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I met this girl online based on parole and I fell in love with her.

We started dating and everything is fine.
When I asked her why she was doing OS.

She told me that she is the one sponsoring her self in school and none of her family members are supporting her.

I intend to wife but scared of her past.
I have listened to many online counseling videos that a woman’s past matters a lot.
She had told me she is now changed person.

Then I came up with lies that in our culture that if a woman cheat outside marriage that she will run mad immediately that if she can cope with that.
She told me it is fine , that she did os to support her school

Sorry for you in advance. A street girl will always be for the streets.

fyneboi79:
Sorry for you in advance. A street girl will always be for the streets.

Fine boy abi make I just give am belle and make her baby mama

Congratulations bro, it's not easy. But look before you leap.

MrHandsome2013:
Fine boy abi make I just give am belle and make her baby mama

Look let me tell you something about women, I was married for 10years before I opted for a divorce because I knew she would never change.I have dated several single mothers and one thing they all have in common is zero loyalty with unhindered expectations. Just have it in mind that she will never change,she will act good till she sees a bigger target.

fyneboi79:
Look let me tell you something about women, I was married for 10years before I opted for a divorce because I knew she would never change.I have dated several single mothers and one thing they all have in common is zero loyalty with unhindered expectations. Just have it in mind that she will never change,she will act good till she sees a bigger target.

But I don give her belle after we do the thing and plan to do introduction next month

Be like say u dey whine yourself.................................... no cheese. Marry am.

MrHandsome2013:
But I don give her belle after we do the thing and plan to do introduction next month

Hehe. U give OS belle. How u take knw say na ur own. Ehh

Make sure your high blood pressure drugs are always with you, E get why. If you know you know

MrHandsome2013:
But I don give her belle after we do the thing and plan to do introduction next month

hmm!! Brace up bro,you don buy job and I wish you the best!

Cooked story. Believe this at your prey with the write up you will understand it's a story teller

But you guys would still do anything to settle down with SA street girls while shaming your women for doing the same things your SA wives would've been doing... There's this one unapologetic SA street girl called Wandile Ndlovu, she moved to Nigeria last year and there have been rumours of her getting engaged to a rich Nigerian man... ... She has always been outspoken about how she was selling herself, but allegedly a Nigerian man saw a wife in her...

And it's like those SA street girls are always the type you want to settle down with here in SA...

fyneboi79:
Sorry for you in advance. A street girl will always be for the streets.

Nothing anybody wan tell me,he dey give op premium sexual satisfaction

He is even considering baby mamaring her ,if his marriage plans doesn't work..

Efulefu

MrHandsome2013:
I met this girl online based on parole and I fell in love with her.
We started dating and everything is fine.
When I asked her why she was doing OS.
She told me that she is the one sponsoring her self in school and none of her family members are supporting her.
I intend to wife but scared of her past.
I have listened to many online counseling videos that a woman’s past matters a lot.
She had told me she is now changed person.
Then I came up with lies that in our culture that if a woman cheat outside marriage that she will run mad immediately that if she can cope with that.
She told me it is fine , that she did os to support her school

Premium tears loading 😂😂😂. I really pity you , don't even make such move.

Samantha125:
But you guys would still do anything to settle down with SA street girls while shaming your women for doing the same things your SA wives would've been doing... There's this one unapologetic SA street girl called Wandile Ndlovu, she moved to Nigeria last year and there have been rumours of her getting engaged to a rich Nigerian man... ... She has always been outspoken about how she was selling herself, but allegedly a Nigerian man saw a wife in her...

And it's like those SA street girls are always the type you want to settle down with here in SA...

They do it probably to achieve cheap legal status.... Street girls are cheaper you know

Samantha125:
But you guys would still do anything to settle down with SA street girls while shaming your women for doing the same things your SA wives would've been doing... There's this one unapologetic SA street girl called Wandile Ndlovu, she moved to Nigeria last year and there have been rumours of her getting engaged to a rich Nigerian man... ... She has always been outspoken about how she was selling herself, but allegedly a Nigerian man saw a wife in her...

And it's like those SA street girls are always the type you want to settle down with here in SA...

So far she’s foreign, our guys don’t mind her past.
Same way they go about marrying strippers and jobless girls abroad, or at most salesgirls.

The past becomes important when she’s a “sister”.

Or maybe it's because most decent SA ladies don't want to associate themselves with you guys the same way you don't want to associate yourselves with certain Nigerian ladies.

fyneboi79:
They do it probably to achieve cheap legal status.... Street girls are cheaper you know

From my observation, it seems like most decent career women here in SA don't want to associate themselves with you guys because they also consider their future to be as important as the past is important for you guys with your sisters, hence you mostly end up settling for less and making noise about it as if you've made a big achievement.

What you consider as a downgrade becomes an upgrade when you get abroad.

ItisWell22:
So far she’s foreign, our guys don’t mind her past.
Same way they go about marrying strippers and jobless girls abroad, or at most salesgirls.

The past becomes important when she’s a “sister”.

Samantha125:
From my observation, it seems like most decent career women here in SA don't want to associate themselves with you guys because they also consider their future to be as important as the past is important for you guys with your sisters, hence you mostly end up settling for less and making noise about it as if you've made a big achievement.

What you consider as a downgrade becomes an upgrade when you get abroad.

I will like to know more about you please please o

Samantha125:
Or maybe it's because most decent SA ladies don't want to associate themselves with you guys the same way you don't want to associate yourselves with certain Nigerian ladies.

Are there any decent SA ladies??
I heard Nigerian boys buy them over with the provision of basic necessities and free psychotic drugs.

You wouldn't know about them because they normally don't want to associate themselves with you guys.

Yes, Nigerian men buy those SA street girls who'd eventually become their wives, you're very right... ... They're doing a good job cleaning our streets...

fyneboi79:
Are there any decent SA ladies??
I heard Nigerian boys buy them over with the provision of basic necessities and free psychotic drugs.

Samantha125:
You wouldn't know about them because they normally don't want to associate themselves with you guys.

Yes, Nigerian men buy those SA street girls who'd eventually become their wives, you're very right... ... They're doing a good job cleaning our streets...

you kid yourself not!!
Certainly!! I heard SA ladies only associate with the drug dealers for a fix,just like naija girls will die to be with the yahoo boys for money...Two vices..two races...two sets of useless ladies

Not just any SA ladies, but SA street ladies who eventually become your wives here in SA... ... You guys are cleaning our streets and I'm sure there are many of them there in Nigeria who left SA for Nigeria to look for husbands like Wandile Ndlovu... ... You are their retirement plan...

fyneboi79:
you kid yourself not!!
Certainly!! I heard SA ladies only associate with the drug dealers for a fix,just like naija girls will die to be with the yahoo boys for money...Two vices..two races...two sets of useless ladies

Samantha125:
Not just any SA ladies, but SA street ladies who eventually become your wives here in SA... ... You guys are cleaning our streets and I'm sure there are many of them there in Nigeria who left SA for Nigeria to look for husbands like Wandile Ndlovu... ... You are their retirement plan...

How often do you get into arguments with your man?
Must be really awful right?

Looks like someone is trying to change the subject...

Ayways, goodnight.

fyneboi79:
How often do you get into arguments with your man?
Must be really awful right?

Samantha125:
Looks like someone is trying to change the subject...

Ayways, goodnight.

No not that,I'm still on the topic. I am just trying to draw a physiological point from your response...good night

Don’t mind what that first to comment poster just said. Follow your heart. I’ve seen a street girl who’ve been real exceptional in her marriage