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U can take a girl out of the street, but u can never take the street out of her, OS is OS

MrHandsome2013:
Fine boy abi make I just give am belle and make her baby mama

dont do any of the above just pipe her and pay her the way others are doing with her nothing more nothing less.

You want to be associated with XX worker

You see the word, "Peace of Mind", it should not be joked with. The difference between a relationship and marriage is so wide! Atleast, I've been married for awhile now, and Peace of Mind can't be overemphasized, especially for the man

So, as a man with no family member to support me through school, I should be a gigolo. Are you aware that a task or character exhibited for 24 to 30days becomes a habit, not to talk of a year or two. And habit aren't easily stopped

Don't forget, "Peace of Mind"

I think, I've said more than enough

MrHandsome2013:
I met this girl online based on parole and I fell in love with her.

We started dating and everything is fine.
When I asked her why she was doing OS.

She told me that she is the one sponsoring her self in school and none of her family members are supporting her.

I intend to wife but scared of her past.
I have listened to many online counseling videos that a woman’s past matters a lot.
She had told me she is now changed person.

Then I came up with lies that in our culture that if a woman cheat outside marriage that she will run mad immediately that if she can cope with that.
She told me it is fine , that she did os to support her school

U are still a child I presume.....I really pity u.... u will definitely learn the hard way

cr7lomo:
U are still a child I presume.....I really pity u.... u will definitely learn the hard way

I am 38 but my brain was not well developed.
I think like a child

MrHandsome2013:
But I don give her belle after we do the thing and plan to do introduction next month

You something is strong O, you give halot belle

See your life

You guys can't generalise us black South Africans, but immediately have issues when you're on the receiving end... I learnt the importance of generalisation from you guys...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

bentenny:
How many naija guys have you seen settling with SA street babes?
Probably a handful and yet you use that as a measure for generalization?

Samantha125:
You wouldn't know about them because they normally don't want to associate themselves with you guys.

Yes, Nigerian men buy those SA street girls who'd eventually become their wives, you're very right... ... They're doing a good job cleaning our streets...

See sellout. You are denying and debasing your sisters because they married Nigerians. Wonders shall never end...You South Africans are really something else. Does it not occur to you that those that married those so called street girls were "street boys", if they're anything like that? Or probably married them for "papers", while keeping their main wife in Nigeria?

She don't wanna be saved
Don't save her!!!

No reasonable man would be flexing the wife he married for papers up and down and making noise about it all over social media... You'd be trying to make SA men jealous without realising that you've actually lifted a burden off their shoulders by marrying those ladies...

Arostar2023:
See sellout. You are denying and debasing your sisters because they married Nigerians. Wonders shall never end...You South Africans are really something else. Does it not occur to you that those that married those so called street girls were "street boys", if they're anything like that? Or probably married them for "papers", while keeping their main wife in Nigeria?

Bro if you believe in your self that the girl will not go do it again go ahead with the girl no condition is permanent remember the lady will love you with all her life

MrHandsome2013:
I met this girl online based on parole and I fell in love with her.

We started dating and everything is fine.
When I asked her why she was doing OS.

She told me that she is the one sponsoring her self in school and none of her family members are supporting her.

I intend to wife but scared of her past.
I have listened to many online counseling videos that a woman’s past matters a lot.
She had told me she is now changed person.

Then I came up with lies that in our culture that if a woman cheat outside marriage that she will run mad immediately that if she can cope with that.
She told me it is fine , that she did os to support her school

The past is not a good prediction of the present nor of the future. Many women doing OS are doing it for two reasons, either situational or transactional. Situation forces many people to do what naturally they wouldn't think of doing, the situation they find themselves has pushed them to the wall and couple with the fact that those that can help demands something in return (and most is an exchange of their body for the assistance). Very unfortunate situation because at the end of the day, the woman also will feel remorse and even might enter into depression. If you can find it in your heart to love her unconditionally and not always bringing up her past, you will earn her trust, and her past will not define her future relationship with you.

MrHandsome2013:
I met this girl online based on parole and I fell in love with her.

We started dating and everything is fine.
When I asked her why she was doing OS.

She told me that she is the one sponsoring her self in school and none of her family members are supporting her.

I intend to wife but scared of her past.
I have listened to many online counseling videos that a woman’s past matters a lot.
She had told me she is now changed person.

Then I came up with lies that in our culture that if a woman cheat outside marriage that she will run mad immediately that if she can cope with that.
She told me it is fine , that she did os to support her school

Greetings Mr. Handsome, Dbanz once said " Don't get it twisted, Love is a beautiful thing" in an old song. Great to read about you finding such in your life. I really like the OS slang😄. Ppl gotta do what they have to do to survive. This reader wishes u and your betrothed a life of love, peace, and happiness together. 😉

Samantha125:
But you guys would still do anything to settle down with SA street girls while shaming your women for doing the same things your SA wives would've been doing... There's this one unapologetic SA street girl called Wandile Ndlovu, she moved to Nigeria last year and there have been rumours of her getting engaged to a rich Nigerian man... ... She has always been outspoken about how she was selling herself, but allegedly a Nigerian man saw a wife in her...

And it's like those SA street girls are always the type you want to settle down with here in SA...

You send them, ever since I realized the same men vilify marry street girls, single mothers are willing to lick the wrinkled privates of a 70 year old woman for a bleak chance at foreign residency I effing gave up

MrHandsome2013:
I met this girl online based on parole and I fell in love with her.

We started dating and everything is fine.
When I asked her why she was doing OS.

She told me that she is the one sponsoring her self in school and none of her family members are supporting her.

I intend to wife but scared of her past.
I have listened to many online counseling videos that a woman’s past matters a lot.
She had told me she is now changed person.

Then I came up with lies that in our culture that if a woman cheat outside marriage that she will run mad immediately that if she can cope with that.
She told me it is fine , that she did os to support her school

Many OS are getting married every Saturday. Na the one you know you know

ItisWell22:
So far she’s foreign, our guys don’t mind her past.
Same way they go about marrying strippers and jobless girls abroad, or at most salesgirls.

The past becomes important when she’s a “sister”.

Being foreign comes with an advantage that makes it possible to overlook the past. You want to have a questionable past, no foreign advantage, no money, nothing at all and you expect to be treated the same.
How na?
Even if na your brother wan marry that kind woman, you no go wonder?

Once street, ALWAYS STREET 💯💯💯👎👎👎
A word is enough.......

Samantha125:
You guys can't generalise us black South Africans, but immediately have issues when you're on the receiving end... I learnt the importance of generalisation from you guys...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Ok

People can change nah, though by God's grace, nothing is impossible with God!

You will learn

MrHandsome2013:
But I don give her belle after we do the thing and plan to do introduction next month

Village people are really powerful, you give OS belle

Samantha125:
No reasonable man would be flexing the wife he married for papers up and down and making noise about it all over social media... You'd be trying to make SA men jealous without realising that you've actually lifted a burden off their shoulders by marrying those ladies...

The fact still remains that the ladies in question are South Africans and your sisters. And from your submission, they will make better loving wives than those other xenophobic, narrow minded South African women. After all, marriage is all about acceptance. Lastly, you said no man will be flexing a woman he married for papers, that shows how little you know the game

All I'm saying is that you guys are doing a very good job cleaning our streets, so keep up the good job... ... You're welcome to marry them in abundance and take them to Nigeria...

And if we're to be brutally honest, papers or not, you guys will never be fully accepted within the black SA communities, all thanks to your people's bad reputation here in SA... So you're wasting your time with those papers... Maybe the trick might work in other countries, but not here... Already there's nothing your people haven't tried to fit in, but it always backfired in the end.

Arostar2023:
The fact still remains that the ladies in question are South Africans and your sisters. And from your submission, they will make better loving wives than those other xenophobic, narrow minded South African women. After all, marriage is all about acceptance. Lastly, you said no man will be flexing a woman he married for papers, that shows how little you know the game

Samantha125:
All I'm saying is that you guys are doing a very good job cleaning our streets, so keep up the good job... ... You're welcome to marry them in abundance and take them to Nigeria...

I suspect that you are plainly jealyof your sisters . You guys decided to give them up for lost because the went against the tide and married better men
Mandela would been disappointed with you guys. Don't talk down on your sisters, please. They and the Nigerians over there married for whatever reasons best known to them. Nigeria has more patriarchal culture and taboos than SA, so for a Nigerian man to settle down with a "street girl", that means something.

But I just complimented you guys for doing a job well done with your community service... So what's with all this whining?🤷🤷🤷

In fact, I hope and pray that more better men from Nigeria will come and marry them all, leaving SA men stress free from any evening newspapers... ... It's also considered a taboo in most parts of SA to date Nigerian men, hence you guys end up settling for less when you get here.

Arostar2023:
I suspect that you are plainly jealyof your sisters . You guys decided to give them up for lost because the went against the tide and married better men
Mandela would been disappointed with you guys. Don't talk down on your sisters, please. They and the Nigerians over there married for whatever reasons best known to them. Nigeria has more patriarchal culture and taboos than SA, so for a Nigerian man to settle down with a "street girl", that means something.

Samantha125:
But I just complimented you guys for doing a job well done with your community service... So what's with all this whining?🤷🤷🤷

In fact, I hope and pray that more better men from Nigeria will come and marry them all, leaving SA men stress free from any evening newspapers... ... It's also considered a taboo in most parts of SA to date Nigerian men, hence you guys end up settling for less when you get here.

So they're now "evening newspapers" and no longer street girls? The truth is gradually coming out

You have just made a decision to destroy your happiness and live the rest of your life with regrets and shame.if you marry her you will never be proud of yourself or be happy ever again.

Leave street girl for the streets where she belongs

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That's your own personal problem cos what we have to say is no longer useful despite you have read and watch many videos and concealing online, so the balls is left with you