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Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 5:35pm On May 31, 2025
Lanmonfishery:
Auntie has moved on na…no talk wetin u no know just to prove a point
😂 😂
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Rokiatt(f): 2:02pm On Jun 02, 2025
Lanmonfishery:
Auntie has moved on na…no talk wetin u no know just to prove a point
E pain am grin
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by duduade(m): 9:14pm On Jun 02, 2025
ediko5:
I usually laugh at most young girls who think the game is still simple like some years back.

They jump around during their prime age shouting 'men are scum', I can't date this and that kinda man', 'twueh - look at the kind of man the other lady got married to, God forbid' and when they've advanced in age and finally ready to settle down mostly without any financial foundation, an innocent, handsome, well to do and sometimes younger man will be readily and hastily available for marriage.

There's this lady I met last year at an event, at first I thought she's one of these single mamas only to find out she's still claiming 'baby girl' - deceiving herself. Fast forward, I did my talking and was able to secure her the same day. We spent 2 days at the event and when we were back to town she started preaching love to me claiming I was very lucky to have her that she do give men tough time up to 6 months. (For my mind - I can't even toast you more than twice)

The funny attitude in her is that she's not even aware of her old age - She's very pompous yet no levels. This is someone that did her NYSC 16 years ago, she hasn't paid house rent before after then because she lives in her parent house in the city but the only business she can boast of is POS under the umbrella after 16 years of NYSC. But hear the way she will boast about the standard and quality of man she can accept to marry.

She approached me with a serious relationship drama over the phone since I never intended to met her again because spec wise she's not my spec (she has a flat front and back) not to talk of her older age with wrinkled face - after series of disturbance from her, I Invited her to my house.

Long story short, the lady wanted me to do something with her raw without protection and as a sharp guy and from her previous rantings i knew she was looking for an innocent young man to pin down.

I said no, I must use CD. When she left my house - she complain over the phone that I don't love her that's why I used CD (in my mind, love keee you there old cargo with wrinkled face). She's been disturbing to visit since last year till early this year, I no answer.

My friend recently told me she's pregnant, when I inquired from her she responded that since she can't find a GOOD HUSBAND so she have to find someone to give her a child she can use to hold herself.

After spending years shouting I can't marry this kinda man, she ended up getting pregnant for an unknown man which I doubt will be able to support the upkeep of the child
Man to man

What have you achieved with all this Cho Cho Cho you just wrote
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Lanmonfishery(m): 9:46pm On Jun 02, 2025
Rokiatt:
E pain am grin
Sure…it’s not good thing to joke with someone’s struggles
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by AfeezShomorin(m): 1:09am On Jun 03, 2025
ediko5:
I usually laugh at most young girls who think the game is still simple like some years back.

They jump around during their prime age shouting 'men are scum', I can't date this and that kinda man', 'twueh - look at the kind of man the other lady got married to, God forbid' and when they've advanced in age and finally ready to settle down mostly without any financial foundation, an innocent, handsome, well to do and sometimes younger man will be readily and hastily available for marriage.

There's this lady I met last year at an event, at first I thought she's one of these single mamas only to find out she's still claiming 'baby girl' - deceiving herself. Fast forward, I did my talking and was able to secure her the same day. We spent 2 days at the event and when we were back to town she started preaching love to me claiming I was very lucky to have her that she do give men tough time up to 6 months. (For my mind - I can't even toast you more than twice)

The funny attitude in her is that she's not even aware of her old age - She's very pompous yet no levels. This is someone that did her NYSC 16 years ago, she hasn't paid house rent before after then because she lives in her parent house in the city but the only business she can boast of is POS under the umbrella after 16 years of NYSC. But hear the way she will boast about the standard and quality of man she can accept to marry.

She approached me with a serious relationship drama over the phone since I never intended to met her again because spec wise she's not my spec (she has a flat front and back) not to talk of her older age with wrinkled face - after series of disturbance from her, I Invited her to my house.

Long story short, the lady wanted me to do something with her raw without protection and as a sharp guy and from her previous rantings i knew she was looking for an innocent young man to pin down.

I said no, I must use CD. When she left my house - she complain over the phone that I don't love her that's why I used CD (in my mind, love keee you there old cargo with wrinkled face). She's been disturbing to visit since last year till early this year, I no answer.

My friend recently told me she's pregnant, when I inquired from her she responded that since she can't find a GOOD HUSBAND so she have to find someone to give her a child she can use to hold herself.

After spending years shouting I can't marry this kinda man, she ended up getting pregnant for an unknown man which I doubt will be able to support the upkeep of the child
You be wetin Yoruba people dey call agbaya, see as you dey run mouth kpa kpa kpa like tap wey dey leak grin grin grin
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Proserpina: 11:39am On Jun 03, 2025
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Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody:
duduade:
Man to man

What have you achieved with all this Cho Cho Cho you just wrote
Nairaland no gree me respond you
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jun 03, 2025
duduade see am here

Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jun 03, 2025
AfeezShomorin:
You be wetin Yoruba people dey call agbaya, see as you dey run mouth kpa kpa kpa like tap wey dey leak grin grin grin
😂 😂 This story sef no get weight, I get many similar stories with old cargos
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Gerrard59(m): 10:34pm On Jun 06, 2025
One, you should avoid those ladies who christened themselves as "feminists", especially those who have "feminist witch" on their Twitter bios.

Two, it's not every lady you invite to your abode and certainly not every lady you have sex with.

Lastly, it's derogatory to call a lady "old cargo". You don't like her for her age? Let her go. The name calling is uncalled for.
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 10:38pm On Jun 06, 2025
Gerrard59:
One, you should avoid those ladies who christened themselves as "feminists", especially those who have "feminist witch" on their Twitter bios.

Two, it's not every lady you invite to your abode and certainly not every lady you have sex with.

Lastly, it's derogatory to call a lady "old cargo". You don't like her for her age? Let her go. The name calling is uncalled for.
But it's okay for them to shame men with names like 'broke' right ?

I called her old cargo mainly due to her attitude of downgrading men when she is completely empty at older age
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Gerrard59(m): 2:08am On Jun 07, 2025
ediko5:
But it's okay for them to shame men with names like 'broke' right ?

I called her old cargo mainly due to her attitude of downgrading men when she is completely empty at older age
Well, fair game then. The alpha male crusade rose after a persistent and consistent smearing of men on social media aka men-are-scum and all men-are-rapists. They caused everything as they piled on men with all sorts of words. Now, men are revolting. May the best party win.

I can understand the agony behind your first statement, considering how our young women broke-shame their male counterparts as if making money is that easy. cheesy
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 9:01am On Jun 07, 2025
Gerrard59:
Well, fair game then. The alpha male crusade rose after a persistent and consistent smearing of men on social media aka men-are-scum and all men-are-rapists. They caused everything as they piled on men with all sorts of words. Now, men are revolting. May the best party win.

I can understand the agony behind your first statement, considering how our young women broke-shame their male counterparts as if making money is that easy
. cheesy
You get the point.
And the name calling are usually carried out by the unproduc-tive ladies.

Her case for instance, She finished her NYSC 16 years ago, she has independent parents living on pension with older siblings responsible for her parents, she lives in her parent house yet the only business she can boast of after 16 years of graduation is POS under the umbrella.
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by MikaelDare(m): 2:55pm On Jun 08, 2025
ediko5:
The lady I'm talking about will be 39 this year according to her.

She may even be older than that
But what's the age difference between you two? Just a range will be fine.
I just want to know the extent to which such ladies can overlook age when they're advanced agewise.
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jun 11, 2025
MikaelDare:
But what's the age difference between you two? Just a range will be fine.
I just want to know the extent to which such ladies can overlook age when they're advanced agewise.
4 years older according to her 39 yrs
But her looks is more older than that anyway (not disputing what she said though)
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by MikaelDare(m): 6:18am On Jun 12, 2025
ediko5:
4 years older according to her 39 yrs
But her looks is more older than that anyway (not disputing what she said though)
Okay, not so bad.
The only issue I have with such ladies is that while in their early to mid 20s, they keep talking about how they can't date or marry even their agemates, but once they clock 33+, desperation sets in, and they all of a sudden don't mind marrying and submitting to guys they're many years older than.
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by Nobody: 9:11am On Jun 12, 2025
MikaelDare:
Okay, not so bad.
The only issue I have with such ladies is that while in their early to mid 20s, they keep talking about how they can't date or marry even their agemates, but once they clock 33+, desperation sets in, and they all of a sudden don't mind marrying and submitting to guys they're many years older than.
Women mostly think the game is simple.
When they're in their early to mid 20s, they date married men, sugar daddies older than their dads, Yahoo boys, armed robbers etc. At this stage they call legit young hustlers small boys but when they've clocked 30 they'll start smiling at 32 - 35 young legit hustler men for immediate marriage
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by PulcherGee(m): 9:02am On Oct 16, 2025
You guys are very funny here I swear
Re: 'Old Cargo' Feminist Almost Used Me To Settle Herself by okoloto: 10:21am On Oct 16, 2025
Forget that cock and bully story. No court will for marriage. She will only end up a baby mama.
The worst that can happen is you take care until she born with your capacity ooo and then dna. Law no fit send you to go thief grin
But it's always better to date someone you can marry incase of eventuality and also think of destroying someone's life. Some bannies can be desperate and reason from anus grin

Anijay1212:
Pray you don't meet a crazy girl from an equally crazy family because if you do eh that concept of pinning men down will become clearer to you. Oga nah the speed of light you go take marry her before you sef go even understand wetin sup.
👀👀👀
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