobojunkie:
The gal literally told you her mother came in her room to pray for her, meaning the mother is not your mother. Why are you people unable to disconnect the experience of others from that which you have been saddled with by your upbringing?

You arm your children with all they need to succeed before you then allow them to leave once they are ready to leave. Suggesting that all are ready to leave home by 18 is to lead a deluded existence of your own.

You claimed her parents could not afford much. How do you know? Here is a girl that has her mother visited in her own room,meaning she has a room to herself.No where has she alleged that her family are not doing enough,but you are here to tell her story beyond what she said.
I gave words of encouragement but you find fault with it

If you love and cherish your life and freedom, pls avoid naija women at any cost. There are many useless women like her her all over the place. Entitled mudhole with absolutely nothing to show, go online and calling men all sorta names! Good for her, you gou turn 63 and still nothing for you . Dem no dey pretend having good manners like actors do, you either have it or you DON'T!
radarada!

Angelfrost:
I see... So, the following don't smoke:

Elon Musk
Cubana Chief Priest
Phyno
Burna Boy
Odumodu Black
Portable
Naira Marley
Davido
Wizkid
Etc

Alaye, I am surprised you included Naira Marley in this list.

If the colour of someone's lips is the criteria to pick anyone or identify who smokes, Naira Marley will win without competition.

Abi, you can't remember how NM looks again ni?

ppogba:
Alaye, I am surprised you included Naira Marley in this list.

If the colour of someone's lips is the criteria to pick anyone or identify who smokes, Naira Marley will win without competition.

Abi, you can't remember how NM looks again ni?

Boss, I wasn't even talking or focusing on lip color tbh.

I know for a fact that they all smoke... I was trying to point out there is no clear correlation between people's smoking habits and their pursuit of success.

MikeofKd:
When I see people say things like this I just laugh. At 23 you barely have a life , you've not even started life lol , na you go plan ur life at the end of the day nobody go do that for you.

But seriously at 23 , you should be investing in yourself , education isn't just about degrees or certifications , self investment should be priority , read good books , live healthy , invest in talents ,strive to learn in demand skills and improve your networking with others then use it as leverage to get monetary value, I know people that didn't finish secondary school and they are sitting on billions today, well nourished and fulfilled , school isn't everything your mindset is. My 2 cents.

All what u mentioned are achieved through education. She said, she aren't in school, but u r giving her analysis to succeed based on learned education

Ok

Before covid I usually do not feel too happy during my birthdays , after taking stock of my achievements for that year, I would focus on those things I have not achieved and ignored those I have achieved

During covid, we lost a colleague and we had to go to the cemetery for the burial. As we made a procession , I branched out and walked among the tombstones.

There I saw names of people who had died and their ages, some 29, 20,18, 25, 34 amongst others

Then it suddenly dawned on me, these people where not worrying about money, achievement, partners,houses, cars.....they were gone for ever, never to come back again

From then I was always grateful for the gift of life, where there is life, there is hope of a better tomorrow

Stop weed it's affecting ur lips

Start by learning work

OKOATA:
Give me Five of your family members that died and went to Hell or Heaven. For the fact that you don't know means you can never know what happens after death. Heaven, Hell bla bla bla. Do you dream and not forget about it instantly? Do people not go into coma and not forget about their lives. What makes you think when you are reincarnated you can remember anything when even in this world we have so many mysteries. Oga when you die you will be reincarnated nothing more. There's even a thread here about it. You don't know .0001 percent of your modern world and you know in spirituality that hell truly exist for humans. A loving God isn't a crazy and demon God that will throw you in hell for a few years you used on earth. God is love and not evil and since you serve an evil God hold him dearly while I hold my loving and compassionate God.

You can't use questions to answer questions in this way. Answer me first sensibly, then I answer you sensibly. How is that a problem to you? If you will reincarnate, just reincarnate to close to me so you can be useful in cocoa farming. I am ont reincarnating with you, my hope is in Christ Jesus who is ever truthful and loving. He allows the wicked and good people to grow together till the day he will separate them. One to paradise, bad people to hellfire.

It has been appointed for a man to die once, after that judgement.Nothing like incarnation except you like living with deceit. However, if you want to reincarnate, do that close to me now where you will be useful in cocoa plantation. When you are reincarnating, please get flat head so you can be able to carry load naturally without support. In that case, you can help carry cocoa to the marketplace

shinaola21:
🌺

And her face looks fresh no pimples,why can't she go learn a skill??

The phone you are using to post this,you can use to join online class but no y'all won't do it...

Any man wey marry this one go receive billings

She doesn't even have PVC or did she vote for APC

penearth:
All what u mentioned are achieved through education. She said, she aren't in school, but u r giving her analysis to succeed based on learned education

Your telling me you need to be educated to have self investment
Google self investment, it's exceeds the confines of just being academically educated.

tobore4u:
Run from all form of betting to avoid impending doom

True talk and word of wisdom. Only the wise will understand.

Read the room . So insensitive

Elusive001:
She is not even bothered with the most important thing in this life, the salvation of her soul. If she us not bothered about this number 1 thing, then she is right to say that she has no purpose.

To be born again gives one the right purpose of life. It's only CHRIST JESUS can make her understand her purpose in life.

All this kind girls way hate house chores, is obvious that's there's nothing she finds joy doing too

What about those in their fifties and yet to find a headway in life? Her mind is just playing tricks on her.

sreamsense:
You can't use questions to answer questions in this way. Answer me first sensibly, then I answer you sensibly. How is that a problem to you? If you will reincarnate, just reincarnate to close to me so you can be useful in cocoa farming. I am ont reincarnating with you, my hope is in Christ Jesus who is ever truthful and loving. He allows the wicked and good people to grow together till the day he will separate them. One to paradise, bad people to hellfire.

It has been appointed for a man to die once, after that judgement.Nothing like incarnation except you like living with deceit. However, if you want to reincarnate, do that close to me now where you will be useful in cocoa plantation. When you are reincarnating, please get flat head so you can be able to carry load naturally without support. In that case, you can help carry cocoa to the marketplace

Your last part shows you are a tribalist. Mr I will go to heaven. God will never allow anyone go to hell you bimbo. God is not dump like you humans that even earthly judges won't sentence you to burn ❤️‍🔥 by fire let alone God. A tribalist will surely burn in hell since that's your believe. Read Isaiah 45:7 for more understanding. How can God who's the originator of Evil himself sentence you to burn forever ♾️ for a finite sin you commited on earth. LMAO. God supported the evil that befell Job and his entire household and does that make you hate God? Or does that make God evil to also sentence himself to hell for sanctioning it? If an ominiscient who knows all know I will go to hell before creating me so why did he create me. Use your brain 🧠. Whether you like it or not you will be reincarnated so rest.

OKOATA:
Your last part shows you are a tribalist. Mr I will go to heaven. God will never allow anyone go to hell you bimbo. God is not dump like you humans that even earthly judges won't sentence you to burn ❤️‍🔥 by fire let alone God. A tribalist will surely burn in hell since that's your believe. Read Isaiah 45:7 for more understanding. How can God who's the originator of Evil himself sentence you to burn forever ♾️ for a finite sin you commited on earth. LMAO. God supported the evil that befell Job and his entire household and does that make you hate God? Or does that make God evil to also sentence himself to hell for sanctioning it? If an ominiscient who knows all know I will go to hell before creating me so why did he create me. Use your brain 🧠. Whether you like it or not you will be reincarnated so rest.

I wonder how you reason. You picked out Isaiah 45 vs 7 and twist it to your narrative, but neglected other sources from same bible:


Isaiah 45:7 is only referring to God's sovereignty over all creation including good and evil. However, the concept of judgment and accountability for individual actions is very clear in the same bible you quoted from, but you ignored that.


God gives humans the freedom to choose between good and evil:

Deuteronomy 30:19: "I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live."

Joshua 24:15: "And if it seem evil unto you to serve the Lord, choose you this day whom ye will serve... but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."

Humans have freedom to make choices and that God desires people to choose good and follow Him. Bad people will be judged and face consequences in hellfire:

Matthew 25:41-46: Describes the separation of the righteous and the wicked, with the wicked being sent to eternal punishment.

Revelation 20:15: States that anyone not found in the book of life will be thrown into the lake of fire.

Matthew 5:29-30: Warns about the consequences of sin, including being thrown into hell.

Mark 9:43-48: Emphasizes the severity of hell and the importance of avoiding sin.

Bible teaches about accountability for individual actions and the possibility of judgment and punishment. But you avoided all those passages from the bible, but chooses Isaiah 45 vs 7 that you don't even understand to the context of other biblical passages. May God removes vein of ignorance from your eyes. I am not tribalistic and I will not be one, where you don't understand about; ask for clearification.

John 3:16 says:

"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son ( Jesus Christ), that whosoever believeth in him should not perish( in hellfire), but have everlasting life(in paradise)."

This shows God's love for humanity and the gift of salvation through faith in Jesus Christ.
Through faith in Jesus, people you have eternal life and avoid perishing in hellfire. Choose life, that is the message of God to you, but if ignored; such person will end up in hellfire

This one don use Igbowm weed blind her eyes,other smokers u de run parole with no be relationship

sreamsense:
I wonder how you reason. You picked out Isaiah 45 vs 7 and twist it to your narrative, but neglected other sources from same bible:


Isaiah 45:7 is only referring to God's sovereignty over all creation including good and evil. However, the concept of judgment and accountability for individual actions is very clear in the same bible you quoted from, but you ignored that.


God gives humans the freedom to choose between good and evil:

Deuteronomy 30:19: "I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live."

Joshua 24:15: "And if it seem evil unto you to serve the Lord, choose you this day whom ye will serve... but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."

Humans have freedom to make choices and that God desires people to choose good and follow Him. Bad people will be judged and face consequences in hellfire:

Matthew 25:41-46: Describes the separation of the righteous and the wicked, with the wicked being sent to eternal punishment.

Revelation 20:15: States that anyone not found in the book of life will be thrown into the lake of fire.

Matthew 5:29-30: Warns about the consequences of sin, including being thrown into hell.

Mark 9:43-48: Emphasizes the severity of hell and the importance of avoiding sin.

Bible teaches about accountability for individual actions and the possibility of judgment and punishment. But you avoided all those passages from the bible, but chooses Isaiah 45 vs 7 that you don't even understand to the context of other biblical passages. May God removes vein of ignorance from your eyes. I am not tribalistic and I will not be one, where you don't understand about; ask for clearification.

John 3:16 says:

"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son ( Jesus Christ), that whosoever believeth in him should not perish( in hellfire), but have everlasting life(in paradise)."

This shows God's love for humanity and the gift of salvation through faith in Jesus Christ.
Through faith in Jesus, people you have eternal life and avoid perishing in hellfire. Choose life, that is the message of God to you, but if ignored; such person will end up in hellfire

Oga rest. I don't believe in Hell. You that believe in it embrace it.

OKOATA:
Oga rest. I don't believe in Hell. You that believe in it embrace it.

Nobody forces you on what you must believe, but why picking bible verse you don't understand and twisted it to align to your interest while you neglected central message of same bible that teaches about paradise and hellfire? I have shown you, you will not say you have never heard it before, you are free to make your choice as human. It is appointed for a man to die once, after that judgement. What you belief does not change the reality and truth on ground or change the word of God. I pray you will not die before you realize there is paradise and hellfire when it will be too late to make adjustment.

sreamsense:
Nobody forces you on what you must believe, but why picking bible verse you don't understand and twisted it to align your interest while you neglect central message of same bible that teaches about paradise and hellfire. I have shown you, you will not say you have never heard it before, you are free to make your choice as human. It is appointed for a man to die once, after that judgement. What you belief does not change the truth on ground or change the word of God. I pray you will not die before you realize there is paradise and hellfire when it will be too late to make adjustment.

Oga you haven't shown me anything. Religion has eaten too deep into your brain that you believe when people die they go to hell. Hope you are not one of those poor people who hope to enjoy in heaven. Oga better hustle cos you will come back to this world to meet what you left behind. Even people who don't hear about God will go to hell? No earthly judge will sentence you to burn in hell for the grievous offences. If we are created in the likeness of God what makes you think God will burn people in hell if when he's creation do not do such? Ok let's say you make heaven and you tell him to show you your family and you find all your family or some of them there, will you be happy to worship such a God? Be simping for religion but don't worry only your religion is right. Your God will take you to hell for believing in it while I don't. Haha.

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