₦airaland Forum

Tolu2024:
I am not cheating, I was talking about my past experience with female online vendors before I married her .

Okay, pardon my manners.

People outside marriage want to get in.

People in marriages want to get out.

CTee1:
Time to settle down but nothing full outside…
Single at 37yrs, I’m tired.

The earlier the better

mjuvey3:
My dear brother,I'm in your shoes

I'm 37,single with no kids but I keep meeting money hungry women....Even the decent ones who comes from good homes and have high paying jobs are money hungry and entitled.

There are still few good women out there but the problem is,they don't go out much and they don't reply DMs on Social media....You can only get them through connections or if you're lucky to meet them on the road or at a particular spot like eateries,malls, church,salon,markets etc

It is well

Why not ask people you trust, who wish you well such as relatives to recommend someone for you? It just cut you off the stress

CTee1:
Time to settle down but nothing full outside…
Single at 37yrs, I’m tired.

when you are ready you know what to do and it is not by creating a thread for it

The day I see a single Nigerian man admit he might be the cause of his inability to marry like they assume for women, I will share 57 crocodiles on Nairaland.

Ok. Congrats

Be Wise man

Natedoggg:
I swear na now I know having different girlfriends and having a good wife to settle down with.

Even with your millions, na God go help you except you wan settle for rubbish.

If you no want get mental breakdown, abeg avoid those 17_22 especially those in the university.

Even the working class go still hustle you

It's tiring !!

The 17/22 are always very easy to control & tame. And you’re like to find a virgin amidst that age..

Your advice get as e be..

Is it that you don't have the financial capacity?

This phase can be really hard if you're not careful because the crop of ladies outside are hungry and moneytionship due to the jagaban economy

After i hammer...

👇🏽👇🏽🙏🏽👇🏽👇🏽

MrMcJay:
People outside marriage want to get in.

People in marriages want to get out.

Life no balance

I never had a wild phase. I’m not settling down… yet. Things are expensive and children are hard to raise. Let me keep growing income and look for a partner ready for a DINK existence. Dodging adult females looking to hook a man with pregnancy is my constant battle these days.

CTee1:
Time to settle down but nothing full outside…
Single at 37yrs, I’m tired.

For a man, life start at 30. Maybe you just getting the memoir at 37. See you see 40 in 3mins.

Thier is no way you've not seen your wife, maybe you never considered her as the one. The earlier you move now, the better. Otherwise in 3mins, abii years, your wife must have cross 32.

And you know how risky that will be if you don't have serious resources to pull through.

CTee1:
Seriously, I’ve tried several relationships to no avail. It’s now hungership… 90% of them dey hustle u…

I can connect you to one decent lady. Very homely; everything you would a wife should be. You will thank me later... after 10 years.
But my only fear is that I don't know you personally. Such a good lady should not fall into the hands of a wrong husband. I know her because she my wife's sister.

Hollyharjii:
Life no balance

Oga life balance, na the person no stand well

mjuvey3:
My dear brother,I'm in your shoes

I'm 37,single with no kids but I keep meeting money hungry women....Even the decent ones who comes from good homes and have high paying jobs are money hungry and entitled.

There are still few good women out there but the problem is,they don't go out much and they don't reply DMs on Social media....You can only get them through connections or if you're lucky to meet them on the road or at a particular spot like eateries,malls, church,salon,markets etc

It is well

As a man, you need to have a child in your 20s or at worse 30... E get why

Offpoint1:
As a man, you need to have a child in your 20s or at worse 30... E get why

Na so una go dey talk like cultists why not share the reason if you actually have the young man's interest

Are you a lesbian?

Tolu2024:
Happy I married a good wife though she have her own fault but nothing compared to the ones on the street.

I don’t trust home delivery girls I knack 3 I met in uyo . The funniest 😂 is the one that sell bed sheets I told her i have 4 different types bedsheets, she insists I will buy from her I told her if she will test it and she agreed.

What are you settling down from? I always wonder why people use the word "settle down" when referring to getting married.

tete7000:
What are you settling down from? I always wonder why people use the word "settle down" when referring to getting married.

As opposed to "level up"... I feel u

mjuvey3:
My dear brother,I'm in your shoes

I'm 37,single with no kids but I keep meeting money hungry women....Even the decent ones who comes from good homes and have high paying jobs are money hungry and entitled.

There are still few good women out there but the problem is,they don't go out much and they don't reply DMs on Social media....You can only get them through connections or if you're lucky to meet them on the road or at a particular spot like eateries,malls, church,salon,markets etc

It is well

I swear I don tire, yawo Yawo ladies here and there

CTee1:
I’m a working class bro.
Salary 300-400k/mth
girls out there are something else 🤦🏾‍♂️

my brother leave that 300-400k salary that money is nothing o. That's what I spend for my family monthly.

CTee1:
I don’t tire bro

omo we plenty wey dey this table o
The ones wey dey hover around me I no like them, I just dey knack them

Samantha125:
As women, it's our duty to be entitled to your money the same way it's your duty to be entitled to our submission... You provide and we submit...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Be entitled to the money and see what comes next....submission is jus a ****** for u people

Na must to marry? Must you marry to achieve your purpose in life, Omo I don't prioritise marriage not with what I've seen, nothing kills faster than ending up with the wrong person, love fades, and there's no guarantee you'll find happiness after tying the knot, if your fear is procreation, baby mama is the way to go, you mustn't get married before you can kpai in peace.

Juliearth:
You are certain all Nigerian women are thirsty for money because you have carried out an extensive research and the indices are pointing to that hypothesis, right? It is men like you and comments like this that makes people like op confused about Nigerian women. Don't be a pun in the devil's campaign against marriage and family.

Until one woman/gal test ur IQ before u go realize....though not all woen/gal but they are 2/10

mjuvey3:
My dear brother,I'm in your shoes

I'm 37,single with no kids but I keep meeting money hungry women....Even the decent ones who comes from good homes and have high paying jobs are money hungry and entitled.

There are still few good women out there but the problem is,they don't go out much and they don't reply DMs on Social media....You can only get them through connections or if you're lucky to meet them on the road or at a particular spot like eateries,malls, church,salon,markets etc

It is well

there’s no good woman in Nigeria.pick one mad one and refurbish her.

The state of the economy has really mad it hard. An average woman out there is trying to survive first.

Don't go with the mindset of 'I'm look for a wife', Look for friendship. At 37 you really don't have the luxury of time but I bet you don't want to choose the wrong woman too . Safe brother 🙏