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| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by boxypane: 10:49pm On Jul 06, 2025*. Modified: 4:05pm On Aug 06, 2025 |
See as una dey conveniently discuss FORNICATION like it's normal. This is SICK. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Omoawoke(m): 10:49pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
jackals:You denied a man pussy every time he asks! Frustrated his life and he’s sick and tired of it A girl did that to me, someone I was planning to marry…that was the beginning of our problem till it broke till real fight and we left it off… It’s so annoying and frustrating, I’d conclude you are sexually boring, unloving, fake and uninterested and I’d begin to crave an ex that was more electric and fire… I’d conclude it would get worse after marriage and stylishly avoid you before I go to fulfill commitment If you want to salvage your relationship, better stop this nonsense fake stuff and give him the electric hot sex he deserves |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Testimony1988(m): 10:54pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
You made a mistake to have allowed him to knack you, he's no more interested in you anymore, it's better you forget him, leave his house and move on with your life. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Wallade(m): 10:56pm On Jul 06, 2025*. Modified: 8:22am On Jul 07, 2025 |
jackals:Tricky one there. Let me ask: Are you Cohabitating? Are you guys engaged (I mean: has there been a proper introduction involving your families?) However, I think he must have concluded that you have decided to start denying him sex so he is probably getting it somewhere else so he doesn't have to bother you. You have told us that he has always been the one initiating it. Even if he gets it elsewhere, it may not mean that he no longer loves you but you need to discuss how he is able to coop with no sex with you, this will help you establish a conversation in that aspect and maybe he will open up to you. You also need to subtly and consciously push for marriage proper so you guys don't get carried away from the goal, except you are not looking to marry him. If he eventually bolts away and ends the relationship, please move on sister and learn your lessons. There will be other men out there who you could get as your husband. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Geesaintagape: 10:58pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
Why do women believe that men's life revolve around sex? U decided to keep off sex till marriage or whatever,the guy decided to cooperate now u are worried. I don't understand. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by hope4nigeria(m): 11:02pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
Kontrol97:but you haven't said anything. Let the rubbish begin |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by themanderon: 11:02pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
jackals:You have been used and he no longer has any need of you as he is getting it from another loose girl somewhere. When will ladies be wise? Why do you girls always fall for this trick. He has gotten what he wants from you and has moved onto another mugu. Keep yourself till marriage una no go ever gree. You cannot keep a man that is not married to you with sex. He will eventually get tired and seek elsewhere to get his treat. Now an innocent man will be left to deal with his leftover. That's how girls rack up body counts well into their thirties. If a man really loves you he will wait for you. This one is a hit and run. No commitments, nothing just empty promises while using the lady to fulfill his pleasures. Ladies be wise. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by IbrahimSola: 11:02pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
Nowayback10:First point is sooooo invalid. 2nd point very valid and i was thinking in that direction too. What if he is thinking that you're the one cheating and he's just waiting for the right moment to confront you? The thing is that most guys cannot afford to not taste what they're getting. So what happens after the tasting cannot be controlled by you or him. It's an intense power play that if you have a simp in your hand, you're good to go. My advice is: If sex is not all that you can offer in that relationship, if you have real value that you're bringing to the relationship...whether now, or in prospect, then you have nothing to worry about. He will stick around because of your value. If sex is the only thing that you bring to the table, please look for another simp. The thing about sex and commitment is that they're worlds apart. Sex can be gotten from any woman, but wives are scared. Since marriage is the biggest decision a man should make in his life, no matter how sweet the sex is, or no matter how dexterous a woman is on bed, sex alone cannot make a man marry you. Anyway, some simps can marry because of sex but real mean will not. So, find a way to figure out what is in his mind. Follow him to the gym, or check up on him accidentally. I tell women everywhere, show confidence, don't be clingy but let your man know that you're following up on him. Show up unexpected at his house. If you're living with him, sorry for you. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Ganbite: 11:04pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
jackals:The truth is that you caused the whole issue and he is trying to protect you at all cost cuz he is not sure of the person he had sex with maybe she is safe but for the love he has for u, he chose not to have anything with u so he does not bring diseases to you..Sometimes when a man deny woman of sex is cuz she he love the woman and he is not sure of his health status based on it last health issue |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Adaisback(f): 11:07pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
jackals:my sister, just work on yourself. Be the best that you can ever be. Be a good home maker , be sweet all through , be a good cook. Start working or find something doing. Comot that thing called sex from your mind . Be more closer to God..if he still wants you fine but if he doesn't , nne move on with pride. Nothing mega, he will later see that he is the one that's losing if he is blind not to see the other good sides of you except sex. Don't go begging him, don't even ask him for it again. Let him come back to his senses but this time around, be wise |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by izombie(m): 11:09pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
You think he's cheating because he no longer begs you for sex abi? What do you think goes on in his mind when you refuse him sex? Ofcourse that you are cheating too. To women, never use sex as a weapon especially to a guy wey don do you already. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Shalashaska: 11:15pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
Ab025:I tire o! She didn't want it and now that she got her wish it's bugging her. What do women want? |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by FreeIgboho: 11:16pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
Babangidapikin: You mean if someone loves you YOUR presence is enough joy for them |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by chiomzy86(f): 11:17pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
Once it's 1yr and 6months and he doesn't propose,.get a spare or move on..he is not ready to settle down .. before you become lord of the rings ..you need to define your relationship,.you are a woman ,women don't have as much time as a man...next time zip up entirely if you want marriage,so you dont feel used.. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by stagger: 11:17pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
jackals:So you guys are even cohabiting. Now he has tasted the soup, the idea of eating the same soup for the next 50 years is no longer appealing. You ladies never learn. Restricting sex will make him more committed to marriage if he really wants it. Not the other way around. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Angelfrost(m): 11:18pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
When he was pestering and asking for sex, you didn't like it... Now, he has stopped asking, yet you don't like it! |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by fitinwell: 11:20pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
jackals:Can two walk together except they agree? Amos 3;3... Your relationship cannot end into marriage,why because both of you have different goals in your relationship. You want to settle down with him not because you genuinely Love him, you claim to Love him but for his material possession.. and he sees you as being desperate, then using you to pass away time... As for that guy, he is having the good time of his life with is hard earn money... The mistake you made was that.. you should have distant yourself from him earlier and make him fight for you... He will respect you and treat you like the way you wanted to be treated. You made yourself too available and cheap.... Advice you to use this tool called.. temporal Scarcity.. and to make your demands known.. If he doesn't fight to have you back to him and propose to you... And marry you... Move on.. Or else you will become is sex slave machinery.. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by dontai(m): 11:24pm On Jul 06, 2025*. Modified: 7:47am On Jul 07, 2025 |
Adaisback:Shiloh usher given Shiloh choir mistress succor, lol. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by medube(m): 11:24pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
Ab025:I tire o! Wanty wanty, no getty; getty getty, no wanty ![]() |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by BondRiv: 11:24pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
When will you people learn that you don't keep a man with sex? You were afraid of losing him if you denied him sex, now that you have given it to him several times, has he married you? This is why I prefer sticking to the political section. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by cenaman(m): 11:37pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
Ab025:Those gender are something else. Ricardo Kaka's wife divorce him because he was too perfect for her.
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| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by yommen: 11:40pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
Ab025:She is complaining that he is not showing committment towards marriage. She doesn't just want to give him her body and eventually lose out. Are you this insensitive? |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Talismann: 11:40pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
this is how evening newspapers are formed guys. Watch keenly, the guy will eat her cookies for years, ravage it so badly and still not marry her at the end. They never learn |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by jaxxy(m): 11:44pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
jackals:A man who wants to marry u doesn't need to sleep with u to know its u he wants but it depends on the type of exposure and experience he has. Stick to what works for you or just follow ur belief. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Blessed4sure: 11:45pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
Why bother if your relationshipis going fine? Having sex while unmarried is very wrong in the first place. Sex is designed to be exclusively between two people fully committed to each other, in marriage. Even many species of animals (swans, penguins, owls, wolves etc.) get this. jackals: |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Talismann: 11:46pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
chiomzy86:Lord of the rings for where?? Dey play.b These days Bois don overwise, them go chop chop chop girl finish and still no buy any ring. Evening newspapers no dey even see ring wear these days again untop fake marriage promise. Men wicked Sha |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by nhurhetee(m): 11:54pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
Why u con dey rant here now? Make we beat the guy ni? U said no and again u dey complain. |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Viserion: 11:54pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
jackals:you would have either stood your ground and said no to sex, or just continue since you've started. There absolutely no point going back to saying No |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Kobojunkie: 11:55pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
jackals:1. If what you really desire is a relationship with a man who would love you enough to wish for you, why are you then in a relationship with a man who desires something else? ![]() 2. You are not in a relationship that suits your desire. This is a red flag. ![]() 3. Why torture yourself? Make up your mind on exactly what it is you want and find that person who shares the same goals that you do and respects you for who you are. Marriage no be by force so there is never a good enough excuse to settle for less only to then pretend you are some sort of victim when reality of your choice finally hits. ![]() It is OK to let go ; nothing shameful or degrading about that. ![]() |
| Re: My Fiancé Has Stopped Requesting For Sex All Of A Sudden! by Two4seven: 11:56pm On Jul 06, 2025 |
Step out of that relationship and reorganize yourself. Thank you. |
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