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Please I really need genuine advice.

I’ve collected the numbers of more than 12 girls in my church — and every single one rejected me. Not even friendship, just straight rejection.

I know I’m not bad-looking — I’d rate myself above 7/10, no exaggeration. I dress well, I keep myself neat, I have curly hair and a good physique. I also earn over ₦500k monthly, so money is not my problem.

I don’t even live in the city — just a town here in the Southwest — by local standards, I know I’m doing well for my age.

I’ll be 30 next month, and honestly, I’m mentally tired. I’ve never even had a serious relationship — marriage talk is far.

The funny part is, I don’t even talk too much in church. I’m not loud, but when I try to approach someone, it never works out.

Please, I really want to know — what could be my problem?


I’ll appreciate real advice, please no insults. 🙏

Thank you all.


CAN I BE TOO INTIMIDATING?

Two girls still rejected me today, so I’m even thinking if I should ask one of them what the problem is.”

Really!…...

Just chill bro, and take in the pilllls bro.

I don't believe you are good looking, reserved and make 500k naira monthly in Nigerian economy today and all girls are rejecting you.

Helpout12345:
I don't believe you are good looking, reserved and make 500k naira monthly in Nigerian economy today and all girls are rejecting you.

YEs bro i don't knw wat I'm doing wrong honestly bro

U collect 12 different girls number in ur same church n u think say u Neva cast fr dat church, guy no b so dem dey run things jare.

Comot for your church and go another church, your face will be new there.

Post your photo and your available balance.. make I see if nah true say you guide

What do you tell them? It's not u they reject, it's what they think u represent, what u are speaks so loud, I can't hear what you say.if 1 billion ladies reject u, u must choose urself. By living a deliberate, intentional, purposeful living,then u won't b shy again.u re afraid.what u seek, seeks u.

maybe you are short

I don't have up to 40 characters

Let me help you.

Pray midnight for 4 days, from 12am to 2am.

Prayer point: I break every covenant with the spirit of rejection and I destroy the mysteries and yoke of rejection in Jesus name. Amen.

When you are done it will be easy for you.

I kuku ma get one fine girl for you. This one no go reject you,, trust me

1STCREATURE:
Please I really need genuine advice.

I’ve collected the numbers of more than 12 girls in my church — and every single one rejected me. Not even friendship, just straight rejection.

I know I’m not bad-looking — I’d rate myself above 7/10, no exaggeration. I dress well, I keep myself neat, I have curly hair and a good physique. I also earn over ₦500k monthly, so money is not my problem.

I don’t even live in the city — just a town here in the Southwest — by local standards, I know I’m doing well for my age.

I’ll be 30 next month, and honestly, I’m mentally tired. I’ve never even had a serious relationship — marriage talk is far.

The funny part is, I don’t even talk too much in church. I’m not loud, but when I try to approach someone, it never works out.

Please, I really want to know — what could be my problem?


I’ll appreciate real advice, please no insults. 🙏

Thank you all.

koladata:
maybe you are short

I don't have up to 40 characters

I'M NOT SHORT I'M 5'11












Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters.
This will make the forum more interesting for everyone.

Check mouth odor. What do you say to them.. it's not by talking o.. the thing is sense dey Wetin you dey tell them?.. Try older ladies and see if it's same.

If all these no work,then go pray against spiritual partner.

Your physical appearance might attract them, but your toxic personality repels them.

One mind is telling me that this is made up story


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But if it's true, then maybe you're shy to them and not bold enough.

Women like real niqqas

Even poor people have girl friend withing their level. So why should neat and good earning guy like you find it difficult?

koladata:
maybe you are short

I don't have up to 40 characters

Nothing like short oga

So, short guys in your area don't have babe?

I don't even know why you guys rate girls so high

If the guy is in Abuja, i can connect some girls to him. If he truly need something serious

CHASE YOUR FUTURE AND SEE GIRLS CHASING YOU, CONCENTRATE ON CHASING GIRLS AND SEE THEM AVOIDING YOU. EVERY MONKEY GRAVITATE TOWARDS BANANA.

I find this hard to believe. Asides from your church, have you been "rejected" in other places? How is your self esteem like? Are you the proverbial "Mr nice and shy guy"?

You are more likely an introvert or indoor dude. Go out more.

1STCREATURE:
Please I really need genuine advice.

I’ve collected the numbers of more than 12 girls in my church — and every single one rejected me. Not even friendship, just straight rejection.

I know I’m not bad-looking — I’d rate myself above 7/10, no exaggeration. I dress well, I keep myself neat, I have curly hair and a good physique. I also earn over ₦500k monthly, so money is not my problem.

I don’t even live in the city — just a town here in the Southwest — by local standards, I know I’m doing well for my age.

I’ll be 30 next month, and honestly, I’m mentally tired. I’ve never even had a serious relationship — marriage talk is far.

The funny part is, I don’t even talk too much in church. I’m not loud, but when I try to approach someone, it never works out.

Please, I really want to know — what could be my problem?


I’ll appreciate real advice, please no insults. 🙏

Thank you all.

Your spiritual wife is very active. You need deliverance

Probably you may seem too excited or formal,see them as men and just rapour naturally with them, not will you be my gf

Forget women, make money.
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Your first problem is thinking you’re 7/10..It’s possible you have no rizz or steeze to start a good conversation..Lastly,you sure say you brush?

1STCREATURE:
Two girls still rejected me today, so I’m even thinking if I should ask one of them what the problem is.”

Move out from the church circle and ask ladies out..?

It's natural bro all guy's face rejection but yours is too much you made a mistake collecting 12 girls number in your church as you collect the first one and two e nor sharp you suppose lock up. Now my advice for you is leave that church start approaching girls at random places like bus stop, market etc just make sure they're within range but not too close to where you'll be seeing each other often even a nerd a tour or a short guy will eventually see a girl that likes him, if after trying all these it still doesn't work you'll have to go for spiritual cleansing as you may have a spiritual wife

1STCREATURE:
Please I really need genuine advice.

I’ve collected the numbers of more than 12 girls in my church — and every single one rejected me. Not even friendship, just straight rejection.

I know I’m not bad-looking — I’d rate myself above 7/10, no exaggeration. I dress well, I keep myself neat, I have curly hair and a good physique. I also earn over ₦500k monthly, so money is not my problem.

I don’t even live in the city — just a town here in the Southwest — by local standards, I know I’m doing well for my age.

I’ll be 30 next month, and honestly, I’m mentally tired. I’ve never even had a serious relationship — marriage talk is far.

The funny part is, I don’t even talk too much in church. I’m not loud, but when I try to approach someone, it never works out.

Please, I really want to know — what could be my problem?


I’ll appreciate real advice, please no insults. 🙏

Thank you all.

Even the Mr nice, broke guy or shy girl will still see a girl that'll choose him

LIVINGICONREBOR:
I find this hard to believe. Asides from your church, have you been "rejected" in other places? How is your self esteem like? Are you the proverbial "Mr nice and shy guy"?

You are more likely an introvert or indoor dude. Go out more.

1STCREATURE:
Please I really need genuine advice.

I’ve collected the numbers of more than 12 girls in my church — and every single one rejected me. Not even friendship, just straight rejection.

I know I’m not bad-looking — I’d rate myself above 7/10, no exaggeration. I dress well, I keep myself neat, I have curly hair and a good physique. I also earn over ₦500k monthly, so money is not my problem.

I don’t even live in the city — just a town here in the Southwest — by local standards, I know I’m doing well for my age.

I’ll be 30 next month, and honestly, I’m mentally tired. I’ve never even had a serious relationship — marriage talk is far.

The funny part is, I don’t even talk too much in church. I’m not loud, but when I try to approach someone, it never works out.

Please, I really want to know — what could be my problem?


I’ll appreciate real advice, please no insults. 🙏

Thank you all.

You cant toast dozen of girls in the same church or area and you expect anyone to gree for you… your toasting request willl spread among the girls and they will see you as a low value man.. even tho they secretly love you… so forget the church and Troy somewhere else like go out to the mall and find a girl or go online…

Sha be careful.. don’t let any one open shop for ur head

1STCREATURE:
Please I really need genuine advice.

I’ve collected the numbers of more than 12 girls in my church — and every single one rejected me. Not even friendship, just straight rejection.

I know I’m not bad-looking — I’d rate myself above 7/10, no exaggeration. I dress well, I keep myself neat, I have curly hair and a good physique. I also earn over ₦500k monthly, so money is not my problem.

I don’t even live in the city — just a town here in the Southwest — by local standards, I know I’m doing well for my age.

I’ll be 30 next month, and honestly, I’m mentally tired. I’ve never even had a serious relationship — marriage talk is far.

The funny part is, I don’t even talk too much in church. I’m not loud, but when I try to approach someone, it never works out.

Please, I really want to know — what could be my problem?


I’ll appreciate real advice, please no insults. 🙏

Thank you all.

You lack confidence and self-esteem, that's my deduction from your post.
You are trying to flaunt your little wealth to this girls which is wrong.
You are not exuding confidence that you are serious with them

Biqsahm:
U collect 12 different girls number in ur same church n u think say u Neva cast fr dat church, guy no b so dem dey run things jare.

that guy is lying.
Even if the guy has 500k as he claims those girls will be killing themselves and fighting each other for him

How do you walk or carry yourself?
Women can smell a man that lacks confidence. Build your confidence. If you the type that flaunts cash stop it.

Church is not the only place to find a wife.
Learn to converse intellecting with ladies without even collecting numbers.
Stop telling women they look beautiful but instead compliment their hair, clothes..."you smell so good."