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Re: Time To Settle Down by nedekid: 8:57pm On Jun 06, 2025
Sp33i:
There are still ladies o. Chai, And i know a good lady like that but i don lost my old phone o. Chai. There are many xtian, good valued, virgin xtian ladies sef. Do not give up
Lol, you wan give am babe you don rock before weh never marry.
Na so my guy tell me too when I talk the same thing.
Re: Time To Settle Down by highchief1: 8:57pm On Jun 06, 2025
Samantha125:
As women, it's our duty to be entitled to your money the same way it's your duty to be entitled to our submission... You provide and we submit...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
this one na dead girl.i pity single naija men.
Re: Time To Settle Down by highchief1: 8:59pm On Jun 06, 2025
Olachase:
The only advice I have for you

Don't settle for a single mom

According to what one poster said look out Nigeria try Ghana or Kenya 400k as income is something bro

Nigerian girls don't love they're just after the money

I know what my sister did to her husband
hmmmm,talking from inside experience o.
Re: Time To Settle Down by Gabrielshow24: 8:59pm On Jun 06, 2025
Sp33i:
There are still ladies o. Chai, And i know a good lady like that but i don lost my old phone o. Chai. There are many xtian, good valued, virgin xtian ladies sef. Do not give up
"virgin"😔 xtian👀 ladies😵‍💫.
Re: Time To Settle Down by BItt: 9:02pm On Jun 06, 2025
Chose women between 18 to 25 at most
Re: Time To Settle Down by Angellucifer: 9:05pm On Jun 06, 2025
Na wa... Same here, mama don frustrate person with how far your wife... Money and all no be problem, Na to meet the right one... I don tire with all this orphans and send me.
Re: Time To Settle Down by CTee1(op): 9:06pm On Jun 06, 2025
Breaker001:
I can connect you to one decent lady. Very homely; everything you would a wife should be. You will thank me later... after 10 years.
But my only fear is that I don't know you personally. Such a good lady should not fall into the hands of a wrong husband. I know her because she my wife's sister.
Let’s connect plz 🙏
Re: Time To Settle Down by CTee1(op): 9:06pm On Jun 06, 2025
nedekid:
Lol, you wan give am babe you don rock before weh never marry.
Na so my guy tell me too when I talk the same thing.
This life no balance aswr
Re: Time To Settle Down by CTee1(op): 9:08pm On Jun 06, 2025
Angellucifer:
Na wa... Same here, mama don frustrate person with how far your wife... Money and all no be problem, Na to meet the right one... I don tire with all this orphans and send me.
E no easy my bro
Re: Time To Settle Down by Snowx:
Sp33i:
State your qualities. You never may know
On the same table....39 have been searching since 3yrs I swear...nothing dey outside aswear...for those that will think I have seen life..Nah..wasn't ready those years die to finances but now I can boast of something..and my body count never pass two..cause I am careful when it comes to intimacy..

Social media really influence some girls negatively...

Incase your are reserved and want to settle down and you re from Anambra..let's hook up..age..27-30
Zero eight one four five zero seven three two three zero
Re: Time To Settle Down by SeaTrade(m): 9:11pm On Jun 06, 2025
GeneralPula:
The 17/22 are always very easy to control & tame. And you’re like to find a virgin amidst that age..

Your advice get as e be..
You dey mind am?
Na just to get this age range from good homes.
Lots of 30+ women with great personalities and have their own keep,
The problem is that their body is getting tired.
If I could marry 30+,I'd have 2 kids by now sef in the marriage.
I think 22-25 is ideal.
Re: Time To Settle Down by Kaycee54321(m): 9:13pm On Jun 06, 2025
ufotty2001:
Please, do not Marry a religious woman.. just look for a decent girl and marry but not too religious.
I've seen this sentiment one too many times. Please, what's wrong with religious women? What's your experience or experiences you've heard?
Re: Time To Settle Down by Snowx: 9:13pm On Jun 06, 2025
mjuvey3:
My dear brother,I'm in your shoes

I'm 37,single with no kids but I keep meeting money hungry women....Even the decent ones who comes from good homes and have high paying jobs are money hungry and entitled.

There are still few good women out there but the problem is,they don't go out much and they don't reply DMs on Social media....You can only get them through connections or if you're lucky to meet them on the road or at a particular spot like eateries,malls, church,salon,markets etc

It is well
Nothing dey street ..I have searched ..even if the girl no go school but will give me peace and not materialistic..just have passion for something that will final bring money...but no wife material aswear
Re: Time To Settle Down by highchief1: 9:14pm On Jun 06, 2025
ufotty2001:
Please, do not Marry a religious woman.. just look for a decent girl and marry but not too religious.
wetin religious woman do u again
Re: Time To Settle Down by Gerrard59(m): 9:22pm On Jun 06, 2025
mjuvey3:
My dear brother,I'm in your shoes

I'm 37,single with no kids but I keep meeting money hungry women....Even the decent ones who comes from good homes and have high paying jobs are money hungry and entitled.

There are still few good women out there but the problem is,they don't go out much and they don't reply DMs on Social media....You can only get them through connections or if you're lucky to meet them on the road or at a particular spot like eateries,malls, church,salon,markets etc

It is well
The hypergamy has gone on steroids! I still ask, what do these women use their money for?
Re: Time To Settle Down by Scamburster(m): 9:23pm On Jun 06, 2025
GeneralPula:
The 17/22 are always very easy to control & tame. And you’re like to find a virgin amidst that age..

Your advice get as e be..
You dey mind the guy. Only that to find a working class lady at that age range is very slim.
Re: Time To Settle Down by FunnyDude(m): 9:24pm On Jun 06, 2025
Clemss88:
my brother leave that 300-400k salary undecided that money is nothing o. That's what I spend for my family monthly.
You spend that for your family monthly because you're the one that created the lifestyle, and you know the kind of leverage you have.

You don't know op personal struggle.

Do you know how many people will rush that his job when he leaves?
Re: Time To Settle Down by Gerrard59(m):
eepeepook:
I never had a wild phase. I’m not settling down… yet. Things are expensive and children are hard to raise. Let me keep growing income and look for a partner ready for a DINK existence. Dodging adult females looking to hook a man with pregnancy is my constant battle these days.
I'm curious, what do you get out of the marriage since there are no children? I hardly come across Black men who desire a DINK relationship. Besides, many men in Nigeria aren't open to it.
Re: Time To Settle Down by Gerrard59(m): 9:26pm On Jun 06, 2025
RichIgboBoy:
omo we plenty wey dey this table o
The ones wey dey hover around me I no like them, I just dey knack them
I dey find Phamarcist or nurse or babe wey get good handwork
There are many of such ladies. You need to find themselves in their circles. Literally go out to meet them.
Re: Time To Settle Down by Sharpsharp00123: 9:27pm On Jun 06, 2025
GeneralPula:
The 17/22 are always very easy to control & tame. And you’re like to find a virgin amidst that age..

Your advice get as e be..
they are still in their hoe phase.

Youthful exuberance will take over n they will definitely want to explore.

They will easily b influenced by peer pressure, don't b surprised if she goes to a party n they engage in groupie
Re: Time To Settle Down by samuelson06(m): 9:27pm On Jun 06, 2025
flokii:
Nowadays, na who wan chop your money full outside.. majority of them are vendors doing home delivery.
Fuckin' yahoo yahoo boys in the name of home delivery.
Re: Time To Settle Down by Gerrard59(m): 9:28pm On Jun 06, 2025
dauntless15:
Na must to marry? Must you marry to achieve your purpose in life, Omo I don't prioritise marriage not with what I've seen, nothing kills faster than ending up with the wrong person, love fades, and there's no guarantee you'll find happiness after tying the knot, if your fear is procreation, baby mama is the way to go, you mustn't get married before you can kpai in peace.
Children raised in the two parent household have better prospects than those raised in single parent homes. That's the global result. So all these baby-mama comes across as irresponsibilty. It's hard to see a responsible man intentionally state he wants to have a baby-mama arrangement.
Re: Time To Settle Down by Gerrard59(m): 9:30pm On Jun 06, 2025
BItt:
Chose women between 18 to 25 at most
But young men these days want ladies who are earning money. It takes time to earn money, so 18 - 25 is out of the equation.
Re: Time To Settle Down by Sharpsharp00123: 9:30pm On Jun 06, 2025
RichIgboBoy:
omo we plenty wey dey this table o
The ones wey dey hover around me I no like them, I just dey knack them
I dey find Phamarcist or nurse or babe wey get good handwork
nurse wey go dey go night duty?

Hope u know what they do there?

Go to twitter n feed your eyes
Re: Time To Settle Down by mcdokwe(m):
Problem sometimes is that we all, male and female set our eyes on gold and most often than not lose site of the very gold covered in dust.
May God help us all.
Re: Time To Settle Down by Positiveme2020: 9:41pm On Jun 06, 2025
Let me post mine Any lady that is serious to get married between now and August next year DM.
Re: Time To Settle Down by lusid: 9:52pm On Jun 06, 2025
mjuvey3:
My dear brother,I'm in your shoes

I'm 37,single with no kids but I keep meeting money hungry women....Even the decent ones who comes from good homes and have high paying jobs are money hungry and entitled.

There are still few good women out there but the problem is,they don't go out much and they don't reply DMs on Social media....You can only get them through connections or if you're lucky to meet them on the road or at a particular spot like eateries,malls, church,salon,markets etc

It is well
you approach gals on the road? Don't they embarrass you?
Re: Time To Settle Down by lusid: 9:56pm On Jun 06, 2025
Tolu2024:
Happy I married a good wife though she have her own fault but nothing compared to the ones on the street.

I don’t trust home delivery girls I knack 3 I met in uyo . The funniest 😂 is the one that sell bed sheets I told her i have 4 different types bedsheets, she insists I will buy from her I told her if she will test it and she agreed.
I'm thinking of toasting a POS gal I saw by the roadside. Should I go ahead
Re: Time To Settle Down by lusid: 10:02pm On Jun 06, 2025
eepeepook:
I never had a wild phase. I’m not settling down… yet. Things are expensive and children are hard to raise. Let me keep growing income and look for a partner ready for a DINK existence. Dodging adult females looking to hook a man with pregnancy is my constant battle these days.
you meet gals on the road
Re: Time To Settle Down by lusid: 10:03pm On Jun 06, 2025
Munzy14:
For a man, life start at 30. Maybe you just getting the memoir at 37. See you see 40 in 3mins.

Thier is no way you've not seen your wife, maybe you never considered her as the one. The earlier you move now, the better. Otherwise in 3mins, abii years, your wife must have cross 32.

And you know how risky that will be if you don't have serious resources to pull through.
you never marry mariangeles since all these years
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