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If you desire peace of mind,which I personally consider as the ultimate,go for the first lady— you won't regret it. As for the second lady,the GenZ vibe is a red flag and if you're not Igbo yourself,run away from her!

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I will say go for the Gen Z lady


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I just knew d non virgin had to be from d south
Yeast

First, how old are you?

I can advise you properly if I know how old you are.

Op, marriages is not for the immature mind. You are immature by my estimaion because you are only seeing immediate posturing in these two women. Again, you cannot love 2 women equally. So, my question is which of them do you really miss the most? Who do you really love? If another younger virgin comes your way, would you abandon the 33 years old? If a beautiful and equally enterprising older lady who is non-virging comes, will you be looking at her?
There is a reason Jacob told Reuben that "as a wavering man you will not amount to anything". As a young man, what do you want?

If I were you I would go for the mature 33years old lady especially if she is not bad looking added to other qualities you mentioned about her.
I believe she will be more tolerant and would adapt better to any situation any day.
Being a virgin at her age is also an added advantage especially in today's world where even 14yrs old girls are already knacking.
I will hold such a lady very tight oooo.

Marry both of them at the same day and your name will enter Guinness book of Record as someone who married virgin and non virgin at the same day.

IRE O

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

Marrying a virgin doesn't guarantee faithfulness. You can ask Israel DMW

2. You might get there and discovered that she's not a virgin. Just choose one that you love n have character cos it makes forgiveness easy

id4sho:
Na vagina go Kee my gender. toto this, toto that. It's worth discussing if it ain't smelling 🤧

And I've been looking for anyone who'll describe the smell for me.
Everyone's saying it smells natural, it smells earthy, it smells what I don't know.

You can tell me sha, what exactly does it smell like mbok?

I guess those that are giving you advise now, are the one to leave with, whoever you finally choose.

Reason why MARRIAGES are collapsing like park of card, ......they want to marry, the type of woman/man they see their friends married.

Nothing but advice for a man who is considering choosing between 2 women he is dating.
That's a good one and there is nothing wrong with it

Let's keep up with this same energy when the table turns.

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

Both of them are good base on what you wrote about them, but I will advise you to go for the 33yrs old virgin. The best gift a woman can ever giving to you aside her good character is her virginity.

It's not advisable to marry a well marrying Virgin will give you little rest of Mind at least you are the first man. Most woman do have it in their memory the man that break it .
The 23 year old girl can still go back to that guy that open it if care is not take all your children you have to be doing DNA test for them. Again size of your gbola if the previous guy shabi nack pass you, then you are in trouble

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

obama30:
First of all, what tribe are you? Igbo ladies are not for men of every tribe, have this in mind. Igbo men know how to treat their ladies better than any man of others tribes. Are you ready to compete with Igbo men, because she will remind you how her sisters is taken care of by your fellow men. This your fellow men is Odogwu Igbo man. If you can't compete with her igboness do run away. To marry Igbo lady is not about checking if she's virgin or not. Is about is you are a complete man today, tomorrow and till death separate you apart.

Depends your tribe you can marry a kaduna lady even though she's 33, she may have not seen what Igbo girl has seen and can take shit from you which Igbo lady can't . You don't have anything to compete with and she's not going to remind you about how her sisters is taken care of by their husband, because of their sisters are fourth wife to some men.

But you need to mention your tribe, for proper checking.

Kini n wi!!!😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏


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Being a non-virgin doesn't mean you are a bad marriage candidate. That shouldn't be enough to disqualify a lady in the dating pool.

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

The one with the transactional love is the problem. End of story

Where are you from?

If your not From south east, no marry the south east girl o.

Na advise

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

These 3 things are admirable in a woman:

- A woman that is young
- A woman that gives
- A woman that is respectful

Look for the one that has most of these 3 qualities.

As for being a virgin, virginity is not a permanent trait. So, ask yourself, after you marry and disvirgin her, what else remains?

That is her real quality.

I vote for the 33yrs virgin, reason being that she's more matured and ready for marriage than that of 23yrd non virgin. But be ready to teach her the sexy styles.

How did you know she's a virgin?

Good character from a 33yr old before marriage is not to be trusted until proven otherwise.

Please I will advise you to pray and fast very much well for you to know the right one to choose so that you will not regret tomorrow

Exousiang01:
Abeg where you see 33 year old Virgin?
Has she been in coma the last 20 years?


But on a lighter note, you are dating the both of them which means you are cheating on the both of them.
I hope you won't get angry if you get to discover that you are not the only one playing the game.

I don't think you are being fair to those ladies.
Its actually an act of wickedness, who knows, the one you will not marry would be married by now or be engaged, only the gods know how many serious men they turn away for a man who can't take a serious decision in his life he is seeking public opinion.
People will soon start printing questionnaire just to take life decisions...

dont mind him cock and bulll story

12 more character needed for senu

osazsky:
If she is a virgin yes I will marry her hello guys never you marry a non virgin if u do u are gone..those who meet their wives as non virgin should do a DNA test on their first child and last child..never u pay the bride price of non virgins how do u live with her knowing fully well u paid for a damaged goods if u insist that u must pay never pay more than I0 naira..wat do I even know other than to tell my fellow men this good new..how do u guys marry non virgins and see nothing wrong with it..this should be the 8th wonders of the world

How many you yourself don disvirgin did you marry any?

Transactional love gets me so bored very easily, reciprocating is fine but it should not feel transactional or mandatory.

Marriage is not a fairy tale. So if you want your marriage to last, my brother, marry who will give you peace of mind. And if you ask me, the 33 year old lady will have much of that (peace of mind) to give you. If you marry a GenZ girl, who at 23 years has already lost her pride as a woman, you are on your own. But if you are looking for a business partner, and it won't bother you how she brings in the cash, then go for the GenZ. The choice is yours. 🤠

@OP,

Go and pray o.
Marriage isn't something a person can advice you to go into, on one will be there when things go south. It's your conviction that will sustain you through the dark times, cos they will come. (no be curse o).

Brother,
Go and pray, let God lead you.

How somebody will contemplate marrying a 33 year old lady beats my imagination.

Virgin ko? Van Dyke ni!

A 33 year unmarried lady was unmarried for a reason. All those caring and loving is to trap you, then, when you enter her web, she'll now unleash the real demon in her. Ask yourself, if she's so wonderful as you're portraying her to be, why is she still single at 33?

Besides, being a virgin isn't a guarantee that a woman will make a good wife. Nobody should ask me for evidence o. I'm having a headache in my stomach.

Hausa virgin all the way... Except if u be ibo and in that case stay with your igbo sister jeje.

Marry both of them on the same day. Thank me later

Marry both of them on the same day. Thank me later