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Men in the House have you are dated a narcissist woman before

You can share your experience here so that others can learn from it

Why women? Why not people

Double0h7:
Why women? Why not people

Are you a narcissist ?
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Dont wish for it........................

Almost did ...

Eyesonly17:
Dont wish for it........................

Almost dated one but was quick to find out due to my high level of sensitivity

brain54:
Almost did ...

Almost did as well and this particular one is older than me

I did, but my masculinity tamed her. The only reason why she is narcissistic to you is because y'all aren't handling her like real men. Facts!

Yea I have but latter ghosted her for my mental health

I am tired of pretending. Pls who is a narcissist person?

No.


But had one olosho in Challange Ibadan who was proud to be one.

In fact he made me use my school fees to open a salon for her.

That singular act cost me my graduation. She later graduated but na barber work I dey do

Solofresh2:
Are you a narcissist ?
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It would be nice to hear women's experience with narc men too. Why exclude us from the conversation

doctore212:
No.


But had one olosho in Challange Ibadan who was proud to be one.

In fact he made me use my school fees to open a salon for her.

That singular act cost me my graduation. She later graduated but na barber work I dey do

Your mumu fit kill 2 big cows🤣🤣
You use sch fees open salon for OS

Double0h7:
It would be nice to hear women's experience with narc men too. Why exclude us from the conversation

Sorry but it's from my experience and I almost dated one
And you men will always be different from women.You women are practically emotional beings

ClassicEvilSpir:
I did, but my masculinity tamed her. The only reason why she is narcissistic to you is because y'all aren't handling her like real men. Facts!

Give me tips on that.Though I didn't even date her but it was very clear to see

zuby4real10:
I am tired of pretending. Pls who is a narcissist person?

People who only cares about themselves.They admire themselves so much,no empathy for others.Its always about themselves

doctore212:
No.


But had one olosho in Challange Ibadan who was proud to be one.

In fact he made me use my school fees to open a salon for her.

That singular act cost me my graduation. She later graduated but na barber work I dey do

You can't be serious
Are you joking?

Dating a narc is worst. The love bombing and tricks Dey have up their sleeves isn’t funny.

They all start nice. Like you’re the next best thing after Agege bread. Then they withdraw the love making you wonder what went wrong. It is always about themselves. 3 - 6 months later they’ve monkey branched to another person. They disrespect you and guilt trip you into believing you’re at fault. They never accept they’re wrong and it’s had for them to apologize.

I don’t wish any guy falls in love with a narc and I don’t wish to have them as mothers of my kids.

SpencerForbes:
Dating a narc is worst. The love bombing and tricks Dey have up their sleeves isn’t funny.

They all start nice. Like you’re the next best thing after Agege bread. Then they withdraw the love making you wonder what went wrong. It is always about themselves. 3 - 6 months later they’ve monkey branched to another person. They disrespect you and guilt trip you into believing you’re at fault. They never accept they’re wrong and it’s had for them to apologize.

I don’t wish any guy falls in love with a narc and I don’t wish to have them as mothers of my kids.

Imagine a narcissist ex collecting debt with my name after we broke up

you will never hear them say sorry, there have an over estimated ego. even when you try to tell them how Dey are hurting you, Dey will deflect it and make it seems like you are the problem. Dey are never at fault. I was in a relationship with one for almost 2years. It’s exhausted me. Even google tire for me. Cus small thing I don ask google. Dey are just bittered and broken people.

Everyone behaves same way, I.e selfish and self centered. Na who never get sense de play nice. Stop attaching a label to it, I laugh wen I hear people say I am sigma, being sigma is not by mouth, it’s a consciousness on its own, can u thread the path?

Solofresh2:
Imagine a narcissist ex collecting debt with my name after we broke up

They act innocent to the general public but when the both of you are together, they act like tigers. So when you decide to tell people about your plight, the general public won’t believe it’s their darling doing those stuff and you’ll end up blaming yourself thinking you’re at fault.

I thank God for my current babe sha. I just pray she doesn’t display those attitudes and anytime I see my ex post, trying to tell me she’s single. I just laugh and pity the next guy that’s gonna fall for that narc.

zuby4real10:
I am tired of pretending. Pls who is a narcissist person?

someone in love with themselves or self centered person

Solofresh2:
Give me tips on that.Though I didn't even date her but it was very clear to see

You have to put yourself first. Guys these days are too emotionally dependent on their women, instead of the other way round. Guys are spoiling girls for no reason, gifting girls who disrespected them thereby giving her the impression being disrespectful is ok.

Basically, I put myself first, protect my girlfriends, and punish them when I detect a hint of disrespect. Then I give them small tasks to keep them busy. They pass, I reward them. Only bored and damaged women are narcissistic.

ClassicEvilSpir:
You have to put yourself first. Guys these days are too emotionally dependent on their women, instead of the other way round. Guys are spoiling girls for no reason, gifting girls who disrespected them thereby giving her the impression being disrespectful is ok.

Basically, I put myself first, protect my girlfriends, and punish them when I detect a hint of disrespect. Then I give them small tasks to keep them busy. They pass, I reward them. Only bored and damaged women are narcissistic.

Good one there.And basically I think they place more value on guys who puts themselves first over them(am talking of ladies generally)