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Stop checking your partners phone if you want peace of mind.

Yes. Stop.

You will find something it's just a matter of time.
If you are currently married to someone or dating one, free your mind away from their phone, messages etc.. That is if you truly want to enjoy peace.

I have heard and even taught severally that people shouldn't hide their phone from their partner just for transparency sake... But you see, there are many other things we need to put into consideration... I'll talk more about that in my next post.

There are people who text your partner especially men and also send them nude pictures... Your partner may not even be interested in them or give into their demands, but then, over time you will begin to suspect your partners Move.

In my next post, I will share more on why you should avoid checking your partners phone with the mindset of seeing something. Believe me, you may later find.

I dey check but i don't take it to heart anything to heart, am using his phone to chat sef

OKay. If that is okay by you, then its fine.

WELL DONE

dollytino4real:
I dey check but i don't take it to heart anything to heart, am using his phone to chat sef

Abeg make una no forget to check that phone 3 times daily. Work no dey again.

Lol na you talk am ooo
But you know say dey no suppose dey check person phone so peace go dey for the relationship.

AllBlack:
Abeg make una no forget to check that phone 3 times daily. Work no dey again.

Anytime you feel like checking,just be assured you go feel sad,so expect the worst..The last babe I check was telling her man that her pastor said am using her,Ahh me!..Well the peppersoup wey I buy na only me chop am..Next morning na timberland boot I use kick am comot for house..My present babe does not even flinch if I ask for her phone,not to check but like to make a call..She even Dey give me phone to play game and she can go for minutes..

Wait, but why would someone who's married be having numbers of people who send him or her nudes?

Someone just doesn't wake up and decide to send you nudes out of the blue.

You have a point you? God bless you


@seun What you think sir? Seun...

Samantha125:
Wait, but why would someone who's married be having numbers of people who send him or her nudes?

Someone just doesn't wake up and decide to send you nudes out of the blue.

Haibo!!! Why are you calling Seun on me? You want him to ban me for 40 days and 40 nights?

You made this thread and should be the one responding to our queries.

PastorKosi:
You have a point you? God bless you


@seun What you think sir? Seun...

It's only unserious partners will be scared to check each others phone. I check my wife's phone whenever I like and I've never seen any nonsense there...vice versa

It is when you don't know what you're doing that you'll be flirting

🌺

Look I don't like people checking my phone just like they don't want me to check theirs...

My mom doesn't check her husband's phone because he doesn't like people checking his phone and he's using button phone.

My dad doesn't even check her phone when someone calls he won't pick it so I don't think it right

If you check your partners phone with the mindset of finding something implicating, you will find something you can't handle.

Be at alert woman had children for doesn't stop her not to kill you.she do anyhow she receives anyhow.its only men that afraid of losing women don't check their wives phone, you don't put snake in house and sleep on it you are dead

PastorKosi:
If you check your partners phone with the mindset of finding something implicating, you will find something you can't handle.

So don't check if u feel something is off because it's better not to know you are being cheated on by your husband or wife?

What you focus on multiplies.

Focus on other important things and you wont be bothered about checking your spouses phone.

advanceDNA:
So don't check if u feel something is off because it's better not to know you are being cheated on by your husband or wife?

You don't need to check your partner's phone to know if he or she is cheating.

I will never ask anyone to give me access to his or her phone no matter who the person is to me........i don't just like going through people's phone in general....not even my family/siblings and I don't like giving people access to my phone too...no matter who you are

Na lifestyle

PastorKosi:
What you focus on multiplies.

Focus on other important things and you wont be bothered about checking your spouses phone.

U are not talking according to reality......pple dont just wake up to start checking their partner's phones for no reason.......it's the partner that start behaving suspicious that give most pple reasons to become FBI in their own home

Telling pple not to check because they might see things is like living in fear ...there shouldn't be something to see in the first place if both parties are faithful to each other, weda u check or not

I GET YOU CLEARLY... BUT THEN... IT IS OKAY SINCE THAT IS YOUR FINAL WORD.

advanceDNA:
U are not talking according to reality......pple dont just wake up to start checking their partner's phones for no reason.......it's the partner that start behaving suspicious that give most pple reasons to become FBI in their own home

Telling pple not to check because they might see things is like living in fear ...there shouldn't be something to see in the first place if both parties are faithful to each other, weda u check or not

Its absurd how married people have problem with it. At times my wife do go out with my phone while I hold her own , on different occasions self. I do laugh when Married people are uncomfortable with it.

Rexymania:
It's only unserious partners will be scared to check each others phone. I check my wife's phone whenever I like and I've never seen any nonsense there...vice versa

It is when you don't know what you're doing that you'll be flirting

You need to know what’s going on…. You can’t be in the dark for too long

Smart people get that app that uncovers the REAL TRUTH

Dem never break your heart.
It is better to immediately know that your partner is not faithful, than to wait 10 years before you know.

Do you need to advise someone about that? Hahahaa. You will only be keeping unnecessary hanger without your partner knowing except you confront

You don't need to check your partners phone to know is she's/he's cheating

And if your curiosity is not about cheating, if you are dating or get married to a trusted partner, you will get the information you are looking for at the appropriate time

Facts, you cannot always check your partner's phone all the time, that's means you're insecure. I still don't see a reason why you and your partner, can't share passwords.

dollytino4real:
I dey check but i don't take it to heart anything to heart, am using his phone to chat sef

continue to check. Dat thing wey you dey look for you go find am one day.

I will never stop checking.
It is better to know some things before it gets too late

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It's very important to always check

It helps and can save you FROM EVIL, LIES AND MANIPULATIONS.

I became a FREE MAN today because I checked a girl's phone that manipulated me in relationship for 5 YEARS.

KNOW THE TRUTH AND IT WILL SET YOU FREE.

Lols... I see no reason why you will check your partner's phone...
If U suspect cheating, just wait, with time everything will unfold...
Marriage is not bondage..
A married woman can have a male friend..
A married man can also have a female friend...
What matters is you that swore to live your spouse setting boundaries!!!
Let that your friend knows you are married and can be friends but not anything sexual...

iCauseTrouble:
I will never stop checking.
It is better to know some things before it gets too late

Lol .. some people deletes chats..
Hope you are aware

ArcFresky:
Dem never break your heart.
It is better to immediately know that your partner is not faithful, than to wait 10 years before you know.

I'm telling you.

You will raise bastards for 25 years. And you find out they are bastards when you are now retired and using walking stick.

Some mumu still don't do DNA test on their kids.

Na only one day Adam trust Eve to be alone. See wetin she cause till today.

God forbid bad thing. Catch the OS early and kick her out now.


You can still start a fresh.

Samantha125:
Wait, but why would someone who's married be having numbers of people who send him or her nudes?

Someone just doesn't wake up and decide to send you nudes out of the blue.

Go to Facebook and add Indians as your friend in honor of their friend requests. Next thing they start calling you video calls and sending nudes to you. How about that?

PastorKosi:
Stop checking your partners phone if you want peace of mind.

Yes. Stop.

You will find something it's just a matter of time.
If you are currently married to someone or dating one, free your mind away from their phone, messages etc.. That is if you truly want to enjoy peace.

I have heard and even taught severally that people shouldn't hide their phone from their partner just for transparency sake... But you see, there are many other things we need to put into consideration... I'll talk more about that in my next post.

There are people who text your partner especially men and also send them nude pictures... Your partner may not even be interested in them or give into their demands, but then, over time you will begin to suspect your partners Move.

In my next post, I will share more on why you should avoid checking your partners phone with the mindset of seeing something. Believe me, you may later find.

Why are you so convinced of the bolded?

Do you really believe everybody is a cheat?

What ever happened to faithful, trusting partners in a happy marriage?

My wife knows my phone PIN, my ATM PIN, my windows devices passkey is literally her first name, what?

Let her check my phone if she wants, still, she doesn't!

I know her phone PIN, yet, if she wants me to help her change a setting, I still tell her to open the phone.

That's what trust is all about.

This is one he of a bullshit.

How do you guys manage to come yp with such nonsense

My wife uses my phone and i use hers, she is not so tech savvy , so without checking her phone , how will i know when she wants to be run street.