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I have never had a girlfriend who denies me sex. Except she's flying red Day. And na me dey choose not to knack. I can't relate at all and I hope I never will

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ChizzyBuna:
As a guy there are times when you feel so horney and want to knack ur babe.
But she will decline and give excuse.
This happened to me recently.

Anytime I want sex, she declines
Or she brings up one flimsy excuse.
To the point I most time go toilet go soapy.

Now it happened last night
This time it was her
She was all in the mood, I was angry cuz of a deal that went wrong.
So I declined her sex that night.
The first time I have declined her sex.

Do you know this girl vex like say I steal all her money. See vex!!
She literally pounce on me and was forcefully kissing me as I kept telling her to stop.
I then pushed her off, told her No Sex. She kept quiet till morning.

She left my place by 11am and since then she refuse to reply my texts on WhatsApp.

This is a woman that if I ask for sex
She will shut it down immediately
And will only agree if she is mood
Many times she refuse me sex and I didn't make a scene or cause problem.
Now I decline her sex for first time
She acting as if I broke up with her
No longer replying my messages

Why are these women so greedy

when you no give babe dick the thing dey sweet, she'll be back... They always come back

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I'm impressed with most of the comments on this thread from the brotherhood😂

Men/Women, Guys/Ladies, Children, I treat everyone equal.

No preferential treatment. This is how to create a healthy, loving and a balanced society.

dkidd:
I have never had a girlfriend who denies me sex. Except she's flying red Day. And na me dey choose not to knack. I can't relate at all and I hope I never will

Same Here.

I don't want to relate with that experience.

The Female Gender matter is a walkover for me. I have never got bothered not even in my teenage years.

ChizzyBuna:
Do you know how humiliating it feels to beg your babe for Sex??
And she refuse.

But when she horney she go just grab me like that and start kissing and doing all stuff and expect me to leave everything I'm doing to focus on her. Very selfish creatures

Lol they aren't doing it intentionally, that is exactly how they were designed

It's left to you to do your due dilligence about them on how to always match their energy and stay ahead of them successfully.

lowkeybahdguy:
You are unwise bro. No offence intended.

Do not be a pawn in a woman's game. Women are selfish by nature. Observe the difference between cats and dogs you will gain more insight into the nature of women.

I had very annoying sex this week, and I couldn't cum. But the lady had her blast to her fill, and said she was tired. This was about the 3rd time with this lady. I was left flustered and frustrated.

If the roles were reversed, they will be quick to call you a 2 mins man and say all manner of unsavoury things about how you can't please your wife. It will even be a ground for divorce. But when the roles are reversed, men have to be caring and accomodating of women feelings and emotion.

Tueeeh. What is good for Kenya is also good for Uganda.

See bro sexual compatibility is a thing. And if you fail to take it into consideration before signing the dotted lines, you will regret your decision.

Your lady is obviously an outlier - NOT the normal case at all.
Why do you think prostitution is called the oldest profession in the world? It didn't take mankind long to figure that men will gladly pay for sex. Any time your woman tells you she's NOT in the mood, buy her something she likes a or give her a lot of money and she'll suddenly be in the mood! But if she pays substantial part of the expenses and on top of it every time you want sex, it ain't gonna work!

papyjaypaul:
I don't give sexual intimacy advice to unmarried people because it's simply a waste of time. Get married and I'll have better advice to give you. Until then, collect whatever they give you. There are no rules to the situationship.

Two of you fornicating now can decide to fornicate with the next person now out of anger or horniness, they have no rules to their desires as they are not strong enough to be in committed relationships that have rules and regulations.

You are truly naive..SMH

So you think only a committed relationship will make someone have rules for their desires.

Please keep your advice for yourself
Some advice are as worse as spoilt egg. NO THANK YOU!!

AngelicDamsel:
Once a man can control himself from getting sex, he gains control.

When a man can control himself from giving sex, game over!

Sex is power to most ladies, so when a man outrightly rejects them, they doubt themselves.


No


What a way to reason!

Keywords right here... Getting sex, giving sex. Madt o.

GoodSpirit:
So you think you will have more sex with your wife or fiancee? and that because it's your wife or fiancee that's what will make your entitled to sex from women? You are naive

Wait oh so because you're befriending a woman you will carry all your body and soul and be sleeping with her without having plans for marriage.

It's you that is naive oh 😂 😂 😂

FreeIgboho:
Ok, let's analyze. If she agrees to sex, while you're doing it is when she'll finally get aroused, then after all that trouble she probably won't climax because most times they don't, plus you'll traumatize her insides and she could possibly catch an infection from bacteria being pushed in, plus mess up her hair and make-up, plus she could get pregnant, etc. While you, all you do is stick your dick in, have your fun and climax. That's it. Women are slow to get in the mood so when she's already in the mood, maybe she's already near climax, you ought accommodate her.
So you see, it's not equal. She has a right to be angry if you refuse even once just as you have a right to be angry if she refuses too many times!

This is a Lie. Women are like us but because they are always riding phalli upanda therefore they would have no drive. But unfortunately for you Mr boyfriend you now call her for your own ride. But since she has already won you then it is at her will to either give you or not.

And because she has already won you then she most likely will not give you.

But let one married man call her that same moment and see if she would not carry cloth up for the plug in.

ChizzyBuna:
Very dumb advice. Nope. Try again harder next time

Na you Sabi that one 😅😅😅 will still work for someone who needs it.

AngelicDamsel:
Once a man can control himself from getting sex, he gains control.

When a man can control himself from giving sex, game over!

True Talk!

Sex is the power of women.

AngelicDamsel:
Sex is power to most ladies, so when a man outrightly rejects them, they doubt themselves.

That is only because they feel too powerful and godlike and win 100% of the time until they meet a Joseph who made them lose and made them wonder if their power was weakening.

However, they know that they would still be successful next time. It's just that they did not expect that their 100% would drop to 99%.

Dtruthspeaker:
This is a Lie. Women are like us but because they are always riding phalli upanda therefore they would have no drive. But unfortunately for you Mr boyfriend you now call her for your own ride. But since she has already won you then it is at her will to either give you or not.

And because she has already won you then she most likely will not give you.

But let one married man call her that same moment and see if she would not carry cloth up for the plug in.

Why do you think prostitution is called the oldest profession? Men are supposed to pay for sex one way or another (Unless the woman has boku). Problem arises when you trying to get it for free all the time. That your wife saying she has a headache, buy her something she wants and headache will disappear!

Manculated:
Lol they aren't doing it intentionally, that is exactly how they were designed

It's left to you to do your due dilligence about them on how to always match their energy and stay ahead of them successfully.

If you say it is not intentional then there is no need for diligence

lowkeybahdguy:
First off, Are you a man? If no, please shut up.

If yes, give it time. Do some more living. Life will provide you all the answers you seek.

As you be bahdguy, you no need the gold wey she drop so.

lowkeybahdguy:
What you failed to observe is that sex for men is a natural duty hardwired by nature for the purpose of procreation and the continued survival of the human specie...

You definitely would stop saying this when women start dropping the babies at your house

ChizzyBuna:
You are truly naive..SMH

So you think only a committed relationship will make someone have rules for their desires.

Please keep your advice for yourself
Some advice are as worse as spoilt egg. NO THANK YOU!!

Naive

Oga you are fornicating, there's no need wasting advice on your illegal relationship. It has no rules of engagement, therefore advice will be omitted. If it pains you, I have no apologies. Truth is not always meant to be your friend.

Love800:
Always know her mood before asking for sex.

W ha t about his mode , men wey fit get erection daily

Then the man is not in control of himself!

edunaragold:
W ha t about his mode , men wey fit get erection daily