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Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Brimstone77(op): 8:25am On May 29, 2025

Depriest2020:
Time will heal ya.

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🙏🙏

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Nobody: 8:49am On May 29, 2025

Brimstone77:
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🙏🙏

the girl toto ehn grin

Only few can relate grin

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Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Zonefree(m): 9:00am On May 29, 2025

Brimstone77:
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She pierced her nose and put a ring on it..

That's a major turn off to me.

She don join them.

You took the best decision for yourself and your sanity.

Give it some time, you'll be fine.

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Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by columbus007(m): 9:38am On May 29, 2025

Brimstone77:
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I believe I'm too emotional, if anyone I get attached to leaves I will miss the person so much that I feel emotional anytime I remember him/her.

I got so emotional anytime I remember our school days and my class mates.

I believe I will easily forget her if only I start another relationship, but for now diving into another relationship is totally ruled out.

I will be fine.

you will be fine, yes of course 👍🏿

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Leun: 10:04am On May 29, 2025

Brimstone77:
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Lols I'm not following her on tik tok,I already blocked her on Facebook, I deleted her contact,so i don't see her status on WhatsApp either.

I don't normally use my tik tok,but anytime I visit tik tok her videos always pop up.

When this happens, click the share button, at the bottom left you'll see not interested, keep doing this every time you see her post
TikTok algorithm will stop showing you her post.

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by kevwemike: 10:20am On May 29, 2025

Brimstone77:
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She pierced her nose and put a ring on it..

That's a major turn off to me.

bro sorry to say, sense far from U ooo

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by ghettochild(m): 10:55am On May 29, 2025

No worry, las las u go move on. Time heals

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by favour32(m): 11:58am On May 29, 2025

Brimstone77:
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I have tried to.

Time will heal you.Dont be in a hurry.
Some guys have gone through what you presently going through and came stronger.
You will get another no in time but don't take regret or bitterness along.

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by favour32(m): 12:03pm On May 29, 2025

What made you left her is understandable.
I don't subscribe to any lady that is happy in piercing her nose or leg chain.
If she can move on as freedom,
why cant you?

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Jayson504(m): 3:07pm On May 29, 2025

My bro this is just a phase that will definitely pass. Try to make new female friends, you don't necessarily have to be in a relationship with them, trust me when you start mingling with new people, you would forget about her in a twinkle of an eye. It's because you've actually not met someone to fill that void that's why it seems as though she is irreplaceable. It's just a matter of time, and you'll get over her.

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by AllBlack: 3:18pm On May 29, 2025

Brimstone77:
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Help how can I just forget about her and move on please!

You pack all her pics put for your phone and you dey here dey cry.

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Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Tekashi89(m): 3:22pm On May 29, 2025

It's a normal thing it's because you haven't gotten a replacement yet as soon as you get another gf you'll forget about her

Brimstone77:
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So about a month ago I broke up with my girlfriend, but since then I have been struggling to move on.

I still think about her,every thing around me keep reminding me of her,though I don't want her back anymore but still I can't let go off her,the memories of her keep flashing in my head.

I don't want to go into any relationship any time soon,but I'm having this feeling that I can never find any other girl like her(she's good though).

Help how can I just forget about her and move on please!

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Emmy2022tech: 6:20pm On May 29, 2025

Brimstone77:
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So about a month ago I broke up with my girlfriend, but since then I have been struggling to move on.

I still think about her,every thing around me keep reminding me of her,though I don't want her back anymore but still I can't let go off her,the memories of her keep flashing in my head.

I don't want to go into any relationship any time soon,but I'm having this feeling that I can never find any other girl like her(she's good though).

Help how can I just forget about her and move on please!

1. That your girl isn’t faithful to you.
2. She is immature (she will grow up soon)
3. You are not financially stable
4. If you don’t leave now, you might train someone else baby.

Let me be honest with you bro, you just have to get busy with something else. You need to be stable financially, free that girl. She doesn’t rate you like that, she sees you as a weak man, the earlier you leave, the better.

If you don’t leave and move on now, you might regret being with her with time. If you want to continue with her, give her time to grow, she is very immature.

On the other hand, you are just insecure of someone you love more than the way she loves you. When a lady starts disobeying you, leave. There are millions of ladies out there. If it’s possible for you, leave your comfort zone. You will be fine.

Assuming you guys are still together, I would teach you something to do and see that she ain’t dating only you.

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Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Brimstone77(op): 7:25pm On May 29, 2025

Emmy2022tech:
1. That your girl isn’t faithful to you.
2. She is immature (she will grow up soon)
3. You are not financially stable
4. If you don’t leave now, you might train someone else baby.

Let me be honest with you bro, you just have to get busy with something else. You need to be stable financially, free that girl. She doesn’t rate you like that, she sees you as a weak man, the earlier you leave, the better.

If you don’t leave and move on now, you might regret being with her with time. If you want to continue with her, give her time to grow, she is very immature.

On the other hand, you are just insecure of someone you love more than the way she loves you. When a lady starts disobeying you, leave. There are millions of ladies out there. If it’s possible for you, leave your comfort zone. You will be fine.

Assuming you guys are still together, I would teach you something to do and see that she ain’t dating only you.

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Thanks alot bro

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by imagrg(m): 8:09pm On May 29, 2025

You were dating a community babe grin

Brimstone77:
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She pierced her nose and put a ring on it..

That's a major turn off to me.

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by OlaOfLagos(m): 8:18pm On May 29, 2025

columbus007:
Quitting one particular lady you have been use to is hard bro I was once there and as I type still regretting, my own na since 2015,i nor fit find another babe again that I like just like that babe.

It’s vice-versa

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Proserpina: 8:21pm On May 29, 2025

Be careful who you make memories with they may come back to haunt you.

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by columbus007(m): 11:26pm On May 29, 2025

OlaOfLagos:
It’s vice-versa

you think they also go through this as well.?.

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by OlaOfLagos(m): 4:07am On May 30, 2025

columbus007:
you think they also go through this as well.?.

Yes they do, it is not gender based. We’re all humans!

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Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Smithwilliams826: 7:18pm On May 30, 2025

He did na.

chucks185:
Why did you break up with her

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Smithwilliams826: 7:19pm On May 30, 2025

Brimstone77:
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She pierced her nose and put a ring on it..

That's a major turn off to me.

na olosho u dey deal with. U beta move on.

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by TenderManiac: 8:52pm On May 30, 2025

Solution lies in the last line of your write-up.
Just forget about her and move on.

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Nobody: 9:14pm On May 30, 2025

What a load of horseshiit cheesy

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by janda1: 11:34am On May 31, 2025

Brimstone77:
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She pierced her nose and put a ring on it..

That's a major turn off to me.

You are christian, chronic one

You are not serious, if actually you are saying the truth

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by drstranged: 12:05pm On May 31, 2025

Brimstone77:
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I believe I'm too emotional, if anyone I get attached to leaves I will miss the person so much that I feel emotional anytime I remember him/her.

I got so emotional anytime I remember our school days and my class mates.

I believe I will easily forget her if only I start another relationship, but for now diving into another relationship is totally ruled out.

I will be fine.

Guy, you talk like a woman

Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Dexy4yah(m): 1:14pm On May 31, 2025

Brimstone77:
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So about a month ago I broke up with my girlfriend, but since then I have been struggling to move on.

I still think about her,every thing around me keep reminding me of her,though I don't want her back anymore but still I can't let go off her,the memories of her keep flashing in my head.

I don't want to go into any relationship any time soon,but I'm having this feeling that I can never find any other girl like her(she's good though).

Help how can I just forget about her and move on please!

Its a normal thing for those of us who are very emotional, its not easy to let go or to move on easily.
I’m too emotional too, its just our nature.
When i brokeup with my girl it wasn’t easy moving on, I’m too emotional.
The only solution and answer to your question is TIME…just give it time….feel whatever you want to feel, let it hurt you and all that, but with time you will get over it….time is coming when you see her her pics or videos on social media it will be like nothing to you.

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Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Brimstone77(op): 2:45pm On May 31, 2025

Dexy4yah:
Its a normal thing for those of us who are very emotional, its not easy to let go or to move on easily.
I’m too emotional too, its just our nature.
When i brokeup with my girl it wasn’t easy moving on, I’m too emotional.
The only solution and answer to your question is TIME…just give it time….feel whatever you want to feel, let it hurt you and all that, but with time you will get over it….time is coming when you see her her pics or videos on social media it will be like nothing to you.

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You're absolutely right.

I'm just too emotional for my liking..

Sometimes I think I'm crazy.

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Re: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by Brimstone77(op): 2:46pm On May 31, 2025

janda1:
You are christian, chronic one

You are not serious, if actually you are saying the truth

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Chronicle Christian?

That's probably not me,I don't just like girs with tattoos and nose rings, it have nothing to do with religion.

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