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Eriokanmi:
In marriage, age means nothing. My dad is younger than my mum. You can never know

Your Dad probably married in his 20s and economy was relatively better then.

DataDoc:
Your Dad probably married in his 20s and economy was relatively better then.

Right though. But it still happens today. My wife's friend is 3 years older than her husband

Face your studies.

bernardluccky:
I have issues with my girlfriend.

We have being dating since 2021 so 2022 I enter school but I discover the school have no certificate so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she suggest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes.

I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state. It's being 2 years since we see each other
And now I done dey beg her for 2 weeks now.

Note: we have being dating for 4 years no intimacy no kiss no photo together.
The aim was till after marriage and we both 22.

Please I need advice.

Go for counseling.

I used to be like the OP.
I met a girl during uni on 2go Chioma Nwachukwu.
Very sweet girl.
I thought she was all in all and was going to be my wife. Girl was dieing for another guy who disvirg her and only used me to catch cruise.
That experience made me forget anything woman..
Fast forward today na them dey rush.
So OP just focus on your studies. When the time is right, na babes go rush you.

You're both 22
Bro finish school and hustle.
That girl is not for you. Give her 2 years max and watch her get married

Robnectar

RealityKings1:
Robnectar

Wetin happen

Robnectar:
Wetin happen

show me love br

RealityKings1:
show me love br

Ur papa I no be gay nah

Bamidele

Robnectar:
Ur papa I no be gay nah

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Thank you br

RealityKings1:
Thank you br

Nah screenshot from telegram br🤣

Robnectar:
Nah screenshot from telegram br🤣

Add me on there

No kiss No knacking and in different states...
Oboy u no dey any real relationship before. Na communication relationship u dey. D girl don dey real relationship dey enjoy her life. U dey cry mumu love.

bernardluccky:
Hmmm she told me that kissing is illegal
We haven't being together alone before
When we were together in Edo she don't use to come to my place I am the one who often visit her till we traveled.
But my siblings use to tell me that we not dating we are just friends.

Your siblings are right

You guys are just friends aren’t dating

bernardluccky:
I have issues with my girlfriend.

We have being dating since 2021 so 2022 I enter school but I discover the school have no certificate so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she suggest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes.

I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state. It's being 2 years since we see each other
And now I done dey beg her for 2 weeks now.

Note: we have being dating for 4 years no intimacy no kiss no photo together.
The aim was till after marriage and we both 22.

Please I need advice.

Start your detachment process like this,calm it withdrawal from a drug in which the drug is love, exactly same scenario with me too but mine was 4years,I had mad love but saw that I was still struggling and in school,I knew that this struggle would still take more time self before I became strong enough so I had to start detaching,it's not easy but it's worth it,same girl I saw recently on TikTok celebrating a year of dating another guy around February,and irony of it was we were still together last year beginning,if I hadn't detached I would still be at her mercy not knowing she had another serious person,Omo move your way,being single comes with peace and clarity of mind,even though love is great,but naija girls will teach you a lesson that even when you marry,you will be wondering if you have any love left in your heart for your wife