₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Do you have proof of this accusation you make against her?

No proof yet and I am still thinking if truly he didn’t do anything with her that day because my wife has a very high sexual drive and I’m scared if my instincts are right

Xso666:
➜No proof yet and I am still thinking if truly he didn’t do anything with her that day because my wife has a very high sexual drive and I’m scared if my instincts are right

Something tells me you were not ready for marriage at all. 🙄🙄🙄

Xso666:
She has sworn with everything that she didn’t do anything with the guy. We promised not to involve 3rd party in our relationship but at this point I am thinking of doing that which is why I came here to seek advice and not to act based on emotions because I love my wife so much

I understand you brother.... I pray God gives you the wisdom to handle this

Lol virgin wife, though the story is fake, no point engaging.

Xso666:
She has sworn with everything that she didn’t do anything with the guy. We promised not to involve 3rd party in our relationship but at this point I am thinking of doing that which is why I came here to seek advice and not to act based on emotions because I love my wife so much

Ur lie lie story is truck-load of g@rbbge.... What do you mean by ..u feel like u already made it in life" ..because u married a virgin.....lol

U mentioned virgin like 247 times ...as in .... It's too obvious u are trying to paint an infidelity story with a virgin as the villain Of ur story.....

Sigh....someone cannot even be virgin in peace again

No paragraphs, how the hell do you expect me to read such combombulation?

Kobojunkie:
Do you have proof of this accusation you make against her?

I saw them together that night coming back from wherever they went to probably an hotel or something

dawnomike:
I understand you brother.... I pray God gives you the wisdom to handle this

Thank you my bro 😎

Kobojunkie:
Something tells me you were not ready for marriage at all. 🙄🙄🙄

If I was not ready I wouldn’t have gone to pay her bride price because I felt that’s the only way I could have intimacy with her. I won’t keep mentioning virgin because it seems people are taking advantage of my problem and thinking it’s a story

advanceDNA:
Ur lie lie story is truck-load of g@rba
@ge.... What do you mean by ..u feel like u already made it in life" ..because u married a virgin.....lol

U mentioned virgin like 247 times ...as in .... It's too obvious u are trying to paint an infidelity story with a virgin as the villain Of ur story.....

Sigh....someone cannot even be virgin in peace again

Well I really don’t know what you are talking about and why I was mentioning virgin was because I was so proud of myself knowing how the society we are in is and how things has gone so wild so it’s a trophy to see a girl that has kept her self to an extent not that I’m glorifying the virgin of a thing it means nothing now I know better now I think

Xso666:
➜I saw them together that night coming back from wherever they went to probably an hotel or something

You saw coming back together, so you decided it was OK to conclude they must have slept together at a hotel? Well, I still insist you and your wife go get professional marriage counseling immediately, abeg!🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
You saw coming back together, so you decided it was OK to conclude they must have slept together at a hotel? Well, I still insist you and your wife go get professional marriage counseling immediately, abeg!🙄🙄

Thank you for your contributions I really appreciate. I will monitor her and get her tested to know if she’s still okay. I really do love my wife and I waited and prayed for this girl to be mine only for this to be happening.

Xso666:
➜If I was not ready I wouldn’t have gone to pay her bride price
➜ because I felt that’s the only way I could have intimacy with her.
➜ I won’t keep mentioning virgin because it seems people are taking advantage of my problem and thinking it’s a story

. Anybody can pay bride price, but that does not mean anybody who can is ready for marriage.

2. You wanted to have intimacy with her; that was why you paid the bride price and married her?

3. It is not the people that are the problem, but your particular fixation on an idea that no longer matters. She ceased to be a virgin according to you after you paid her bride price and plowed her, but you came here to continuously announce what she used to be, as though it should matter as far as your current problems.

Xso666:
➜Thank you for your contributions I really appreciate. I will monitor her and get her tested to know if she’s still okay. I really do love my wife and I waited and prayed for this girl to be mine only for this to be happening.

Monitor her ke? Get tested, ke? I no talk that one o!

Nnamdipapa:
No paragraphs, how the hell do you expect me to read such combombulation?

Please I am not writing an exam I only just poured out my heart in here and I’m greatful meaningful people are contributing to it

Pelanowire:
Lol virgin wife, though the story is fake, no point engaging.

Please your contribution will go a long way in helping me out as I speak nothing but the truth on what I am currently passing through

Xso666:
Please I am not writing an exam I only just poured out my heart in here and I’m greatful meaningful people are contributing to it

You are giving some of us headaches trying very hard to read your writings.

Dem don dey drill your wife borehole. Dem just start. She will go and look for other men until she satisfies her curiosity or contacts diseases . Then her body go calm down small.

Marrying a virgin is very risky as she will continue to wonder how it feels to have another man inside her.

She is gone. Just send her away before she born pikin for you.

Or be a vengeful person and use her to experience things like party and other naughty stuff and when you are done with her send her on her way.

otipoju:
✓ Dem don dey drill your wife borehole. Dem just start. She will go and look for other men until she satisfies her curiosity or contacts diseases . Then her body go calm down small.
Marrying a virgin I'd very risky as she will continue to wonder how it feels to have another man inside her. She is gone. Just send her away before she born pikin for you.
Or be a vengeful person and use her to experience things like party and other naughty stuff and when you are done with her send her on her way.

The way some of you talk, one would think you were born this mentally f-ked up!

So, what you are attempting to have us believe is that as soon as your mother/sister/grandmother/etc., were deflowered, the risk of them having so many other men inside of them went up the roof?

This convenient idea of yours did not apply to you after you were deflowered but to females including the ones in your home and around you?

This one wey you carry virgin for head like this.

You've forgotten that the prostitute in the hotel, was once a virgin.

Fi virgin ma tan Ara e.

Kobojunkie:
The way some of you talk, one would think you were born this mentally f-ked up!

So, what you are attempting to have us believe is that as soon as your mother/sister/grandmother/etc., were deflowered, the risk of them having so many other men inside of them went up the roof?

This convenient idea of yours did not apply to you after you were deflowered but to females including the ones in your home and around you?

Swerve go one side. If you dont understand feminine nature then go sleep.

The women of yester years did not have the communication gadgets, numerous hotels and ease of travel that modern women have. No be sey dem dey virtuous like that, na opportunity no dey.

They lived in communities where everybody knew everybody. that is the single factor that checked their wild impulses.

It's a different world we live in where those barriers do not exist anymore and why you see their true colours come out.

Bros I have nothing much to tell you than to tell you that she did it, but if she's still denying it tell her u people will travel to the village and swear to any Oracle the truth will open, in fact anybody that believe she did not do it go and stand that side

It doesn’t matter if she was a virgin or not,any woman who wants to cheat will cheat..You need to act like the man of the house and stop listening to her lies bro..She’s doing something behind your back if what you say is true..Go to through her phone and if you see anything then throw her out..Life is to precious to waste your time on a cheater..Call her family and tell them what she’s been doing..You’re the man of the house so step up and don’t be soft..If you see that trader for road Abeg give am 2 slap for me.

kakaaa77:
Bros I have nothing much to tell you than to tell you that she did it, but if she's still denying it tell her u people will travel to the village and swear to any Oracle the truth will open, in fact anybody that believe she did not do it go and stand that side

Gbamsolutely..She wan Dey play with him head.

Xso666:
Thanks for your thoughts but why I put virgin wife was because I was so proud that I was able to marry a virgin as I promised myself never to marry a woman that is not a virgin and now this is happening to me so it’s like my fate is being manipulated and I don’t know what to do at this point in time

zThis is troubling i pray Jesus gives you solution of peace.

otipoju:
Dem don dey drill your wife borehole. Dem just start. She will go and look for other men until she satisfies her curiosity or contacts diseases . Then her body go calm down small.

Marrying a virgin I'd very risky as she will continue to wonder how it feels to have another man inside her.

She is gone. Just send her away before she born pikin for you.

Or be a vengeful person and use her to experience things like party and other naughty stuff and when you are done with her send her on her way.

When I hear people like you saying marrying a virgin is risky,I wonder why una Dey always talk that kind thing,like what is not risky?..

I don't believe this story. I think it's a frabricaterd yum-yum to debunk the 'virgin is a better wife' mantra.


It's normal for newly deflowered women to have a high sexual drive but for her to blatantly be fûcking another street dude is weird...not impossible but just weird. Female nature may be universal but the story is not connecting at all.

The fact that you are here saying you don't know what to do is also suspect. How can a grown ass man say this?

Foodqueen:
This one wey you carry virgin for head like this.

You've forgotten that the prostitute in the hotel, was once a virgin.

Fi virgin ma tan Ara e.

Please your advice will be very much appreciated as I am still In Delima tho I have been getting series of suggestions from this forum as regards to this

kakaaa77:
Bros I have nothing much to tell you than to tell you that she did it, but if she's still denying it tell her u people will travel to the village and swear to any Oracle the truth will open, in fact anybody that believe she did not do it go and stand that side

We are from Christian background and we are Catholics and we don’t swear oracles but I am also trying to think she did it but someone on this forum asked me if I have a proof that she did it but I don’t

luminouz:
I don't believe this story. I think it's a frabricaterd yum-yum to debunk the 'virgin is a better wife' mantra.


It's normal for newly deflowered women to have a high sexual drive but for her to blatantly be fûcking another street dude is weird...not impossible but just weird. Female nature may be universal but the story is not connecting at all.

The fact that you are here saying you don't know what to do is also suspect. How can a grown ass man say this?

I am here to seek suggestions from experience people and I don’t just want to act based on my own thoughts alone so I don’t regret my actions later