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This statement
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"Go And Marry"
Na advice abi na insult 🙄🤔

It's an insult mostly and proudly used by women to others whom they feel they are better than.

Those who are asking you to go and marry, which opportunity have they ever created for you before? If none, just ignore them

It is not a bad advice but it can hurt those who are not prepared yet

It is an insulting advice, to be sincere

You have not given them a humbling response that will reset their brains.

You don first allow them see you finish.

Brain-resetting response includes:
1. You wey don marry, you better pass your mate?
2. Marriage better for you naim you dey complain for economy?
3. (If the person has asked you for assistance before). If no be poor friends wey dey bill me, I for don complete the wedding money.


Boundary setting response
1. This should be the last time you say that nonsense to me.
2. Hahaha.... Mouthpiece of marital gods. Shhhut the Forrk Up.

Parents-calming response
1. Ah, Mami... Na you nor gree bring the 2million wey you supposed take support.
2. Daddy naaa. I hear.

So you expect me to go and get married and be confined to banging only the same to. T0 for over 40 years?

No way!

Variety is the spice of life

More of mockery in the nigerian context. Not an advice but a subtle insult

In my opinion a person's marital status is none of your business especially if you're either of his/her parents or a direct older relative

Nowadays, it's a joke...

Just laugh and move...

fuckJones:
This statement
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"Go And Marry"
Na advice abi na insult 🙄🤔

Na insult. Anybody wey talk am to me for face fit chop slap.

Me at 37 I'm facing pressure from family to get married Because of first son or whatever. I wonder how lady of 37 will be feel the funnest thing is that marriage has no benefits for a man unless you're looking for a child. Because sex is the most cheapest thing to get in this generation.

my uncle is after my life, I need a lawyer

Goodlady:
Na insult. Anybody wey talk am to me for face fit chop slap.

If you matured enough in finance and patience go marry, either good or bad it's never a crime to give it a try

fuckJones:
This statement
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"Go And Marry"
Na advice abi na insult 🙄🤔

advice but when you marry na dem go insult you dat when you know that you are not ready why do you do so

fuckJones:
my uncle is after my life, I need a lawyer

Tell am say husband dey ready. Na apartment and money to host the event that you are looking for.

He should give you millions 🤣🤣

ibechris:
It is not a bad advice but it can hurt those who are not prepared yet

99% of the times you hear such GO AND MARRY, check the person saying it and see the level of insensitivity, social myopia and general lack of understanding that oozes from such people.
Marriage is not something you just GO AND DO like telling a child GO AND BRING SAND outside. It involves processes and stages where anything can go wrong in between.

AllBlack:
99% of the times you hear such GO AND MARRY, check the person saying it and see the level of insensitivity, social myopia and general lack of understanding that oozes from such people.
Marriage is not something you just GO AND DO like telling a child GO AND BRING SAND outside. It involves processes and stages where anything can go wrong in between.

Annoyingly , after their advise, they might still ask you for financial assistant regarding their kids school fee.

It was meant to be more of an insult than an advice, thus I call it Insulting-Advice because mostly it's unsolicited for.

tanigororo:
It was meant to be more of an insult than an advice, thus I call it Insulting-Advice because mostly it's unsolicited for.

Most people say it with the intention to mock the unmarried.

Letmecum:
Me at 37 I'm facing pressure from family to get married Because of first son or whatever. I wonder how lady of 37 will be feel the funnest thing is that marriage has no benefits for a man unless you're looking for a child. Because sex is the most cheapest thing to get in this generation.

The pressure no be here...but I still stand looking for someone I can tolerate and someone that will tolerate me also..nothing is outside