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reubenobi:
Are we not saying the same thing? Him directing you means that's what HE wants for you.

That is ordering your steps. There is no specific and ordained woman for any man.

He is a smart guy. Way smarter than myself
40 Characters for Seun

Creditalerts:
i have my own house and my personal car also a good job,I am dating one now but she is broke and a student from an average family,but I am confused. I don't want to look like a savior to her family. I'm planning to settle her if I see a better option 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

Settle her as per wat? She serve under u abi she work for u?

Bro please pray to God for good woman with Good character.if not u are in trouble because if u married a woman that is up to ur standards an she doesn't have Good character then All the property u have is also in trouble.brother pray for Good wife an be smart

For me, it takes only foolishness for an educatted and innovative buoyant made man to settle for less. It is foolishness indeed. Never compromise your marriage.
Make it transactional like ladies always do.
I made mine so and I'm still reaping from it. You can do it.
Don't be a second choice to any woman. Women never make themselves second choice.
They are smarter when choosing life partner. Be like them.
Strive to have value, so your father in-law will think twice before dialing your line.
Wake up!

I'm glad the gospel of RedPill is growing effectively and a lot of men are waking up.

How can a lady from the lowest class and in some cass uneducated lady set a standard for a high class man while a man on the 10th floor will go all the way down to the ground floor to accept 'any thing' for marriage.

I'm so happy for the development

Word!!!



No more leeches in our life ..


Seun


Gbo gbo 23 characters needed yii o Le work ooo

Well, in life you gotta choose you poison.. The less get disadvantage, same as the more..

Chilipepper:
"Settle for less ? Never! I built my own house, own properties, and plan to get a car soon. I'm also investing in myself. I'm not going to settle for a woman who's broke sha. Later on her broke families will be viewing me as their financial breakthrough. Godforbid!

Alot of Men have lost their Masculinity... So you built your own house and so what?!!

Chilipepper:
"Settle for less ? Never! I built my own house, own properties, and plan to get a car soon. I'm also investing in myself. I'm not going to settle for a woman who's broke sha. Later on her broke families will be viewing me as their financial breakthrough. Godforbid!

I just wanted to share something I believe is important when it comes to choosing a woman to build a life with — especially if you're a man who already has his finances in order.

It’s great if a woman has money, ambition, or success. That shows drive and responsibility. But those qualities alone shouldn't be the foundation for choosing her as a partner. A lot of women who’ve made significant financial strides tend to operate with more masculine energy and that often shows up in how they communicate, make decisions, or handle disagreements. They're usually more assertive, more independent, and often more argumentative not in a bad way, but in a way that can create friction if you’re naturally looking for peace and balance at home.

The truth is, most women don’t make money with the idea of sharing it with a man, not the way men often do. A man typically sees his resources as something to provide for his partner and children. Many women, even high earners, still expect a man to lead and provide, and rarely flip that dynamic.

That’s why I think it’s wiser to prioritize feminine traits when choosing a life partner. Look for someone nurturing, respectful, and kind. A woman who can bring peace into your life who cooks, keeps a good home, supports you emotionally, and cares for the children. These qualities go a much longer way in building a fulfilling and lasting relationship than just income or status.

Money fades, careers change, but a woman’s character and feminine energy will shape your everyday reality. Choose someone who adds to your life beyond the financial side someone whose strength lies in her softness, not in competing with you.

Just my thoughts, bro. Choose wisely.

Natbrowny:
He is the prize in this scenario.

He defined himsef quite well

Ride on King

men are always the prize irrespective of if status. As good as it sound there is still a negative. A man should never equate himself to a woman. Men of today have lowered the standard that’s why women behave the way they do

Creditalerts:
i have my own house and my personal car also a good job,I am dating one now but she is broke and a student from an average family,but I am confused. I don't want to look like a savior to her family. I'm planning to settle her if I see a better option 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

Please never settle for less bro. My Uncle used to warn me about this cos he's now regretting doing this same mistake you are about to do. Her family is expecting my big brother to be the savior of their family from poverty. That broke woman that is submissive to you today, I swear it's because of what she's gaining from you o. Make she born one first, na there you go see her true color.

Infact it shouldn't be a debate gan self, what makes them to resist a broke man, I don't expect any sensible man to settle for less too.

moneyissweet:
As a married man my advice for single men is this; never ever marry a poor girl or a girl from a poor home. No matter how beautiful, sexy and educated she is. They are very useless. Never ever make that mistake in your life. The way woman love to marry rich men, the same way you should marry someone that has something to offer financially.

No do that mistake guys. You will forever regret it

Seconded!

Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters.
This will make the forum more interesting for everyone.

Yes, you made the right decision. Don't even settle down 👇 with anyone why spend the rest of your life eating sour grapes.
Sample, pipe and swipe.

Don27tiky:
men are always the prize irrespective of if status. As good as it sound there is still a negative. A man should never equate himself to a woman. Men of today have lowered the standard that’s why women behave the way they do

You are on point. Thanks for your submission. Men have to sit up.

OniyideAmplify:
Please never settle for less bro. My Uncle used to warn me about this cos he's now regretting doing this same mistake you are about to do. Her family is expecting my big brother to be the savior of their family from poverty. That broke woman that is submissive to you today, I swear it's because of what she's gaining from you o. Make she born one first, na there you go see her true color.

Infact it shouldn't be a debate gan self, what makes them to resist a broke man, I don't expect any sensible man to settle for less too.

you are right but na them broke girls just full everywhere 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

The guy that wrote this thrash is still broke.

The joy of being financially buoyant is in helping your loved ones, friends and people genuinely in need.


And the greatest joy of a financially successful man is in spending on his kids, wife, family members, in-laws, and most importantly his side chicke


Why are you making money if not to help people around you?


Marry into a rich family as a man and you will not enjoy visiting your in-laws, but when you are rich and your wife's family are not as rich, there is this great joy in paying them visit and being welcomed as the odogwu in-law.


All these gen z boys and their yeye sense, what do I even know self

ediko5:
I'm glad the gospel of RedPill is growing effectively and a lot of men are waking up.

How can a lady from the lowest class and in some cass uneducated lady set a standard for a high class man while a man on the 10th floor will go all the way down to the ground floor to accept 'any thing' for marriage.

I'm so happy for the development

Indeed the gospel is spreading. Men AND Women must protect themselves, never settle for less than you realistically deserve, get legal protection with a prenup, consult a lawyer and find out what you can do to FURTHER shield assets in case of divorce. It's unfortunate but it has come to that.

Years ago a Nigerian doctor here insisted that his fiancee sign a prenup, this was probably 2009 or so. She refused and the marriage never happened. She found another mugu, married and divorced him and took one of his houses. Real story.

Another doctor that just got married, the fiancee tried all she could to get him to alter the prenup. It was an interesting one, he actually told me about some of the demands. He refused to budge, the lady signed. They're happily married.

It's a good thing all around. Everyone go make your own money. The final frontier will be the invention of artificial human incubators. Until then, men are well advised to STRONGLY CONSIDER surrogate pregnancy to have a child that is SOLELY theirs by law.

Good Luck to Nigerians.

RightToReject:
Nonsense mentality! As if money is everything, or that a lady who doesn't have today it automatically means that she can't have in her lifetime even if she focuses on making it. And of what use is a lady that has money, to you as a man, if she can't honorably cater for you when you don't have.

He's a toast to your award as a seeeemp.
🥂 🥂 to more award

PheelzAlmighty:
Women are amazing creatures. They bring so much color to your life❤️

At the end of the day, they'll smite you with color blindness & drop you like yesterday's food that has grown fungi.

LMAO!

Goo0dHardDick:
Only foolish men settles for less after making it in life 🧬

Your gf is only with you now because you're the best option available at her disposal. Let her see another guy who's more sophisticated, richer and doper than you, Ur guess is as good as mine 👍 she'll dump u ASAP.

Why settle for less when you can get a rich girl or a girl from a rich family to marry?

Understand that a broke girl will never choose u if you were broke and haven't made it. So why on earth would you settle for such?

The guy is like biblical rich who gets rich from good harvest. Instead of thanking god he becomes boastful.

What he ought to say that he gonna get a good wife. Good wife whether poor or rich is better billionaire one.

From his statement that guy has not gotten money because if he does helping people he loves won't be his problem

Well, let me correct you

Unfortunately money doesn't determine the value of a woman. A good and intelligent woman from a poor background is valued more than the daughter of a rich man with poor character and less intelligent.

However, men came to the world with zero value and has to build his value as he progresses in life. that value includes money, personality, properties, name etc.

femi4:
Let character be your guide. Her material status should come second

story 4 the gods,how about the character of the rest of the members of her family?

chibuikejohn:
Well, let me correct you

Unfortunately money doesn't determine the value of a woman. A good and intelligent woman from a poor background is valued more than the daughter of a rich man with poor character and less intelligent.

However, men came to the world with zero value and has to build his value as he progresses in life. that value includes money, personality, properties, name etc.

I disagree with you.Howmany Rich girls have you seen checking the character of a broke man and going onward to date them? for starters poor people do not go to where rich people go.I glass of beer I mean a pint cost N2k in stadume road but go to sky bar in GRA it cost N4k.In the Nigerian context, poor is poor, rich is rich simple.SO you are making your statement based on Gendar.And to top it all, if you are in Nigeria, having few Millions does not make you rich anymore, you got to be a Billionaire as our monies is now lobish.

galantjoe:
The guy is like biblical rich who gets rich from good harvest. Instead of thanking god he becomes boastful.

What he ought to say that he gonna get a good wife. Good wife whether poor or rich is better billionaire one.

From his statement that guy has not gotten money because if he does helping people he loves won't be his problem

Good wife from where?church? ahahah brother please.I dont think you realize these days we are way to westernize, Marriage is a certified relationship.This is the reason some govt of the world has made two persons living together for long to have same right as married couples.

franchasng:
The guy that wrote this thrash is still broke.

The joy of being financially buoyant is in helping your loved ones, friends and people genuinely in need.


And the greatest joy of a financially successful man is in spending on his kids, wife, family members, in-laws, and most importantly his side chicke


Why are you making money if not to help people around you?


Marry into a rich family as a man and you will not enjoy visiting your in-laws, but when you are rich and your wife's family are not as rich, there is this great joy in paying them visit and being welcomed as the odogwu in-law.


All these gen z boys and their yeye sense, what do I even know self

WHy are you doing this to yourself? who is your role model?bross, dump this mentality,number one intrest should be you on the larder of climbing to self determination.If you get to the class of being rich this talk will be dished,your clas of association will be diferent, events you go to will be for the rich only xcept you are a local man which by the way has nothing wrong with.Did you even sit down to nalalize teh meaning of a BROKE GIRL?

erico2k2:
story 4 the gods,how about the character of the rest of the members of her family?

You are spending more time with her than the members of her family

2. You can marry a financially ok woman and still lack support. It's all about their mentality n character

femi4:
You are spending more time with her than the members of her family

2. You can marry a financially ok woman and still lack support. It's all about their mentality n character

I think you should analize the real meaning of a Broke girl.WHo do you think is a broke girl?there is a big difference between a broke girl and a poor girl,one has entitlement mentality and want the good things i n life without working hard or even aiming to work for it, they just want it, and add zero development to the life of the giver.them full here hence none is saying anything

erico2k2:
I think you should analize the real meaning of a Broke girl.WHo do you think is a broke girl?there is a big difference between a broke girl and a poor girl,one has entitlement mentality and want the good things i n life without working hard or even aiming to work for it, they just want it, and add zero development to the life of the giver.them full here hence none is saying anything

While you are looking at physical broke vs poor

It's more important that you consider mental poverty/ brokenness