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| 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 4:23pm On May 27, 2025*. Modified: 7:42pm On May 27, 2025 |
I usually laugh at most young girls who think the game is still simple like some years back. They jump around during their prime age shouting 'men are scum', I can't date this and that kinda man', 'twueh - look at the kind of man the other lady got married to, God forbid' and when they've advanced in age and finally ready to settle down mostly without any financial foundation, an innocent, handsome, well to do and sometimes younger man will be readily and hastily available for marriage. There's this lady I met last year at an event, at first I thought she's one of these single mamas only to find out she's still claiming 'baby girl' - deceiving herself. Fast forward, I did my talking and was able to secure her the same day. We spent 2 days at the event and when we were back to town she started preaching love to me claiming I was very lucky to have her that she do give men tough time up to 6 months. (For my mind - I can't even toast you more than twice) The funny attitude in her is that she's not even aware of her old age - She's very pompous yet no levels. This is someone that did her NYSC 16 years ago, she hasn't paid house rent before after then because she lives in her parent house in the city but the only business she can boast of is POS under the umbrella after 16 years of NYSC. But hear the way she will boast about the standard and quality of man she can accept to marry. She approached me with a serious relationship drama over the phone since I never intended to met her again because spec wise she's not my spec (she has a flat front and back) not to talk of her older age with wrinkled face - after series of disturbance from her, I Invited her to my house. Long story short, the lady wanted me to do something with her raw without protection and as a sharp guy and from her previous rantings i knew she was looking for an innocent young man to pin down. I said no, I must use CD. When she left my house - she complain over the phone that I don't love her that's why I used CD (in my mind, love keee you there old cargo with wrinkled face). She's been disturbing to visit since last year till early this year, I no answer. My friend recently told me she's pregnant, when I inquired from her she responded that since she can't find a GOOD HUSBAND so she have to find someone to give her a child she can use to hold herself. After spending years shouting I can't marry this kinda man, she ended up getting pregnant for an unknown man which I doubt will be able to support the upkeep of the child |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Anabosee(m): 5:08pm On May 27, 2025 |
U urself wetin you de do with the "OLD CARGO". Make konji kill you there. |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Wimkeh(m): 5:13pm On May 27, 2025*. Modified: 6:27pm On May 27, 2025 |
Long story short, the lady wanted me to do something with her raw without protection and as a sharp guy and from her previous rantings i knew she was looking for an innocent young man to pin down.This is very disturbing. How desperate can a woman be? I know she's the type that braggs in online comment section about never needing a man, yet she wants to pin a man down with pregnancy. That's how they are online. They talk tough, but in real life, they're begging for raw pen!s |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by SeaTrade(m): 5:19pm On May 27, 2025 |
When I hear women trying to pin men down with pregnancy,I just don't understand it cos if you get pregnant for me and I don't like you,I still won't marry you oo, Single motherhood sure die for you. I just don't understand that term. |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Anijay1212(m): 5:44pm On May 27, 2025 |
SeaTrade:Pray you don't meet a crazy girl from an equally crazy family because if you do eh that concept of pinning men down will become clearer to you. Oga nah the speed of light you go take marry her before you sef go even understand wetin sup. 👀👀👀 |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 6:00pm On May 27, 2025 |
Anabosee:😆 😆 Pray make kon-ji no hold you for sleep over event like burial or wedding and yan-shes plenty for dia |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 6:02pm On May 27, 2025 |
Wimkeh:You need to hear her bragging yet no single levels after 16 years of graduation, she hasn't paid a rent before |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 6:05pm On May 27, 2025 |
SeaTrade:Pinning a man down doesn't necessarily mean the man will marry her. A lady tricking you to get her pregnant is also a way to PIN you down for unplanned responsibilities with the wrong person. Even if I want to be a single father it will definitely not be with her kind of person. I'm talking about an older, wrinkled faced liability lady with a very irritating attitude here |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by SeaTrade(m): 6:06pm On May 27, 2025 |
ediko5:One word, Deadbeat. It's a thing you know,ignore her and her child kind of thing for life. Build a family with who you like and lock them out of it. |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by SeaTrade(m): 6:08pm On May 27, 2025 |
Anijay1212:There are places girls like her and her family can't get into. Well,we're all not the same afterall . |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 6:10pm On May 27, 2025 |
SeaTrade:Baba, you still don't get it. E get some kind lady you go give belle and e go be better F up for your side. E be like you never meet desperate old cargos wey dey find innocent young men before. As for the total abandonment of the child, I don't think I can that kinda heart provided I can confirm I'm the biological father, so the best option still remain protection once you notice a funny play |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 6:11pm On May 27, 2025 |
SeaTrade:Exactly, people are different |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 6:14pm On May 27, 2025 |
@ advanceDNA Nairaland bot don hide your comment |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nemesis0147(m): 6:18pm On May 27, 2025 |
SeaTrade:like do you get it😂😂 |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by SamuraiXXX: 7:13pm On May 27, 2025 |
ediko5:If you don't like the way she looks why then will you still go ahead to have sex with her? |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Gotocourt: 7:15pm On May 27, 2025 |
Anijay1212:Na lie bro, I no b pikin🤷🏿. Had to give one werey 30yrs old babe space |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 7:17pm On May 27, 2025 |
SamuraiXXX:Wait, let me Google the answer, I'll be right back with it |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by muyico(m): 7:19pm On May 27, 2025 |
Stop sleeping with women, u can't married |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 7:45pm On May 27, 2025 |
Gotocourt:The lady I'm talking about will be 39 this year according to her. She may even be older than that |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by APOPTOSIS: 7:57pm On May 27, 2025 |
ediko5:GooD you dodged the Bullet. If you must marry, marry a woman that has value. A woman that will enter your life and things will start changing for the better. Never never never Wife a liability, for women would never do such a mistake. Those special ladies are out there. Please don't compromise. Set your standards, for you are the prize especially when you are well to-do. Your decisions can create everlasting suffering for you. So think b4 leaping. |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by peleson1: 8:19pm On May 27, 2025 |
Anabosee:Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Chei nairaland no go kill person ooO |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by columbus007(m): 8:48pm On May 27, 2025 |
😂😂😂😂. Choi.. 🤣 |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Exceed15: 8:57pm On May 27, 2025 |
No be u Carry urself go meet her |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 10:32pm On May 27, 2025 |
@ Seun Baba this your bot should be off the Beta stage by now. Imagine banning me because I only mentioned a name that was banned after the user commented on my post. I was about the quote a comment now only for it to be removed and the comment didn't contain any offensive or censored word |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 11:13pm On May 27, 2025 |
@ Seun, You have programmed your b. O. T in a way that immediately someone complains about it, the person is ba nned Abi? Attached is what I posted that got me banned
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| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 11:17pm On May 27, 2025 |
APOPTOSIS:Yeah man, but a lady tricking a man to impregnate her doesn't mean it will lead to marriage. Based on factors like family background and social status, there are some type of lady a man shouldn't father a child from. So marriage wasn't even part of the option here, I was talking about fathering a child from the wrong person. Even if I want to be a single father, it's definitely not her kind of person. |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by weslay: 12:07am On May 28, 2025 |
muyico:Guys like the OP no dey try at all. Some guys no get spec at all. Such ladies are desperate and are willing to go to any length tk get a man. |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 12:19am On May 28, 2025 |
weslay:😆, 😁 you're very funny You've succeeded in telling us that you have reading and comprehension problem. Anyway, you no be guyman that's why. What's hard for you to understand where I wrote that after the event I never wanted her to met her anymore. Abi, the part I clearly wrote that she's not my spec? So even if person kn ACK olo - sho you go still yarn this one ? Guy, park well,.you never begin play games. |
| Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Smilleydr(m): 12:45am On May 28, 2025 |
ediko5:Omo !!! |
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