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True Partnership in Relationships

You and your partner must work hand in hand.

If one of you is earning more, that should never breed jealousy or insecurity.

Sadly, many men struggle with the idea of their spouse being more successful. Some would even go as far as asking her to stop a thriving business — not because it's wrong, but because their ego is bruised.

Notice I said, "most men" — not all.

But this mindset is toxic to growth.
Marriage or relationship is not a competition.
It’s a partnership.

Your partner’s success is your success.
When they rise, you both rise.

You’ll thrive more in love when you stop competing and start supporting each other fully.

The only reason why most men can't stand a successful woman is because men have been deceived that they are the ones meant to give a woman, so since a woman already has it, the man would be like what do I have to offer?

Wow. This is another angle. Well understood...
Thank you

Meektunz:
The only reason why most men can't stand a successful woman is because men have been deceived that they are the ones meant to give a woman, so since a woman already has it, the man would be like what do I have to offer?

Nobody
I reiterate
Ain't nobody scared of a successful woman
Lol


The baggages that comes with a successful woman is what we avoid
Lol.. in order to be successful
You have to he shrewed, sturborn never say no attitude infact features of being masculine


Now how are you able to turn that off and talk to ur man?
Will u listen when he tells you no?!
Or advises u not to buy sth
Lol

Be successful all you want
Don't rub it in my face

It is important that if you are married to a woman who is more successful, also try to grow to some certain extent.
Dont remain the way she met you. EVOLVE
Else you will become the woman and she the man

dhiqson:
Nobody
I reiterate
Ain't nobody scared of a successful woman
Lol


The baggages that comes with a successful woman is what we avoid
Lol.. in order to be successful
You have to he shrewed, sturborn never say no attitude infact features of being masculine


Now how are you able to turn that off and talk to ur man?
Will u listen when he tells you no?!
Or advises u not to buy sth
Lol

Be successful all you want
Don't rub it in my face

A successful woman is a woman who has the capacity to keep a successful man and/or family.

Why would men be scared of such

"Most" is one if the most abused words. Someone will just wake up one day and assume everyone behaves the same just because he or she happens to be around few people. Mtchew

We not scared of successful women, we only scared of their nonchallant attitude.

Most successful women are not humble enough to be wifed up.

Their success/wealths come most times with pride and arrogance, without these there wont be any issue.

Gaskiya. I go come dey wonder how them ngozi iweala, chimamanda dey treat their husbands. Small 3 million for account. Woman go tell the whole street say she dey feed you clothe you and how you're not man enough

PastorKosi:
True Partnership in Relationships

You and your partner must work hand in hand.

If one of you is earning more, that should never breed jealousy or insecurity.

Sadly, many men struggle with the idea of their spouse being more successful. Some would even go as far as asking her to stop a thriving business — not because it's wrong, but because their ego is bruised.

Notice I said, "most men" — not all.

But this mindset is toxic to growth.
Marriage or relationship is not a competition.
It’s a partnership.

Your partner’s success is your success.
When they rise, you both rise.

You’ll thrive more in love when you stop competing and start supporting each other fully.

Most men can't stand the haughtiness of a successful lady.

Because the socalled successful ladies are full of it.
When you think that success must come with arrogance, you can't be good in a relationships.

Eeee yah

Abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz now I know ... number of characters needed met

If i talk wetin dey my mind
Seun hitler go ban me.


A successful lady with good character is every mans dream.

This pastor certainly has that fufu they use in replacing phone at computer village in his brain.

Women are designed to receive from a man even if she has plenty
So tell. Me which man in his right senses will be afraid of such woman.

What is a successful lady, I need explanation on what it means to be a successful lady

Knowing how majority of women reason, I will be ahead of my partner in all ramifications.

The only reason is most successful women aren't humble and submissive. Women are made to be submissive to their man and not their man be submissive to them. Men don't need much and don't care about who is more successful if their woman is submissive

This iz not true...

Most successful ladies are proud, arrogant and haughty.


Masculinity in men demands that a man is always looking for someone who will be under his authority not someone who will be challenging his authority or Masculinity.

Most successful women have this toxic character.

Successful at what? In the olden days, no independent woman.

spiSeyi:
The only reason is most successful women aren't humble and submissive. Women are made to be submissive to their man and not their man be submissive to them. Men don't need much and doesn't care about who is more successful if their woman is submissive

That is the only truth. A typical example is when it comes to marriage. If they marry someone below them mistakenly (probably got pregnant), they will try to use the man as a door mat (would never respect him.)

Any successful woman that act otherwise is an outliner.

No, men can't stand another man with boob.s and a hole.

Most so-called successful women are masculine, aggressive and lack appeal.

Most successful men also come with these attitudes.

dhiqson:
Nobody
I reiterate
Ain't nobody scared of a successful woman
Lol


The baggages that comes with a successful woman is what we avoid
Lol.. in order to be successful
You have to he shrewed, sturborn never say no attitude infact features of being masculine


Now how are you able to turn that off and talk to ur man?
Will u listen when he tells you no?!
Or advises u not to buy sth
Lol

Be successful all you want
Don't rub it in my face

Men are built on respect....the reason why some men refuse to date/marry successful women is the lack of respect.

And truly, finding a rich 🤑 woman who respects her poorer husband is rare.

because out of 10 successful ladies, only 1 is loyal, not saucy and submissive to the husband,

Meektunz:
The only reason why most men can't stand a successful woman is because men have been deceived that they are the ones meant to give a woman, so since a woman already has it, the man would be like what do I have to offer?

Doesn't make sense. Stupid and myopic.

Even if you are a Billionaire, you will still appreciate gifts ftom people. If you really are a man, that shouldn't stop you from being responsible.

It makes 0 sense.

The reason I am helping my woman set up a career is not because I am planning to go lazy and broke. No. She loves to buy me gifts if she has money. I would loved her to buy me gift with her own hard earned money as I also do.

So, if she earns more than me, how the fvck does that concern me. I have my own career to face, and it's her life. Provided she is faithful to me and accord me my respect. Provided I don't depend on her, why should I ever care.

A woman money won't help me in deciding on a relationship to begin with. If she has money and doesn't have the character I desire, we don't fit. So, it's never because she is successful. It's because she is stupid.

Madam how do you know most men are afraid of successful women. How many men have you asked or seen saying they are afraid of successful women.

Most successful women treat people poorly because of ego.
Most successful women still want the man to pay for things so why should men care About a woman's wealth.
Most successful women don't listen to people's advice.
Most successful women want to do whatever they want even when in a relationship and don't care about the negativity that action will have on the relationship.
Most successful women will think of leaving a man they are earning more than because they believe they deserve better.
Most successful women will rub the wealth difference between her and her man the moment an argument comes up.

The list goes on so no man is afraid of a successful woman. The juice is just not worth the squeeze so men avoid engaging with a lady that earns more than them.

They have too much pride, they talk about what they've done for you everyday

Only if she's the proud type. Pride is what most men can't stand not that she's successful. Humility is very scarce especially in successful women

Lol una go dey alright las las


Mak everybody go rest