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Samantha125:
Wait, are you telling me that a woman only shaves when she's cheating? That she never shaves for her husband or even for herself?

Before I did laser hair removal down there, I used to shave every Fridays ever since I was a teenager... For me it was a norm, it made me feel confident and cleaner... I didn't do it for anyone but myself.

So what do you mean by saying cheating women shave as if other women don't?

ranger123:
Lol...it's funny you only picked that from the write up. Well, I wouldn't blame you cos you are a woman and you would tend to support your gender.


Guys, flee from a cheating partner because no matter how you lie to yourself to have forgiven her, that action is still roaming aimlessly in your mind. I bet you, that relationship wouldn't remain the same anymore so it's better you do yourself some good and take a stand to bring it to a halt. This isn't about being a simp or alpha male. If you value your mental health, F L E E E E!!!!!

Samantha125:
I just want to know who told him that it's only women who cheat that shave?

And where did I show any support to anything?

Unlimitk:
He's not saying u are supporting anything
Out of what he wrote
Why did u only choose shaving
That's what he's saying
Women and pretending
Out of all the things he listed
It's only shaving u saw

Samantha125:
Because I personally believe that shaving should be part of every woman's personal hygiene... Him saying that a cheating woman shaves is like he's implying that the rest of us don't and those who do are also in extramarital affairs.

And since some of us did laser hair removal, meaning hair doesn't grow down there anymore, according to him, it basically means I have a PhD in Cheating Affairs from the Department of Promiscuity...🤒🤒🤒

Unlimitk:
Oga commot one place
Most ladies I know don't shave
It's mostly a foreign thing

AllBlack:
Heyyyyyyyyyyyyy God!
na kuvuki kingdom you dey?

Unlimitk:
Oga commot one place
Most ladies I know don't shave
It's mostly a foreign thing
He's just listing examples
And out of all those examples,there are somethings some ladies don't do but still cheat
U are just mentioning shaving since
Whats our concern with u shaving or using Lazer
Focus on the message and the list

Samantha125:
Shaving is mostly a foreign thing? ... Tell me more, so you guys would just dive into a bush that's probably infested with bush rats and snakes?😂😂😂

Samantha125:
Wait, are you telling me that a woman only shaves when she's cheating? That she never shaves for her husband or even for herself?

Before I did laser hair removal down there, I used to shave every Fridays ever since I was a teenager... For me it was a norm, it made me feel confident and cleaner... I didn't do it for anyone but myself.

So what do you mean by saying cheating women shave as if other women don't?

Samantha125:
Because I personally believe that shaving should be part of every woman's personal hygiene... Him saying that a cheating woman shaves is like he's implying that the rest of us don't and those who do are also in extramarital affairs.

And since some of us did laser hair removal, meaning hair doesn't grow down there anymore, according to him, it basically means I have a PhD in Cheating Affairs from the Department of Promiscuity...🤒🤒🤒

kaymart:
Sfe succeeded in changing the direction of the thread with her uselexx views

Ikpeabujo:
if you dont have any meaningful something to say, dont you think is more better that you remain silent here.
the message clearly have nothing to do with your laser hair removal or shaving.

uchkochi:
If You Stay After Cheating, You’re Not Noble—You’re a Fool

Let’s make something clear:

Cheating is not a mistake.

It’s a message.

A woman who cheats is not “confused.” She’s calculated. She didn’t slip and fall on a random man’s lap.



She plotted. She planned. She executed.

And if you stay after that?

You just told her—and the world—you’re a man without options.

Let’s break it down.

—

1. Cheating Is Never a 3-Person Affair

It’s not just you, her, and the guy.

It’s her best friend who covered for her.

It’s the hotel staff who recognized her.

It’s the Uber driver who picked her up in lingerie.

It’s the mother-in-law who pretended she was at “a women’s conference.”

Everyone knew—except you.

Forgive her?

Now they see you as prey.

—

2. If You Stay, More Men Will Come Hunting Her

Cheating signals one thing to other men:

“This woman is unguarded.”

You think you’re saving your marriage?

You’re advertising your weakness.

Men smell it.

They know she can be cracked—and you can be replaced.

And they will try.

She opened the door. You left it unlocked.

—

3. She Might’ve Left You a Parting Gift—In Your Bloodstream

You’re thinking about “second chances.”

She’s already exposed you to:

– HIV
– Syphilis
– Gonorrhea
– A baby that might not be yours

You’re not just loving her—you’re gambling with your life.

And if you’re not already doing DNA tests on existing kids?

You’re a walking ATM for another man’s legacy.

—

4. Cheaters Don’t Stay—They Resent Being Reminded

Let’s say you forgive her.

You bring her back home.

You work on your “communication.”

Give it 6 months.

She’ll say:

“You’re always holding it over my head.”
“You said you forgave me!”
“I can’t breathe in this marriage anymore!”

Then she leaves.

Not because she’s sorry.

But because she can’t bear the mirror you’ve become.

—

5. No Woman Cheats “By Accident”

She:

– Shaved
– Picked an outfit
– Found a reason to lie
– Booked a ride
– Made sure she wasn’t on her period
– Made sure you wouldn’t catch her

There was no accident.

That was a campaign.

And you’re still thinking about “one more chance”?

She doesn’t need grace. She needs consequences.

—

6. If You Stay, She’ll See You As Her Puppet

When you don’t walk away, here’s what you teach her:

“My body has more power than his principles.”

Now she’ll weaponize tears.

Use guilt as a leash.

And parade your tolerance as proof she can do it again—with better planning.

She’s not remorseful.

She’s reloading.

—

7. Real Forgiveness Requires Amnesia—And That’s a Lie

If you forgive her, it must be erased—like it never happened.

But you’ll never forget.

Every time her phone rings, your chest will tighten.

Every time she dresses up, you’ll wonder “for who?”

Every silence will feel suspicious.

You won’t be a husband.

You’ll be a prison guard.

—

8. You Need a Prenup—Or You’re Trapped

You know what’s worse than a cheating wife?

A cheating wife who gets half your empire in court.

Now you’re legally obligated to fund her lifestyle—with the man she cheated on you with.

And you can’t leave because… assets.

You’re not in a marriage. You’re in captivity.

Get a prenup.

Or get played.

—

Final Word: Walk the First Time—Because She Won’t Stop the Second

You think staying makes you noble.

It doesn’t.

It makes you naked—to her, to her friends, to every man watching.

She didn’t make a mistake.

She made a statement:

“I can betray you—and you’ll still stay.”

Break the cycle.

Love yourself enough to leave.

Because if one strike isn’t enough for you to go?

She’ll make sure the next one destroys you.

And this time?

You won’t just lose her.

You’ll lose your dignity, your time, your peace—and maybe… your kids.

Don’t negotiate your value.

One strike. She’s out.

Let the world argue.

You’ll be too far ahead to hear them.

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Dogalmighty17:
The big players don't bother about walking away. Not physically though. She wants forgiveness? She may get it. But the hell she'll get put through, she'll be forced to walk away herself. If she chooses to stay, limb by limb, everything that makes her esteem herself will be destroyed. Carefully and calculatively.

Cheating must have consequences. A man must be ruthless in carrying that out.

Unlimitk:
Oga commot one place
Most ladies I know don't shave
It's mostly a foreign thing

Samantha125:
Wait, are you telling me that a woman only shaves when she's cheating? That she never shaves for her husband or even for herself?

Before I did laser hair removal down there, I used to shave every Fridays ever since I was a teenager... For me it was a norm, it made me feel confident and cleaner... I didn't do it for anyone but myself.

So what do you mean by saying cheating women shave as if other women don't?

AfroKnight:
➜Any man woman who thinks he is capable of forgiving a cheating woman man will quickly learn that it is not a mark of strength. You are manipulating yourself on her his behalf. And you see that strength you think you have, she he will test it for you and it will fail.

Samantha125:
Apparently shaving is a sign of cheating there because you guys consider it as a foreign thing and not a normal thing...🤣🤣🤣

Just when I thought I've seen it all...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
Indeed! 🤔

Honestly, I believe a romantic relationship—one where both partners expect loyalty from each other — should end the moment that cheating is confirmed. Should the individuals decide at a later time to restart the relationship, they should both review the reason for the cheating, ensure that the partner who had cheated had indeed dealt with and matured at that point before moving forward. Otherwise, expect a repeat performance.

AfroKnight:
➜Men and women are not the same.Take your feminist agenda somewhere else. My message is for men.

Kobojunkie:
When it comes to behavior, men and women are not so different at all. You must have realized this since your developmental stage, even if you continue to reject the notion for reasons best known to you.

AfroKnight:
➜Behaviour of all things!➜Lol. Whatever makes you sleep at night.