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almarthins:
Huh!

U sure say that one na woman?

Women wey me I sabi no dey gree. Well, may be this one like to share. Na animashaun.

dey Play. Women like this plenty, Infact when my late grandma saw my grandpa was moving fishy, she went out and brought in a 2nd wife for my grandpa, lol her own na no choose before me, but after me is allowed... Na so my grandpa take marry 3 wives courtesy the 1st wife. Lol

It seems hookup/promiscuity has confused her sense of judgement.

Her 🧠 needs to be restored to factory settings.

Run o 😀

If this is true, then she’s trying to justify her wayward ways.

MissOpe:
I can relate with this...
I am married and given the numerous disagreement btw my spouse and I, at this point I don't mind if he has a small wife that takes his problem away from me....I don't like sex and ive told him numerous times he can get someone to warm his bed.
Marriage is not a do or die affair...
If I have my way I don't mind an opened marriage....

To get another wife? Forget it, U will be sharing with other men and Uncle is scared

Better babe, may rich guy fall on you jareh.


She deserves the best, very understanding chick

MissOpe:
I can relate with this...
I am married and given the numerous disagreement btw my spouse and I, at this point I don't mind if he has a small wife that takes his problem away from me....I don't like sex and ive told him numerous times he can get someone to warm his bed.
Marriage is not a do or die affair...
If I have my way I don't mind an opened marriage....

hahahahahahahaha, I don laugh like mad, Nland an it's uniqueness

Some females in marriage with men would rather be with their fellow female if not for societal pressures. Same applies to men too!
You'll be shocked by what that your adorable wife gets up to behind closed doors with that her best female friend (married or not).
Do not put too much faith in an adult you met in her late 20s or 30s... chances are she is not with you because of love.

Sccarrr:
lol.... wahala, where Una dey see this kind women marry, God abeg 😹

Btw ,u are not really into your husband na why u no like the sex, una just be roommates fucking whenever it pleases you.. Wetin I dey talk sef🥱,how Someone wey dey advocate side chick for the husband, open relationship,marriage no be do all die, blabla wan like her husband ? 😒

I am into him and I love him, but I'm just a very free , open minded person, you guys say men are polygamous in nature and that one woman is not meant for a man, but marriage laws limited men and they have to stick to one wife by fire by force (even though some men cheat), but I say nooooo, men aren't made for rules but rules for men..
They should be given the opportunity to explore their fantasies as far as it doesn't cause bodily harm to their partners.....
So I say again, my husband is free to have a side chick that tickles his fantasies, I have my money he has his, the only thing is if he's sleeping with them he can protect himself except he's sure she doesn't have STDs..

Life is short, let everyone chop Their lives before life chop them.....

Eddodoh:
To get another wife? Forget it, U will be sharing with other men and Uncle is scared

I think that's why he doesn't agree to my wishes for him, but he knows me that I cannot and never cheat, I was a virgin so what's the need to sleep around, me I just want peace for and my mental health, whatever rocks his boat let him do, I have me and my children to focus on, not another man's problem...
Life is very simple if we allow ourselves to enjoy the simplicity of life

She is after peace of mind not man.







I know of a family that runs like this.

I can remember an ex telling me this, i later found out it was the only way she could clear her own conscience over her dirty deeds. Thankfully i didn't fall for that nonsense. I want you to lie because I too am a liar... Thats just what she is saying... Note the fact she doesn't want him to be home all the time lol [center][/center]

I don't understand why try to censor or cover up the word cheat?

The woman he cheats with would like to rub it in your face. You allow him to cheat, she wants drama, she’s going to start rubbing it in your face. Get to home finances, try to interfere to the point that funds aren’t enough for you and your family just so you know she’s there, she exists. Try to control your husband so you know she’s in charge, etc. Side chick hardly keeps to herself and her role which is sex. Whether she’s interested in your husband or not.

Also, diseases are a concern. You won’t be so happy about cheating by the time you start treating diseases. Even with carefulness, he can contract something and bring it to you.

Spiritually, he’s going to mix his spirit with hers during sex, so he’s bringing home the remnants of other spirits of those SHE has had sex with. Who knows if the spirits of those she has been with before him are good or bad, infested with misery or glory. He will just bring it home and sleep with you one day, then both of you will be carrying several remnants of other people, spiritually experiencing stuff you don’t understand.

Your body is like a portal, the less energies enter you, the better. If anything enters it should have a good spiritual presence and it should not be too mixed with others spiritual energy.

MissOpe:
I can relate with this...
I am married and given the numerous disagreement btw my spouse and I, at this point I don't mind if he has a small wife that takes his problem away from me....I don't like sex and ive told him numerous times he can get someone to warm his bed.
Marriage is not a do or die affair...
If I have my way I don't mind an opened marriage....

You see am...our ladies.If I had my own way....why go into the marriage in the first place.Oh I forgot you married for love ..love is a feeling it will pass Marriage is for friends take away love they will still live together.

Am so sorry to ask you this Madam..Do you still have feelings for him?

MissOpe:
I can relate with this...
I am married and given the numerous disagreement btw my spouse and I, at this point I don't mind if he has a small wife that takes his problem away from me....I don't like sex and ive told him numerous times he can get someone to warm his bed.
Marriage is not a do or die affair...
If I have my way I don't mind an opened marriage....

MissOpe:
I am into him and I love him, but I'm just a very free , open minded person, you guys say men are polygamous in nature and that one woman is not meant for a man, but marriage laws limited men and they have to stick to one wife by fire by force (even though some men cheat), but I say nooooo, men aren't made for rules but rules for men..
They should be given the opportunity to explore their fantasies as far as it doesn't cause bodily harm to their partners.....
So I say again, my husband is free to have a side chick that tickles his fantasies, I have my money he has his, the only thing is if he's sleeping with them he can protect himself except he's sure she doesn't have STDs..

Life is short, let everyone chop Their lives before life chop them.....

you want your husband to explore right?..what about you, You'd love that too right??

Well, I have a feeling you're exploring already and just looking for some kind of justification.

but if not, you are really a weird person.... No one in this world want their partner they truly love to fuvk some other people, unless people with fuvked up sexual-fantasies mind..
Some open mindedness just doesn't go with marriage..

Men don't ever cheat. If you can't endure the relationship, just break up. Cheating should never be an option.

MissOpe:
I can relate with this...
I am married and given the numerous disagreement btw my spouse and I, at this point I don't mind if he has a small wife that takes his problem away from me....I don't like sex and ive told him numerous times he can get someone to warm his bed.
Marriage is not a do or die affair...
If I have my way I don't mind an opened marriage....

I'm curious, why did you agree to marry when you know sex is one of the components of marriage?

Sccarrr:
you want your husband to explore right?..what about you? I have a feeling you're exploring already and just looking for some kind of justification.

but if not, you are really a weird person.... Some open mindedness just doesn't go with marriage.

I'm not exploring, I'm just simply opened and honest.
You guys said men are polygamous in nature, and I'm just trying to come to terms with it and help him,
One thing about me is I hate been forced, I hate been under rules written by men like my self ..
If im not killing or stealing or causing direct harm on anyone , by all means let me or anyone enjoy their lives like it pleases ..

Btw, I'm also a full time supporter of the LGBTQ community, do Identify as one ?
Noooooo.
But live and let others live ...Life is short

Mathewrichard99:
Am so sorry to ask you this Madam..Do you still have feelings for him?

Why not..
He disvirgined me and his gbola is too sweet and perfect that I don't ever crave for any other one ..but I don't like constant, all the time sex , I love quality 3 times in a month sex experienced during my ovulation period, but he wants it every other day, so to solve his problem , I advice that he gets a side chick but Baba dey vex .....
Maka why

She has a terrible intention even as a married woman.

She want him to come home once in two weeks so that she can also have time for another man.

What is this world turning to?

A married person may become bored with a spouse who never varies his behaviour; the spouse is equally bored with himself. The person who is bored with life is one who is obliged to keep repeating the same response. 😎😎

MissOpe:
I'm not exploring, I'm just simply opened and honest.
You guys said men are polygamous in nature, and I'm just trying to come to terms with it and help him,
One thing about me is I hate been forced, I hate been under rules written by men like my self ..
If im not killing or stealing or causing direct harm on anyone , by all means let me or anyone enjoy their lives like it pleases ..

Btw, I'm also a full time supporter of the LGBTQ community, do Identify as one ?
Noooooo.
But live and let others live ...Life is short

well ,you can't say you're comfortable with it or have no worries until it happens sha and you have full experience of the situation, cos a lot of things will definitely change..

you will see your husband and your home in a whole new light... I wish u best of luck and I hope your husband won't hear your little cry for destruction.🥱

onadana:
You see am...our ladies.If I had my own way....why go into the marriage in the first place.Oh I forgot you married for love ..love is a feeling it will pass Marriage is for friends take away love they will still live together.

My guy, if I ever live this marriage for any reason.
Just know for a fact that I'll marry myself and if I have to marry or get In a relationship with anyone, just be sure that both of us will never ever stay together ....laye

[quote author=almarthins post=135934804]Huh!

U sure say that one na woman?

Women wey me I sabi no dey gree. Well, may be this one like to share. Na animashaun.

Your eye go clear when side chick snatch him from you.Her message clearly indicates that the foundation of marriage is no longer based on love but comfort and procreation.If a woman really loves a man,she would never conceive the thought of sharing him with another woman.

MissOpe:
I can relate with this...
I am married and given the numerous disagreement btw my spouse and I, at this point I don't mind if he has a small wife that takes his problem away from me....I don't like sex and ive told him numerous times he can get someone to warm his bed.
Marriage is not a do or die affair...
If I have my way I don't mind an opened marriage....

Your decision is non of anybody business here, say that to your husband.

MissOpe:
I can relate with this...
I am married and given the numerous disagreement btw my spouse and I, at this point I don't mind if he has a small wife that takes his problem away from me....I don't like sex and ive told him numerous times he can get someone to warm his bed.
Marriage is not a do or die affair...
If I have my way I don't mind an opened marriage....

WHY DID YOU MARRY IF YOU DONT LIKE SEX.
WHICH MEANS YOU MARRIED EITHER FOR FINANCIAL REASONS OR
BECAUSE OF SOCIAL PRESSURE
MAYBE YOU EVEN MARRIED A MAN YOU DONT LIKE.
A LOT OF NIGERIAN WOMEN LIKE YOU NEED TO BE PSYCHOANALYZED

Akinpresident:
I'm curious, why did you agree to marry when you know sex is one of the components of marriage?

Did anyone say I must be sexing every day for 365 days...?
I said I enjoy quality sex and I do it at least 3/4 times per month...

Did I say it's a sexless marriage?

He wants more sex and I can't compromise that, knowing that it's a lot of chore and pain for me ...

At this point I must confess that all oloshos and ashewos dey try oooo, cos what

MissOpe:
I am into him and I love him, but I'm just a very free , open minded person, you guys say men are polygamous in nature and that one woman is not meant for a man, but marriage laws limited men and they have to stick to one wife by fire by force (even though some men cheat), but I say nooooo, men aren't made for rules but rules for men..
They should be given the opportunity to explore their fantasies as far as it doesn't cause bodily harm to their partners.....
So I say again, my husband is free to have a side chick that tickles his fantasies, I have my money he has his, the only thing is if he's sleeping with them he can protect himself except he's sure she doesn't have STDs..

Life is short, let everyone chop Their lives before life chop them.....

INTERESTING. YOU LOVE A MAN BUT
DO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM.
SOUNDS RIDICULOUS
YOU SOUND LIKE YOU NEED THERAPY,

,I GET IT YOU LIKE HIM AS A FRIEND WITH A GOOD PERSONALITY
BUT YOU LACK SEXUAL ATTRACTION