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Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by iCauseTrouble: 6:15pm On Jun 27, 2025
Yes. But there are always traces, patterns, you and use to decipher if she is cheating.
A smart person will look for inconsistencies in her phone / chats
Puss360:
Lol .. some people deletes chats..
Hope you are aware
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Kwinesther: 6:21pm On Jun 27, 2025
jattopeter:
Its absurd how married people have problem with it. At times my wife do go out with my phone while I hold her own , on different occasions self. I do laugh when Married people are uncomfortable with it.
Don't mind them, they are uncomfortable with it because they have something to hide. It's that simple.
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Puss360(f): 6:38pm On Jun 27, 2025
iCauseTrouble:
Yes. But there are always traces, patterns, you and use to decipher if she is cheating.
A smart person will look for inconsistencies in her phone / chats
When U spend quality time to check your partner's phone it shows you don't trust her... And if you don't trust her why not end the relationship for peace to reign??
What exactly are you benefiting from a relationship without trust?
Pls don't tell me sex...
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Samantha125(f): 6:43pm On Jun 27, 2025
Mma weee!!!🤣🤣🤣... But there'd be no evidence to corroborate the suspicion of the other person cheating... There should at least be an explicit conversation to confirm everything.

geoworldedu:
Go to Facebook and add Indians as your friend in honor of their friend requests. Next thing they start calling you video calls and sending nudes to you. How about that?
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Truvelisback(m): 6:46pm On Jun 27, 2025
I don't like it. However, if you do, don't let me know that you did so.
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Pootle: 6:51pm On Jun 27, 2025
Proudlyngwa:
This is one he of a bullshit.

How do you guys manage to come yp with such nonsense

My wife uses my phone and i use hers, she is not so tech savvy , so without checking her phone , how will i know when she wants to be run street.
i dont even knw my wife phones password but she know my own the two phones i dont really care about that because what ever will sup will sup na she dey always fight me if i need do something on her phone and i ask for her password. whether your wife is tech savvy or not a woman that wanna check out a street dick will regardless of how you monitor her
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Proudlyngwa(m): 6:55pm On Jun 27, 2025
Pootle:
i dont even knw my wife phones password but she know my own the two phones i dont really care about that because what ever will sup will sup na she dey always fight me if i need do something on her phone and i ask for her password. whether your wife is tech savvy or not a woman that wanna check out a street dick will regardless of how you monitor her
Who says am monitoring her
Lol
Am checking out on her, b4 dem go tell her click one bullshit, everywhere go scatter.

Somebody that losing her Facebook password is a hubby
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by OluwaBlessyn: 6:58pm On Jun 27, 2025
I don’t even know her phone’s password sef

Shey na her pictures ni?,she subsequently send me her pictures

Memes?,I have a lot on my phone..

Checking her chat??,hell no,it’s her privacy and my peace of mind cuz she be female and she’s beautiful,so she will be sought after…

So,I don’t see any reasons to check her phone,I’m not interested in knowing her password sef
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Pootle: 6:58pm On Jun 27, 2025
Proudlyngwa:
Who says am monitoring her
Lol
Am checking out on her, b4 dem go tell her click one bullshit, everywhere go scatter.

Somebody that losing her Facebook password is a hubby
i get your point, women are fragile they need to be handle carefully
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Antoeni(m): 7:06pm On Jun 27, 2025
Madam Detective, Na You Go Cry Taya ,
What You Don't Doesn't Hurt

Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Hushpuppy20(m): 7:07pm On Jun 27, 2025
If you want to live long that is the candid advice for you.
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Philipmoon2(m): 7:16pm On Jun 27, 2025
If someone sends nudes to my wife and she did not block the person, she is a suspect on infidelity
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by mercysamuelson(m): 7:42pm On Jun 27, 2025
I won't dare try such because in this part of the world where I live, this act could be treated as:
*An infraction, punishable by a fine (up to $1,000),
*A misdemeanor, which could carry up to one year in jail and a $5,000 fine,
*Or in more serious cases (like if data is deleted or altered), a felony, with penalties up to 3 years in prison and $10,000 in fines.
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by nkemjacob2(m): 7:43pm On Jun 27, 2025
I won't check becos I am not a monitoring spirit. If she loves me as claimed she won't do anything to hurt me. So do I.
But I can use her phone any time I want to
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by uzomakanaki(m): 7:48pm On Jun 27, 2025
If i suspect anything I'll check, cos whatever i want to confirm will be on that chat. People don't understand how these act alone has saved people from training another mans child. Ive been there before.
PastorKosi:
Stop checking your partners phone if you want peace of mind.

Yes. Stop.

You will find something it's just a matter of time.
If you are currently married to someone or dating one, free your mind away from their phone, messages etc.. That is if you truly want to enjoy peace.

I have heard and even taught severally that people shouldn't hide their phone from their partner just for transparency sake... But you see, there are many other things we need to put into consideration... I'll talk more about that in my next post.

There are people who text your partner especially men and also send them nude pictures... Your partner may not even be interested in them or give into their demands, but then, over time you will begin to suspect your partners Move.

In my next post, I will share more on why you should avoid checking your partners phone with the mindset of seeing something. Believe me, you may later find.
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by KnightB(m):
My babe has been sending her nudes to people. It broke me really because I didn’t see it coming. She was a good girl! I thought I had found peace.
She shared one yesterday night. I’m still waiting to hear what story she would make up to attend a scheduled date with another tomorrow.
I had promised marriage and our parents are so much aware about this. But I don’t have strength to fight anymore, I’ve decided to act unaware because she can’t be saved, and I’ve quietly licked my wound and moved on, even thou she’s still staying with me.
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by blacksam01: 8:34pm On Jun 27, 2025
dollytino4real:
I dey check but i don't take it to heart anything to heart, am using his phone to chat sef
Liar .. most ladies lie that only the game and network in their patners phones are good for them.. all na strategy to catch the man..

If not why are all married women doing this... Na only his phone game and good chat dey..?
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Earthkumy(m): 8:39pm On Jun 27, 2025
A very nice stupid advise the unfaithful people love


If someone sent you what is nice show it to the person you are married to why hide?

People are not serious

You value your phone more than your body are you not mad?
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by TemmyT002(m): 9:16pm On Jun 27, 2025
Dey play
Information is power.
A cheating partner will do something that will negatively affect your life in the long run. It's better to take action now.
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by highchief1: 9:17pm On Jun 27, 2025
PastorKosi:
Stop checking your partners phone if you want peace of mind.

Yes. Stop.

You will find something it's just a matter of time.
If you are currently married to someone or dating one, free your mind away from their phone, messages etc.. That is if you truly want to enjoy peace.

I have heard and even taught severally that people shouldn't hide their phone from their partner just for transparency sake... But you see, there are many other things we need to put into consideration... I'll talk more about that in my next post.

There are people who text your partner especially men and also send them nude pictures... Your partner may not even be interested in them or give into their demands, but then, over time you will begin to suspect your partners Move.

In my next post, I will share more on why you should avoid checking your partners phone with the mindset of seeing something. Believe me, you may later find.
every woman cheats.cheating is not going naked for another man.cheating is talking to a man ur husband is not aware of.and u didn’t tell him cos u know he may not be comfortable with it.i am not worried about who she chats with,I came alone.All this Thgs Shey Jnr pope stl know who em wife Dey chat with?if cheating makes her happy let her cheat.the only thing is if I code no more intimacy with her.Men cheat with condom women cheat unprotected.I am not interested in what she’s doing with her life but I don’t joke with my own life.Stop bothering yourself about your partners.Life no need all those stress.
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by dollytino4real(f): 9:23pm On Jun 27, 2025
blacksam01:
Liar .. most ladies lie that only the game and network in their patners phones are good for them.. all na strategy to catch the man..

If not why are all married women doing this... Na only his phone game and good chat dey..?
ok i hear u!! If i catch him sef will i fight or quit the marriagehuh
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by dollytino4real(f): 9:27pm On Jun 27, 2025
BABANGBALI:
continue to check. Dat thing wey you dey look for you go find am one day.
yes o!! I dey find his brokus whether the two seeds dey well inside the sack or i do wrong to care
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by kkonyeji(m): 9:37pm On Jun 27, 2025
dollytino4real:
I dey check but i don't take it to heart anything to heart, am using his phone to chat sef
Do you think I'm surprised you check his phone?
Women will never disappoint.
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by kkonyeji(m): 9:40pm On Jun 27, 2025
Samantha125:
Wait, but why would someone who's married be having numbers of people who send him or her nudes?

Someone just doesn't wake up and decide to send you nudes out of the blue.
Na only nudes you see for the OP write up?
Sha, you descendants of Eve should continue checking, don't stop ooo
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by dollytino4real(f): 9:44pm On Jun 27, 2025
kkonyeji:
Do you think I'm surprised you check his phone?
Women will never disappoint.
na 4 fun o!! I just dey do my chatting and playing games o nothing mote o
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Hayaoga1(m): 9:54pm On Jun 27, 2025
PastorKosi:
Stop checking your partners phone if you want peace of mind.

Yes. Stop.

You will find something it's just a matter of time.
If you are currently married to someone or dating one, free your mind away from their phone, messages etc.. That is if you truly want to enjoy peace.

I have heard and even taught severally that people shouldn't hide their phone from their partner just for transparency sake... But you see, there are many other things we need to put into consideration... I'll talk more about that in my next post.

There are people who text your partner especially men and also send them nude pictures... Your partner may not even be interested in them or give into their demands, but then, over time you will begin to suspect your partners Move.

In my next post, I will share more on why you should avoid checking your partners phone with the mindset of seeing something. Believe me, you may later find.
It is very important to check, I will never forget the I decided to check my fiancee phone and I saw a chat where her friend was advising her to leave for someone richer and I realized that my fiancee has been telling her friend everything happening in our relationship. So it very important o.
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by blueghost(m): 10:30pm On Jun 27, 2025
Rubbish Talk. You can share private parts but you cannot share phone abi? anyone who has issues with his partner checking phone is playing away games or is a flirt
Re: Why You Should Stop Checking Your Partner's Phone by Nnamdipapa(m): 11:07pm On Jun 27, 2025
Nobody checks my phone, period.

You can divorce me over that if you want and I will not give a damn.

I will never give up my privacy and individuality because of marriage, and I do not care what you do with your phone as well.
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