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Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by FalseProphet1(m): 7:17am On Jun 11, 2025
folake4u:
My story. Except the bolded part. grin grin
Bing one big goat to my spiritual center for prayers and before the end of July you too would own a big car.

This I have seen.
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by UnknownQueen(f): 7:22am On Jun 11, 2025
RealityKings1:
He said he sees you as an egg
Show him shege, tear his soul apart 🤣

Show him full evil egg shege,
Hahahahhaha...
Light wind baby, nobody desires in formenting and having trouble always , I truly do love you baby cheesy cheesy cheesy but I can't stand u drinking and eating my wahala everyday...........
It's better we love ourselves from a distance baby grin
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by lightwind(m): 7:47am On Jun 11, 2025
UnknownQueen:
Ok make I give u my own details......
I'm 37, I don' born two pikin, I'm a Yoruba woman and I get very aggressive character , how u wan cope with these my werryhuhhuh grin grin grin grin cheesy grin
We are almost same age, i will be glad to teach you my language if you want, i have lived in Lagos before i understand a little Yoruba language a bit advantage to me. Please that aggressive part i know it will fade away gradually as you gets happier with a caring new husband and beautiful family. You won't have long reasons to be aggressive.That's for sure.
I have a son who's 10 yr old now, my baby mama at that time remarried because i was very very broke then no means to survive. It all happened in Port Harcourt. After giving birth, she went back to her State Enugu, according to what i heard her mother forced her to marry immediately believing i will waste her time. Till today my son is still with the mother all living in Enugu.
Please i am a very responsible Man i don't joke with the one i love. Just come to me we will make everywhere green again by the grace of God.
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by folake4u: 7:51am On Jun 11, 2025
FalseProphet1:
Bing one big goat to my spiritual center for prayers and before the end of July you too would own a big car.

This I have seen.
Lol. I don't need your prayers.
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by lightwind(m): 7:56am On Jun 11, 2025
RealityKings1:
He said he sees you as an egg
Show him shege, tear his soul apart 🤣

Show him full evil egg shege,
No na bro, why would you want her to show me shege and tear my soul apart ?

Please don't discourage our getting to know each other. She could be my queen you know. who knows
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by FalseProphet1(m): 8:13am On Jun 11, 2025
folake4u:
Lol. I don't need your prayers.
So you don't want a big car?
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by descarado: 8:18am On Jun 11, 2025
Nigerian ladies, very soon you will be told how to eat food in public so as to get a suitor by Nigerian men.
What an irony.


Only in Nigeria do men put eyes on matters that does not concern them.
Also advice them on how to wear pads and tampons so their clothes will not stain.

When you see masochists, nobody will tell you.
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by Tayorshd87(m): 11:06am On Jun 11, 2025
Vinnie2000:
Another is having Big Tummy. undecided undecided

If you are 30 and above as a single Lady and have Big Tummy,
LaiLai, you no go ever see Husband marry. sad
I believe u must be a single man.

because u marrying a woman with flat tummy ehn after birth the tummy might still change to big tummy due to expansion of the anterior abdominal pelvis during birth......

So that shouldn't be listed because love too can make u overlook it in marriage
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by ruthieo(f): 11:08am On Jun 11, 2025
Tayorshd87:
I believe u must be a single man.

because u marrying a woman with flat tummy ehn after birth the tummy might still change to big tummy due to expansion of the anterior abdominal pelvis during birth......

So that shouldn't be listed because love too can make u overlook it in marriage
Exactly
Many ladies with flat tummy are single too
Ladies with big tummy are married so what are we now saying
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by Tayorshd87(m): 11:56am On Jun 11, 2025
ruthieo:
Exactly
Many ladies with flat tummy are single too
Ladies with big tummy are married so what are we now saying
That's just it my brother..
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by ruthieo(f): 12:02pm On Jun 11, 2025
Tayorshd87:
That's just it my brother..
I am a lady
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by Tayorshd87(m): 12:05pm On Jun 11, 2025
ruthieo:
I am a lady
That's just it my sister 😊😁😁

Am saying this because my wife had a fault tummy too but after birth it turned out to what I don't like which is big tummy but me looking at my child and d happy home I have will I now send her away because of big tummyhuh?? 🤔

so u can see marriage is about maturity, commitment, understanding and readiness to make it work 📌
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by UnknownQueen(f): 12:14pm On Jun 11, 2025
lightwind:
We are almost same age, i will be glad to teach you my language if you want, i have lived in Lagos before i understand a little Yoruba language a bit advantage to me. Please that aggressive part i know it will fade away gradually as you gets happier with a caring new husband and beautiful family. You won't have long reasons to be aggressive.That's for sure.
I have a son who's 10 yr old now, my baby mama at that time remarried because i was very very broke then no means to survive. It all happened in Port Harcourt. After giving birth, she went back to her State Enugu, according to what i heard her mother forced her to marry immediately believing i will waste her time. Till today my son is still with the mother all living in Enugu.
Please i am a very responsible Man i don't joke with the one i love. Just come to me we will make everywhere green again by the grace of God.
I do not have problem with starting and hustling with a man, the only problem I do have is the narcissistic nature of Nigerian Men, always and willing to control the very air that u breathe, ex husband is a bloody covert narcissist, see let me just stop my message here cos I'm boiling already, send me a d.m, let's chat on WhatsApp....
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by odinson1(m): 12:21pm On Jun 11, 2025
Juoflife1:
Amen to your prayers.
You can have your standards without being condescending. No one said you shouldn't. And these are not standards for all men. Just some Nigerian men with their myopic way of thinking.
A man having a standard you don't like, makes them have myopic thinking

Some of you women are just funny grin
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by folake4u: 2:54pm On Jun 11, 2025
FalseProphet1:
So you don't want a big car?
Na so.
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by TotoSuckker: 5:57pm On Jun 11, 2025
UnknownQueen:
Lonely - I love being lonely.....as a single.
I'll enjoy my loneliness till old age, don't pity me ..Pity yourself....
You're just saying this because they have not sucked your t.o.to before. grin

If you don't use your to.To cobwebs will go there and block it
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by lightwind(m): 9:59pm On Jun 11, 2025
UnknownQueen:
I do not have problem with starting and hustling with a man, the only problem I do have is the narcissistic nature of Nigerian Men, always and willing to control the very air that u breathe, ex husband is a bloody covert narcissist, see let me just stop my message here cos I'm boiling already, send me a d.m, let's chat on WhatsApp....
Ok, i have done that, i don't know if you have received it or not i have never sent an email to anyone here before to know if it usually gets through or not. But in case you didn't, i have my wasap nom on my profile just for you i will remove it soon. Thanks
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by UnknownQueen(f): 4:09am On Jun 12, 2025
lightwind:
Ok, i have done that, i don't know if you have received it or not i have never sent an email to anyone here before to know if it usually gets through or not. But in case you didn't, i have my wasap nom on my profile just for you i will remove it soon. Thanks
Alright, I've just checked your profile now , saw ur number and will respond to you shortly
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by UnknownQueen(f): 4:10am On Jun 12, 2025
TotoSuckker:
You're just saying this because they have not sucked your t.o.to before. grin

If you don't use your to.To cobwebs will go there and block it
Lol.... So tell me why you're worried about the cobwebs in a stranger's towtow, na so u take love stranger..... grin cheesy cheesy grin
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by pansophist(m): 4:15am On Jun 12, 2025
Franchasng didnt add character, the most important trait of all.

Infact a woman with a solid character, or a proverb 31 woman will not have most of those features above.
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by TotoSuckker: 9:19am On Jun 12, 2025
UnknownQueen:
Lol.... So tell me why you're worried about the cobwebs in a stranger's towtow, na so u take love stranger..... grin cheesy cheesy grin
I don't like the fact that you are allowing your towtow go to waste especially since I know your own will be very sweet grin
Re: Things That Reduce Your Chances Of Finding Husband As A Nigerian Single Lady by UnknownQueen(f): 10:02am On Jun 12, 2025
TotoSuckker:
I don't like the fact that you are allowing your towtow go to waste especially since I know your own will be very sweet grin
This is the reason why I hate narcissistic men, always wanting to control what u do with your life and body,problems full their lives but na another person own dem go dey focus on .....shiorr.
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