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"Not everyone deserves an invitation to your wedding.
Some people are secretly hoping it never happens.
If they had the chance, they would convince your partner to walk away from you — not because of anything you've done, but simply because they don't like you.
To them, your happiness feels like an offense."

When asked ''Shey you no invite me for your wedding'' just apologize.. abeg no vex..

You said a lot without saying anything because you have not pointed out how we can identify those who do not want good things to come our way.

If you don't know those who do want to want good things to come your way, how do you know those you should not invite to your wedding?

You have not said anything because nobody invites a known enemy to his or her wedding. Known enemies are not the worst enemies. Known enemies are not as dangerous as unknown enemies. Every man's greatest fear is unknown enemies. Your worst enemy might be someone that has neither offended you no shown you any sign of hate or jealousy. So, how can you identify such a person and avoid the person's presence at your party?

Not inviting someone to your wedding must not always be about hatred. You can forget if the person isn't someone you communicate with often.

The message is clear and would resonate with anyone who has experienced such or currently experiencing one.
Messages like this always may not be passed how you want it.

immortalcrown:
You said a lot without saying anything because you have not pointed out how we can identify those who do not want good things to come our way.

If you don't know those who do want to want good things to come your way, how do you know those you should not invite to your wedding?

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Letmecum:
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see one of them here, they never feel good about anything in this life, everything is bad and useless to them

Yeah, you're right bro.
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Who invites "EVERYONE " in the first place?
Who does such

Tuface did a big wedding for Annie in dubai. Invited big celebs and big shots in Nigeria. 13 years after the marriage crashed. Soon in the next coming years, he would be wishing he used the wedding money to build an extra property somewhere.
My point is, weddings don't necessarily have to be too large. Just do it simple and celebrate with those you're sure wishes you well.

Why bother about that as the front for sieving invite? Like with all wey full your chest and bills to settle, na about this "haterz" list you go dey bother about? You get such time.


Let them come if they want or not. If they don't, good riddance. If they do show up, Table don set in presence of enemies. Nobody go focus on them if dem show.


It is true that not everyone needs to show up though. But trying to narrow down to that list of haterz na waste of time and migraine

COMRADES, let the op tell this to those people who have time for such events, me, I don't have time for any occasion either as host or a guest, apart from Christmas and new year, I no get anything to celebrate again

Yes Not Everyone Deserves to Be Invited ,Like Dele Momodu, FFK. & , Reno

Melagros:
COMRADES, let the op tell this to those people who have time for such events, me, I don't have time for any occasion either as host or a guest, apart from Christmas and new year, I no get anything to celebrate again

Eyaa e come be like say you no too really get joy,
Sorry ooo
Ndo

True.

Just careful of who you invite

Some Pple are Bad belles.

My fiance wants the fanciest of weddings.
She said it's something she fantasized about as a child.

Don't know if I'm harsh buh i told her it's gonna be a low-key thing with few people involved. If she wants to invite the whole world she should be ready to bear the cost.


I can't have people that don't love me eating from the same table with me. If she can sponsor it. No wahala.

Why have a noisy wedding in the first place?

The way I detest noise ehn! I hate elaborate weddings.

For me, some things should be private, like weddings.

Only few family members (not more than 10) from each side and not more than than 5 trusted friends from each side should witness a wedding.

Why would you need strangers to witness you exchanging vows? It's a sick mentality

OK



Just pray to God And Jesus before you do any ceremony ,



the few you think you knew and you invited ,could later be your worst nightmare ,


like our role model Princess Faith Chukwu Use to say,
That An Evil Doer is not written on the Forehead ,


Princess Faith Chukwuamaka

I’ve noticed something in this part of the world
Everything leans toward the negative.
Everyone is assumed to have an enemy.
Even love is filtered through suspicion.
It’s weird. And a bit sad.

Marriage/Wedding party is a good thing but use your head in doing it. If not done well, that's the origin of generational poverty 🤧.
Your Rider fit dey ride another guy, Your baby fit dey beat you. Dey on oOoOO, ire o

Yes so oooo

Not everyone should be invited to your wedding, especially Village people.

TallNigerian:
Why have a noisy wedding in the first place?

The way I detest noise ehn! I hate elaborate weddings.

For me, some things should be private, like weddings.

Only few family members (not more than 10) from each side and not more than than 5 trusted friends from each side should witness a wedding.

Why would you need strangers to witness you exchanging vows? It's a sick mentality

As in ehn.
Shikena. Simple something una wan turn am to party

immortalcrown:
You said a lot without saying anything because you have not pointed out how we can identify those who do not want good things to come our way.

If you don't know those who do want to want good things to come your way, how do you know those you should not invite to your wedding?

Nice response said a lot with saying anything at all

Mumu talk. How would you know who wishes you good or bad? Even some parents don’t like your spouse duhhh

immortalcrown:
You said a lot without saying anything because you have not pointed out how we can identify those who do not want good things to come our way.

If you don't know those who do want to want good things to come your way, how do you know those you should not invite to your wedding?

Gbam you just said my mind. This 40 characters sef

PastorKosi:
The message is clear and would resonate with anyone who has experienced such or currently experiencing one.
Messages like this always may not be passed how you want it.

You still didn't answer the question he asked. How do one knows who and who that are not happy you're getting married. Or do they write it on their foreheads

Person wey no like you from your friends no dey show for face. They maybe wining and dining with you with laughter to your face and hatred at your back which you will not know. So how then will you go about knowing and choosing the ones that are not happy with you not to invite them

Not even possible to invite EVERYONE to your wedding in the first place

immortalcrown:
You said a lot without saying anything because you have not pointed out how we can identify those who do not want good things to come our way.

If you don't know those who do want to want good things to come your way, how do you know those you should not invite to your wedding?

It's best to simply invite the numbers you can conveniently and comfortably attend to. The rest will receive the "abeg, I'm sorry". You cannot satisfy everybody in life.

kingthreat:
Tuface did a big wedding for Annie in dubai. Invited big celebs and big shots in Nigeria. 13 years after the marriage crashed. Soon in the next coming years, he would be wishing he used the wedding money to build an extra property somewhere.
My point is, weddings don't necessarily have to be too large. Just do it simple and celebrate with those you're sure wishes you well.

So the marriage collapsed because of the big wedding at Dubai?

TallNigerian:
Why have a noisy wedding in the first place?

The way I detest noise ehn! I hate elaborate weddings.

For me, some things should be private, like weddings.

Only few family members (not more than 10) from each side and not more than than 5 trusted friends from each side should witness a wedding.

Why would you need strangers to witness you exchanging vows? It's a sick mentality

Each to his own. Your fellow man recently shutdown a city, spending millions of dollars to marry his second wife...