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Checking your partner' phone while in a relationship or marriage is not advisable at all... Cos as you check/dig, you are going to dig up dirt in the end ..

To avoid having high BP, avoid checking your girlfriend or boyfriend' phone .. if you are fond of doing it, you go wound o....

It's very terrible. Naso she go discover say I have two baby mamas, some other girls(especially one at our workplace).

There is nothing she doesn't call me. A manipulator, devil, wicked person, demon, efulefu, etc.

I gave you the phone to play Royal Match, you should have done just that.

Omo.. I weak bro.

Anything wey your eyes see, you take

It depends on the relationship you have with your partner

It's bad oo

What exactly are we hiding
This generation and cheating

Yes if you are planning to marry the person, you deserve to know.

Be prepared for the aftermath especially if you use that crazy app

That's for babies. Have been with my babe for 3years, I have never suspected her for anything. I didn't know her password but anytime I have a thing to do on her phone, she willingly unlock for me. I won't allow things that are not to kill our smooth sailing.


Besides, you check phone, you no check phone, person wey go cheat go cheat.

This is a heavy topic, no be small matter. Let me be real with you: if you’re looking for peace of mind, just no bother to check. Especially if you be man, because you go just find wahala instead of peace. If your wife really loves you and dey sure say she dey faithful, she no go hide her phone from you. Same thing go for your husband.
Once you start feeling anxious and checking up on each other, that na sign say things don spoil. If trust no dey for your relationship, better make you sit down and talk about am. If e no go work, sometimes e best to just part ways before things turn ugly. Remember, the only person wey you fit trust fully na your creator.

Written by a woman

For your sake don't check

If you can give him your body but lock your phone, you're clearly hiding something. Cos the logical question should be has your body become more private than your phone?

Same goes to guys as well. You shouldn't have any problem granting access to someone you freely and comfortably give your body to.

For me I cannot date any girl who tells me her phone is her privacy, you can't be lying naked on my bed and be talking about privacy. There's definitely something in that phone you don't want me to see.

Naya25:
Checking your partner' phone while in a relationship or marriage is not advisable at all... Cos as you check/dig, you are going to dig up dirt in the end ..

To avoid having high BP, avoid checking your girlfriend or boyfriend' phone .. if you are fond of doing it, you go wound o....

That thing wey you dey find, when you finally see am, Shebi you go calm down?

So you know there’s dirt but won’t check because you are afraid to dig it up. You will rather live in fools paradise. Some of us will rather find out and be partnerless.

I don't check people's phones, not even a partner. It's none of my business.

It is very bad, that's a childish act...

I buy new phone for my wife anytime I feel she needs née phone, bit that doesn't give me the audacity, just because I bought it for her or because I'm the husband to have non permission access to her phone...

I don't even take her phone, my kids of 4years and 1year plus always rush to give her the phone, anytime is ringing...

I trust my wife and she trust me too, that doesn't mean I don't have password to her phone, but I don't need to open her phone behind her....

To live long in this world... Avoid checking your partner phone👂👂👂 even anybody phone. Shun Unnecessary headache.

Very bad.

The thing you are looking for, you will find it and you will cry

Study ur partner b4 u release ur phone

By d time ur marriage don reach like 10 years U go don taya to dey check your spouse's phone

Don't check .....na onions dey there e go everyly Make you cry

AerialMapper:
Very bad.

The thing you are looking for, you will find it and you will cry

It's better you find it now and cry now than to find it later and cry later which might be too late

It depends on how your relationship is modelled.
If you are very free with yourselves you can check it cos of the mutual understanding between you both but if you are the type sneaking to catch him red handed, that thing you are looking for, you will definitely find it and after that you lose sleep and start crying.

Very bad.... Me and my wife use each other's phones..... Nothing to hide. Even at that I don't go through her phone and I don't really care if she goes through mine when she uses it

Charlieabc:
That's for babies. Have been with my babe for 3years, I have never suspected her for anything. I didn't know her password but anytime I have a thing to do on her phone, she willingly unlock for me. I won't allow things that are not to kill our smooth sailing.

Smh

If you check my phone. That thing wey you dey find, your eyes go see am.

The more you know life is simple and you will die one day, all these type of questions will not pop up...

I use the same password with my wife and she knows all my accounts and password..

Negroid001:
If you check my phone. That thing wey you dey find, your eyes go see am.

I personally don't see anything wrong with your partner checking your phone, it shows that he or she loves you, she's only trying to protect what hers, any partner that doesn't care if you are cheating on her doesn't love you, she's either there for the money or for the fun

What works for one person…

Chevrolet076:
That thing wey you dey find, when you finally see am, Shebi you go calm down?

E better make you see am and calm down than to be taken for a fuull.