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Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Gmone(op): 2:28pm On Jul 05, 2025

So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Rhema04(m): 2:49pm On Jul 05, 2025

Both of them have good attributes based on what you said about them.. I will advise you to go for the younger one but at the same time be ready to receive different levels of CURSES from the older one as she is kind of old to be disappointed..

In all, may God direct your path.

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by obama30: 3:10pm On Jul 05, 2025

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

First of all, what tribe are you? Igbo ladies are not for men of every tribe, have this in mind. Igbo men know how to treat their ladies better than any man of others tribes. Are you ready to compete with Igbo men, because she will remind you how her sisters is taken care of by your fellow men. This your fellow men is Odogwu Igbo man. If you can't compete with her igboness do run away. To marry Igbo lady is not about checking if she's virgin or not. Is about is you are a complete man today, tomorrow and till death separate you apart.

Depends your tribe you can marry a kaduna lady even though she's 33, she may have not seen what Igbo girl has seen and can take shit from you which Igbo lady can't . You don't have anything to compete with and she's not going to remind you about how her sisters is taken care of by their husband, because of their sisters are fourth wife to some men.

But you need to mention your tribe, for proper checking.

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by ManirBK: 3:20pm On Jul 05, 2025

Nlfpmod come settle this confusing matter o. Mynd44

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Ikaeniyan0: 3:42pm On Jul 05, 2025

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

Nah you know who you love pass between the two of them

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Exousiang01(m): 3:43pm On Jul 05, 2025*

Abeg where you see 33 year old Virgin?
Has she been in coma the last 20 years?

But on a serious note, you are dating the both of them which means you are cheating on the both of them.
I hope you won't get angry if you get to discover that you are not the only one playing the game.

So you are cheating on the both of them and you have the guts to talk about infidelity

I don't think you are being fair to those ladies.
Its actually an act of wickedness, who knows, the one you will not marry would be married by now or be engaged, only the gods know how many serious men they turn away for a man who can't take a serious decision in his life he is seeking public opinion.
People will soon start printing questionnaire just to take life decisions...

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by drimzsmoke(m): 3:43pm On Jul 05, 2025*

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

Pretend to be very broke, and marry the last one standing by you

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Omicron007: 3:43pm On Jul 05, 2025

33 YEAR OLD VIRGIN?

CONSIDER THESE SCENARIOS:

WILL YOU RATHER A LAND THAT HAS EXPERIENCED DROUGHT FOR 33 YEARS WITH A SHOVEL, OR A LAND THAT HAD BEEN FARMED FOR A FEW YEARS USING THE SAME TOOL?

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by komols856: 3:44pm On Jul 05, 2025

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

Ask Tony Tetula....She is in love with 2 women but don't which one to take

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by OgidiHerbals: 3:44pm On Jul 05, 2025

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

Even if she's 40years old and a virgin marry her o,e get why

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by GIDIBANKZ(m): 3:44pm On Jul 05, 2025*

Bros marry that Hausa virgin for ya own GOOD OOH....I know what am saying

Bros if you nor wor marry the VIRGIN abeq PASS HER GIVE ME, I NOR GO WASTE TIME GO SEE HER PEOPLE and marry her

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Kemadealadire(f): 3:44pm On Jul 05, 2025

Lol, smh.

Seun, come and help him choose, don't know what to type again.

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Sunisonflex39(m): 3:45pm On Jul 05, 2025

Go for the one that gives you peace of mind

Make U dey find virgin and nonsense virgin..

Few years go tell u

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by johannesburg(m): 3:45pm On Jul 05, 2025

Your mind dey for the non Virgin just go for her but give me that virgin contact let me marry her to heal her pains coming in advance from you

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by bestman09(m): 3:45pm On Jul 05, 2025

Your choice. Just like choosing a brand new Volkswagen beetle 1990 and a fairly Nigerian used 2002 Corolla

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by enemyofprogress: 3:46pm On Jul 05, 2025

Person used alum to tighten her kpekus, you dey happy sey you don see virgin. Dey play.

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Compliant(m): 3:46pm On Jul 05, 2025

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

Better for the 33 years as she is mature and understand life.

The 23 is Gen Z and will leave you for another guy if things later go south

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by iwaeda: 3:47pm On Jul 05, 2025

Who wants to feel pleasure? Is it not you, I think for a woman to be tear rubber alot, it speaks volumes. If you dont mind, How old are you? What do you want in a wife, that guides your choice. grin

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Goo0dHardDick: 3:47pm On Jul 05, 2025

OP, we all know you want to marry non virgin because you have both been knacking and she's great in sßx.

Dude don't marry anyone. Just Look for a clean virgin between 19-23yrs and marry.

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by osazsky(m): 3:47pm On Jul 05, 2025

If she is a virgin yes I will marry her hello guys never you marry a non virgin if u do u are gone..those who meet their wives as non virgin should do a DNA test on their first child and last child..never u pay the bride price of non virgins how do u live with her knowing fully well u paid for a damaged goods if u insist that u must pay never pay more than I0 naira..wat do I even know other than to tell my fellow men this good new..how do u guys marry non virgins and see nothing wrong with it..this should be the 8th wonders of the world

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Wizardslayer: 3:47pm On Jul 05, 2025

I know you have your eyes on the non virgin bcus of her age so go ahead and marry her.

Just marry the non virgin and stop disturbing us.

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by RavinWolf(m): 3:47pm On Jul 05, 2025

Ah! To marry one of these two fine ladies na real wahala o! 😄

Lady 1 with her 33 years of virginity dey carry the whole “unopened wine” vibes, but you dey fear say every biscuit wey you buy go turn to one pot of soup and “where is my gift?” negotiation! 😂 She fit run your budget dry quicker than your ATM can say "no funds!"

Then we get Lady 2, the 23-year-old heroine of the GenZ era! Sharp like a kitchen knife, she dey solve problems like she dey own WISE Inc. But she no carry virginity badge; instead, she carry confidence and vibes wey fit make you dance to TikTok trends!

Now, the question be say, “does virginity equal fidelity?” My brother, na serious mathematics! You fit find someone wey dey promote fidelity without being a virgin. Meanwhile, you fit find a virgin wey go dey spend your money like say na her father's bank!

At the end, my advice be this: Collect both of their numbers, put them for group chat, and form “relationship council.” As dem dey banter, you go fit see who go make the best jokes. The winner get to plan the wedding, and you go just dey enjoy the "drama"! 😂💍

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Kenbuzzy: 3:47pm On Jul 05, 2025

Pray about it. Ask God for direction.
One wrong decision now can hurt you for a lifetime. May God give you understand 🙏.

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by hegelian: 3:47pm On Jul 05, 2025

Exousiang01:
Abeg where you see 33 year old Virgin?
Has she been in coma the kaat 20 years?

But on a lighter note, you arw dating the both of them which means you are cheating on the both of them.
I hope you won't get angry if you get to discover that you are not the only one playing the game.

You will be surprised at the number of virgins roaming around both young and old.. Forget the social media craze and wannabes everywhere, they are in the minority.. Plenty virgins dey including those one ls you think don tear eye.. It's easy for some of us to discover them and we no dey touch them to avoid hate later

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 3:47pm On Jul 05, 2025

Why in the world should any man with brains in his head be considering wifing a non-virgin?

Of all the sermons on Redpill, of all the stories about exes and marital infidelities, despite Okafor's ratified law which was propounded and published on this same Nairaland?

Who is manufacturing all these men bikonunu?

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by valboyz2010(m): 3:47pm On Jul 05, 2025

The last virgin die 10000BC were u for see virgin

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Juanmike(m): 3:48pm On Jul 05, 2025

I PREFER 77 YEARS OF VIRGIN.
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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by BadEnglish(m): 3:48pm On Jul 05, 2025

You for ask her why she still remain virgin after all this years.

Plus some advice need to be spiritually sought, not nairaland

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by SlavaUkraini: 3:49pm On Jul 05, 2025

Go for the Virgin and be the first man to burst her valve...

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by id4sho(m): 3:49pm On Jul 05, 2025

Na vagina go Kee my gender. toto this, toto that. It's worth discussing if it ain't smelling 🤧

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Re: Should I Marry A 33-year-old Virgin Or A 23-year-old Non-virgin? by Antoeni(m): 3:49pm On Jul 05, 2025

Actually, a woman who gets married while she is a virgin, knows only one size of her man's manhood. Therefore, the size will not have any effect on her because she gets fitted to her man's pintle regardless of the size.

On the other hand, if a woman experienced different pintle sizes before getting married, when she gets married, the size of her man's manhood will have an impact on her.

Such a woman will begin to complain that her husband doesn't satisfy her in bed because she begins to compare her man's manhood strength, sizes, and weight with what she got outside from her ex fúckérs.

Remember, a child who has never been trained to eat outside, will always believe that her mother's food is the sweetest and the best. Such a child will never know that her mother's food is not sweet.

What a man owes a woman is love, care and to get her pregnant; because, the greatest joy of a woman in a marriage is when you give her a child, a family.

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