19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children - Romance - Nairaland
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| 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by DyshApp(op): 12:06pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
A Nigerian woman celebrates as she finally marries her partner after 19 years of courtship and 13 years living together with 3 children. The woman @teekay_babe shared a video from their Nikkah wedding ceremony, which took place a month ago, making their union official before family and friends. She expressed her excitement, saying that netizens shouldn’t act selfishly, but they should congratulate her. Despite her husband not paying her a dowry, the caption claims that she and her husband dated for 19 years and lived together as husband and wife for 13 of those years. Their 13 years of living together produced three children.
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| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by EmperorIsaac(m): 12:47pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
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| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Dzzzz: 1:54pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Congratulations and jubilations to you..I and my babe still Dey 5yrs courtship and she Dey complain say,I fit go marry another person😂..To be honest na still her I go marry.. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by brain54(m): 5:43pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
It's called blessed marriage... It's not uncommon. I know people that did this. After many grown up kids and living together! |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by YUNGLURD(m): 5:43pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Better late than never...Even some latest couples marriage won't last to this extent... Congratulations to them |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by pocohantas(f): 5:43pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
She doesn't seem impressed. The thrill of the "marriage" is long gone. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Akalia(m): 5:43pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Facade may look glamorous but what happened behind the scenes in the 13 years cohabiting remains shrouded in mystery. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by macpetrus(m): 5:44pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Congratulations. .. This way is better |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Akinboboz(m): 5:44pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Many homes are like this ... especially rural area dealers....btw....don't kill yourself if you wanna marry now and you don't have money for elaborate wedding....u can just do little gathering and pay her dowry and do the wedding at your convenience time...it's as simple as A.B.C |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Ishilove: 5:44pm On Jun 20, 2025*. Modified: 8:09pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Not unusual. My erstwhile neighbour officially got married after cohabiting for 25 years. I don't approve of it because it is a wrong foundation to start a marriage, but it is what it is. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by sweetkev(m): 5:45pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
It's because the lady didn't drag the husband by force to put the ring on it. Both of them didn't really take it seriously all this while. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by eazisky(m): 5:45pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
She's like....... I'm now official land lady 😂 |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by LagosG: 5:45pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Showed my gf this just now Omo the way her face take change....I know say she don dive into the deep ocean of conclusions |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Judolisco(m): 5:46pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
E put you for is coming for 13 years.... Omo |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by RevenuesBoost(f): 5:49pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Congrats to them Not everyone share same fate. The ceremony isn't the real deal, living together is |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Yetttymama: 5:49pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
God or you decided to make it official?? |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Avedonn: 5:50pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
If she's truly a muslim, those 3 children are illegitimate and they can't inherit anything from their father. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by DeAnonymousGuy(m): 5:50pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
How did God decided to make it official? Una go just open mouth wa dey talk anyhow. It's 19 years of fornication not courtship. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Kukutente23: 5:51pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Wow She must be a real wife material for the guy to still marry her That is if otumokpor is not involved sha I guess the men are scum geng will have to sit this one out P.S. Don't blame her for hanging it all on God. She knows how many times she prayed behind closed door for God to touch the man's heart |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Emeskhalifa(m): 5:51pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Why the man no bend a knee na? Despite giving her a ring |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by H4F33Z(m): 5:51pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Nawa o yorubas and their culture in Islam. Islam doesn't support this. All they did all this while was total adultery in the name of cohabitation. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Archmed(m): 5:51pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Marriage may be overrated. The couples have gone through light and fire...dark and hard times. Getting married is borne frm their conclusion that they can "work" |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by PulaPower: 5:52pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Dem for no get married at all.. Now, the problem wey dem no dey get before, dem fit start to dey get ham.. Marriage is not needed at all.. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by MaziObinnaokija: 5:52pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
![]() Congrats Endurance + Patience pays |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by atobs4real(m): 5:52pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Ask my parents how many years of courtship and not even what u are saying. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by ElevationD: 5:53pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Delay is not denial. Congratulations to them both. May the marriage continue to experience peace, growth, love, good health and divine fortune. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by atobs4real(m): 5:53pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Ask my parents how many years of courtship and not even what u are saying. Does that mean the sealing is key to gain the kingdom of the Almighty God? Be good and do things rightly. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Goldbw122(m): 5:53pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
This is called blessing of marriage.. and it is sweet.. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by tiswell(m): 5:54pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
The day they formalized that union,their problem will start and the marriage crashes. God is speaking to them,and they should listen. |
| Re: 19 Yrs Of Courtship, 13 Yrs Of Living As An Unofficial Couple With 3 Children by Kdon2: 5:56pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
DyshApp:The husband is not happy 😂😂😂😂😂 Purrrrr |
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