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Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

Depends on your age and your priorities.
Marry the one you can live with.
Surely, there must be more their character than the things you listed here.
Good luck.

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ravensckar:
How somebody will contemplate marrying a 33 year old lady beats my imagination.

Virgin ko? Van Dyke ni!

A 33 year unmarried lady was unmarried for a reason. All those caring and loving is to trap you, then, when you enter her web, she'll now unleash the real demon in her. Ask yourself, if she's so wonderful as you're portraying her to be, why is she still single at 33?

Besides, being a virgin isn't a guarantee that a woman will make a good wife. Nobody should ask me for evidence o. I'm having a headache in my stomach.

The fact that she's 33 and unmarried doesn't make her bad. I have some cases where ladies where in a long term relationship of about 5-6 years, when it's time for marriage, one or both parents doesn't agree with the Part er based on tribe or religion or age.
Some of them were also in long term relationship with someone who jilted them after 5-7 years of the relationship and married someone else.

These are some of the reasons why some ladies are single at that age.

You did not tell us how long you have been dating that 33 year old that you want to leave for the 23 year old.
33 years old can still give you 3 children if you are financially capable and she can withstand the stress of having 3 children in 6 to 9 years

As a Kaduna brought up guy, dating a Kaduna lady especially the locals is great peace.




A lot of Kaduna folks can relate.

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

Virginity doesn't guarantee a good marriage. Just marry the one that believes in you

23 non virgin is better?

Only marry a Lady that worships you

Enjoy it while it last for 5yrs

Get another one

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

23 years old non virgin...so that you don't start begging for sex every night...sex in marriage is so underrated...lack of it has led to so many divorce cases. Virgin or no Virgin, the day a woman gives birth, the pussy is gone

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obama30:
First of all, what tribe are you? Igbo ladies are not for men of every tribe, have this in mind. Igbo men know how to treat their ladies better than any man of others tribes. Are you ready to compete with Igbo men, because she will remind you how her sisters is taken care of by your fellow men. This your fellow men is Odogwu Igbo man. If you can't compete with her igboness do run away. To marry Igbo lady is not about checking if she's virgin or not. Is about is you are a complete man today, tomorrow and till death separate you apart.

Depends your tribe you can marry a kaduna lady even though she's 33, she may have not seen what Igbo girl has seen and can take shit from you which Igbo lady can't . You don't have anything to compete with and she's not going to remind you about how her sisters is taken care of by their husband, because of their sisters are fourth wife to some men.

But you need to mention your tribe, for proper checking.

you only know about Igbo ladies, don't say what you don't know about others.

My love for older women knows no bounds

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

What is wrong with you?

There are no 23 year old virgins in Nigeria.

Forget about the 30+ na coastal highway be fat.

Don't marry for love. Marry for purity.


Go for the virgin even if she 50years old. At least no body count.

If you have money, buy wrapper for the mom for disciplining her child.

If you have more money, gift her a car.


Don't go and marry ashawo as wife.

I will advise u go for the virgin.

You know what you want in a woman. Even prostitutes make good wives!!!

I will go for the First Lady.

The one that studied a good course we can use to japa. Asides other qualities.

obama30:
First of all, what tribe are you? Igbo ladies are not for men of every tribe, have this in mind. Igbo men know how to treat their ladies better than any man of others tribes. Are you ready to compete with Igbo men, because she will remind you how her sisters is taken care of by your fellow men. This your fellow men is Odogwu Igbo man. If you can't compete with her igboness do run away. To marry Igbo lady is not about checking if she's virgin or not. Is about is you are a complete man today, tomorrow and till death separate you apart.

Depends your tribe you can marry a kaduna lady even though she's 33, she may have not seen what Igbo girl has seen and can take shit from you which Igbo lady can't . You don't have anything to compete with and she's not going to remind you about how her sisters is taken care of by their husband, because of their sisters are fourth wife to some men.

But you need to mention your tribe, for proper checking.

Tribalism don wound this one. You can't even reason straight anymore because of tribalism.

Do you know the number of Igbo girls getting married to Yoruba men every year?
The statistics will shock you. Do you know how many Igbo girls getting married to other tribes every year?
Till date, Igbo girls are the easiest to fall in love with any man irrespective of tribe.
My neighbour is from Adamawa state and his wife is Igbo. My second neighbour and a narrator to one of my belongs is from langtang in plateau state and he married and Nsukka woman.
The list is endless. Almost all my ex are Igbos and my decision not to marry an Igbo lady was very deliberate.
Why are you trying to make it look like someone have to be a super human before he can marry an Igbo lady?

Go for the non virgin. She's younger and her love isn't transactional as you said. Who even told you the other one is actually a virgin?

Kindly share the number of that 33yrs virgin with me.

johannesburg:
Your mind dey for the non Virgin just go for her but give me that virgin contact let me marry her to heal her pains coming in advance from you

You serious?

Gnome unless you are a full chested Gen z, I would advise you to run away from GenZ.

My cousin is about to end his marriage with one

She doesn’t cook for him
Insist on maids, lacks respect for his mom.

If I was you, I would go for the virgin. A woman’s virginity is the most precious asset ever. The fact that she has not been mounted by another man is a priceless gift!

Compliant:
Better for the 33 years as she is mature and understand life.

The 23 is Gen Z and will leave you for another guy if things later go south

Mature but transactional!
Won't she leave if things go south?

obama30:
First of all, what tribe are you? Igbo ladies are not for men of every tribe, have this in mind. Igbo men know how to treat their ladies better than any man of others tribes. Are you ready to compete with Igbo men, because she will remind you how her sisters is taken care of by your fellow men. This your fellow men is Odogwu Igbo man. If you can't compete with her igboness do run away. To marry Igbo lady is not about checking if she's virgin or not. Is about is you are a complete man today, tomorrow and till death separate you apart.

Depends your tribe you can marry a kaduna lady even though she's 33, she may have not seen what Igbo girl has seen and can take shit from you which Igbo lady can't . You don't have anything to compete with and she's not going to remind you about how her sisters is taken care of by their husband, because of their sisters are fourth wife to some men.

But you need to mention your tribe, for proper checking.

My best friend is an Igbo girl, she takes all types of shit from her very terrible Anambra husband. I’ve never seen or heard how a man can be so terrible to his family
The man is terrible to mind boggling heights
Although the woman is not Anambra herself.

komols856:
Ask Tony Tetula....She is in love with 2 women but don't which one to take

Old man

obama30:
First of all, what tribe are you? Igbo ladies are not for men of every tribe, have this in mind. Igbo men know how to treat their ladies better than any man of others tribes. Are you ready to compete with Igbo men, because she will remind you how her sisters is taken care of by your fellow men. This your fellow men is Odogwu Igbo man. If you can't compete with her igboness do run away. To marry Igbo lady is not about checking if she's virgin or not. Is about is you are a complete man today, tomorrow and till death separate you apart.

Depends your tribe you can marry a kaduna lady even though she's 33, she may have not seen what Igbo girl has seen and can take shit from you which Igbo lady can't . You don't have anything to compete with and she's not going to remind you about how her sisters is taken care of by their husband, because of their sisters are fourth wife to some men.

But you need to mention your tribe, for proper checking.

Point of correction, please Igbo men are not slaves

Brother go for Gen z i promise you you won't regret it. Talking fron experience

ogaontop:
Mature but transactional!
Won't she leave if things go south?

She will not leave

Choose the 33 year old virgin, a lady without sexual history from Kaduna.

drimzsmoke:
Pretend to be very broke, and marry the last one standing by you

Correct. Supported.

He will be able to gauge their loyalty in case of downturn in the union. Who fails to appreciate him or support him in case of difficulty has failed the test.

Omicron007:


33 YEAR OLD VIRGIN?

CONSIDER THESE SCENARIOS:

WILL YOU RATHER A LAND THAT HAS EXPERIENCED DROUGHT FOR 33 YEARS WITH A SHOVEL, OR A LAND THAT HAD BEEN FARMED FOR A FEW YEARS USING THE SAME TOOL?