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Since I bought a car, I started finding it very hard to date a man who does not have a car. In my head, I am usually imagining how the experience will be like. Will I be parking my car at home while we use taxi to go out on dates or will I carry my car, probably drop him at him place after the date before going home instead of the other way round and being the one driving a man🧐

Abi I will carry my car key give man?🤣😂

See ehh, is not like there’s anything wrong about a man not having a car at the moment but, it became weird for me to date one. There’s one I met few days ago, from my observation and our conversation, the guy is okay o. His only offense was just that, he does not own a car and I felt like it was affect my steeze🤣

This was previously not a problem for me at all when I didn’t have a car and I know there are woman who naturally don’t like dating men who do not own a car despite not having and it is still very VALID but my own issues about it started since I bought a car and I don’t know why.

I feel like; being the one to drive a man up and down is a masculine trait and i want to be feminine 😂😂

One thing that also scare me about this, is that, a lot of Nigerian mèn have insecurîty issues. Situation like this may bruisè the ego of an insècure man and he will start telling you “is it because you have a car in every little misunderstanding”.

advanceDNA:
so what will happen after marriage and the guy loses his job and doesn't have a car anymore....?? She should leave again naaa....and go marry her standard..... Y'all just base standard on temporary superficial nonsens£... that's why marriages don't last more than 2 minutes these days

McLizbae:
I don't think that is abnormal or the lady is abnormal. As a man, one of the fine ways to provide a necessary comfort to your lady is to drive her in your car if you have one. But siting beside her when she drives her own car is somehow not dignifying.

I think it's okay for a woman to potentially dignity her future man by setting standards, and setting them at her level or above hers.

columbus007:
This is so and very simple, once you ready to settle down? You marry your car that's it. Since you are beginning to be to obsessed with it.

Chilipepper:
Since I bought a car, I started finding it very hard to date a man who does not have a car - Anthonia Umerah reveals.



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MoneyMan5:
It is simply her hypergamy kicking in, only men date down.

Villagesquare:
Well I just put myself in her shoes and I understood her perfectly but a good lady won't consider this as a priority when marriage is involved.