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lenghtinny:
What’s this nonsense about being used

Sex is the least of factors to consider when making decisions concerning marriage.

It’s only empty vessels that have no other value to offer that weaponize sex in order to get married.

It’s even funny when the lady is not a virgin. No sex till marriage is reserved exclusively for virgins not tokunbos

ayoncox:
You have given access to the pot, he has tasted the meat, now you demand will be low, he is on to another lady. In case of another time don't allow a man to get access to your candy without marrying if your interest is marriage

Amotolongbo:
Sister please look for a new relationship asap, you’ve been misused.

Gabrielshow24:
Hopefully the candy is sha-sha and not used 👀!

jackals:
Our relationship just ticked the 1yrs 3months mark. I told him at the beginning that I’d love for him to propose to me b4 we start getting intimate as most relationships built on intimacy don’t last. He agreed. But as we get along, we eventually started having sex even tho it’s not how I pictured it. But I had to because I didn’t want him to leave.

At the start of this year, I made a resolution to stop giving in to sex and see how much affections he has for me looking at the fact that he’s not even asked me to be his wife. It’s always promise here and there.

If he initiated it, I always find an excuse..and most times he convinced me and I’ll give in. I won’t lie I know it’s hard because he’s had to initiate a couple of time which I denied and he’ll mostly beg and assure me of his commitment to our relationship.

However, I noticed since the beginning of the month of May, he’s stopped showing concerns. When he asked And I said no to sex, he will just say “ohh okay” and then sleep if it’s night time or pick his phone and off to gym. Nowadays he doesn’t even initiate anything nor ask for it. I asked him if he’s okay and he told me “he’s having some heavy back pain due to his recent workout routines” but I know he’s lying. He’s always like sex even after workout.

My intuition says he’s cheating and my friend confirmed same since her last relationship also ended the same way.

Tbh, I’d just stop getting worried about this and stop asking him since he’s decided to keep mute.

ayoncox:
that's the problem, men no send

Ab025:
What do you women really want sef??

You said you don't want sex, he stopped asking for it.....now you come here complaining he is no longer asking for sex!!

Allow the man to breathe na...haba

hope4nigeria:
but you haven't said anything. Let the rubbish begin

Ab025:
What do you women really want sef??

You said you don't want sex, he stopped asking for it.....now you come here complaining he is no longer asking for sex!!

Allow the man to breathe na...haba

ediko5:
jackals only a simp man will agree to your kind of condition for a lady that's not a virgin.

You mean you have a man the condition to first propose to you before sex? Are you a virgin? Na for him side you want start your own celibacy lifestyle?

A real man can't be begging for knack from his woman all the time

MERCHANDISER:
no procreation again?

ShenTeh:
Please hold a conversation with your partner.

Tell him why you tried to stop. He is showing you who the boss is. You want no, he is giving you your no. He may not be getting it anywhere but trying to humble you.

Hold a conversation with your partner and free yourself.

jackals:
Our relationship just ticked the 1yrs 3months mark. I told him at the beginning that I’d love for him to propose to me b4 we start getting intimate as most relationships built on intimacy don’t last. He agreed. But as we get along, we eventually started having sex even tho it’s not how I pictured it. But I had to because I didn’t want him to leave.

At the start of this year, I made a resolution to stop giving in to sex and see how much affections he has for me looking at the fact that he’s not even asked me to be his wife. It’s always promise here and there.

If he initiated it, I always find an excuse..and most times he convinced me and I’ll give in. I won’t lie I know it’s hard because he’s had to initiate a couple of time which I denied and he’ll mostly beg and assure me of his commitment to our relationship.

However, I noticed since the beginning of the month of May, he’s stopped showing concerns. When he asked And I said no to sex, he will just say “ohh okay” and then sleep if it’s night time or pick his phone and off to gym. Nowadays he doesn’t even initiate anything nor ask for it. I asked him if he’s okay and he told me “he’s having some heavy back pain due to his recent workout routines” but I know he’s lying. He’s always like sex even after workout.

My intuition says he’s cheating and my friend confirmed same since her last relationship also ended the same way.

Tbh, I’d just stop getting worried about this and stop asking him since he’s decided to keep mute.

Amotolongbo:
Sister please look for a new relationship asap, you’ve been misused.

Tightpussy2024:
So if she lies she is a virgin nko,?

This is why alot of women lie about virginity.

Else you guys will not agree to no sex before marriage


Then later open your smelling mouths to complain of high body count

jackals:
Our relationship just ticked the 1yrs 3months mark. I told him at the beginning that I’d love for him to propose to me b4 we start getting intimate as most relationships built on intimacy don’t last. He agreed. But as we get along, we eventually started having sex even tho it’s not how I pictured it. But I had to because I didn’t want him to leave.

At the start of this year, I made a resolution to stop giving in to sex and see how much affections he has for me looking at the fact that he’s not even asked me to be his wife. It’s always promise here and there.

If he initiated it, I always find an excuse..and most times he convinced me and I’ll give in. I won’t lie I know it’s hard because he’s had to initiate a couple of time which I denied and he’ll mostly beg and assure me of his commitment to our relationship.

However, I noticed since the beginning of the month of May, he’s stopped showing concerns. When he asked And I said no to sex, he will just say “ohh okay” and then sleep if it’s night time or pick his phone and off to gym. Nowadays he doesn’t even initiate anything nor ask for it. I asked him if he’s okay and he told me “he’s having some heavy back pain due to his recent workout routines” but I know he’s lying. He’s always like sex even after workout.

My intuition says he’s cheating and my friend confirmed same since her last relationship also ended the same way.

Tbh, I’d just stop getting worried about this and stop asking him since he’s decided to keep mute.

irumole1975:
How has she been misused? Can you explain? I don’t get