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Merry100:
You don't get it because you're no different from him; you’re clearly a user just like he is. He has a good wife, but he refuses to reciprocate by being a good husband. It's her thirtieth birthday, for God's sake! He can't just go around bragging about her efforts. He could have shown he cares by simply buying her something, even if it wasn’t expensive.

But she already said he has nothing, so what else was she looking for? A Bently as birthday gift?

The woman has a point; some men relax when no one is pushing them to work harder. Make everybody work harder so the home can be conducive for everyone and the children

Point of correction:
Understanding wives married to wicked and heartless husbands are suffering.

Understanding wives married to understanding husbands are enjoying.

Wicked wives married to understanding husbands are enjoying.

Wicked wives married to wicked and heartless husbands are suffering.

Sons of SIMP out here
And a lottttaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaashtttttttt

Everyone needs Jesus Christ as their Lord and personal Saviour. Jesus Christ never breaks your heart. His teachings bring peace, joy, love, and satisfaction in abundance.

Kobojunkie:
1. Birds of a feather, they say, flock together after all.

2. Endurance wives are iron ladies, naw... they endure all sorts of bullsheet as that is their particular claim to fame.

3. Patient? Oh, No! Endurance wives are not patient at all. Rather, they passively accept every scoop of poop shoved their way.

4. Won't giving them high BP backfire more times than not?

5. They aren't all wicked women. Those who lied to you that such women are wicked are probably the same men who hail you for being an endurance woman. Those women instead know what they want and deserve in particular situations — I acknowledge it is hard to have it all in Nigerian marriages — and they choose never to settle for less than that. Human who truly love and value themselves should live every moment of their lives with a similar attitude.

Scoop of poop shoved their way.

That has rhyme and rhythm. NL's got poets.

My wicked wife said that the other day

I will make sure she doesn't laugh last

Merry100:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/17MBgNkKgP/

(Not my story. Came across this and it really hit me. What do you think?)

Always posting rubbish to justify nonsense...just go away... mtchewww

bigdammyj:
My husband brags to his friends how am a strong woman and how I have been with him since he had nothing till now he still has nothing but he shamelessly tells them how i can endure anything.

Noted.

the man hasn't made money. You want him to put is little savings on your birthday. Honestly marriage isn't for the poor anymore poor women from poor family are the major problem in marriage. They just want to live like the rich immediately they get married useless woman

Wicked women are enjoying their homes?!!

Where exactly?!! What homes?!!


This is how you guys come online to post crap that misleads and destroys lives.

Nonexisting1:
So he went about bragging about his wife is now the problem? You want him to go about painting her bad instead? What is it that women actually want? By the way, what is so important about her 30th birthday and is she the only person to reach 30? What did she buy for her husband's own birthday or he doesn't have a birth date.🤔

Try your wife this way when you get married then let see how it plays. But you won't because some of you guys are hypocrite.

Bad-lifestyle-females are always getting the goodie-bag, while the humble ones are left to struggle by themselves.

But the thing is, both of dem have their disadvantages.
The humble, morally behaved ones will always last long to see the fruits of their labour, while the bad-bitches might be cut short in life!

Go read about Marilyn Monroe story to remind you about this.
Also read about "Black dahlia." The American young lady that was brutally murdered, and her murderer was never found!

Na this kind dumb statement dem they use lead innocent girls astray

Girls with poor upbringing that came from broken homes or homes without love are the ones preaching this nonsense…
If you like, start giving your men troubles, you will learn the hard way

abobote:
My wicked wife said that the other day

I will make sure she doesn't laugh last

She will learn the hard way…

Make she dey follow online advisors

See, if you continue in this pattern of giving your husband little BP, you are writing a letter to hospital. Pls, desist in that act.

Merry100:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/17MBgNkKgP/

(Not my story. Came across this and it really hit me. What do you think?)

Na ashawo dey your eye. The economy is difficult for everyone. Be grateful that you have roof over your head and you have meals on your table. Allow the innocent man to breathe. Nothing stops you from bringing your own money. Don't be a greedy woman.

You said your husband had nothing and still has nothing...


Na only God no the type of mental pressure that man dey...

Of course, he is a man... No body cares

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..The iron Lady got me cracking up..
Before she realises,she is turned to iron condemn.🥹🥹🥹

Lovit:
The woman has a point; some men relax when no one is pushing them to work harder. Make everybody work harder so the home can be conducive for everyone and the children

One thing about online stories... They only paint whatever they want to paint without telling the who story...

First of all... If a man has a good wife I don't think there is anything bad if he brags about it.

2. The woman did not say he is not hard working... Just that he doesn't do those surprises things for her

3. The friends that do those things for their partner, she did not say how rich those guys are.

4. She didn't mention how big the family his..


Lastly, the man has nothing today, doesn't mean he will have tomorrow

Kobojunkie:
She should go and work while her husband, too, should also begin doing housework with her, right?

Is it bad if both of them are working. Abi Dem create women to only dey collect and not give

Some understanding wives are suffering because they are married to men who lack understanding. Op, it is not everyman that treat his understanding wife badly. I'm married to one and I can beat my chest to tell you that SHE deserves the best.

Like I once pointed out, if you are married to a woman who is understanding, don't wait till you have it all before you can appreciate her. No matter how little, always make her to understand that her efforts are well appreciated. The worst thing that can happen to you whether as a man or a women, is to get married to a devil in the form of a spouse.

Kalulu44:
➜Is it bad if both of them are working. Abi Dem create women to only dey collect and not give

I didn't object to both of them working; I simply added that both of them should be handling the house duties as well.

LadyExcellency:
Everyone needs Jesus Christ as their Lord and personal Saviour. Jesus Christ never breaks your heart. His teachings bring peace, joy, love, and satisfaction in abundance.

Get lost with this nonsense, abeg! This na wetin una use destroy the lives of humans who could have done better for themselves without,

BXNX:
➜This post is painful but honest, and sadly, a lot of women will relate. It shows how being patient and supportive is often taken for granted, not appreciated.
➜ She stood by him when he had nothing, and he still gives her nothing not just materially, but emotionally. Calling her “Iron Lady” on her 30th birthday like it's a badge of honor for enduring mistreatment is tone-deaf.
➜ Love isn’t about enduring pain in silence. It’s about partnership and growth. Sometimes being “understanding” gets mistaken for weakness. It’s okay to demand more. Respect, love, and effort should go both ways in a marriage.

They should stop playing victims in all of this, abeg! Na person tell them say make dem continue to live life like mumu? Abegi!

2. Why did she do that if that was only to then come complaining to the world about it? If you are going to stand by someone sincerely, then accept all the sheet the person throws at you without vexation or complaint. Otherwise, you should not be doing that nonsense.

3. That's not love but mental problems, abeg! It is not about being understanding either, but being something of a pushover for someone else. Don't accept a poor individual if you are not ready to accept and condone all that goes along with being in a relationship with a poor individual.

Kobojunkie:
I didn't object to both of them working; I simply added that both of them should be handling the house duties as well.

Lolz, this is the first time I'm replying you on this forum even though I have known you for long to give incisive points and sometimes answer some people harshly.
And honestly I was expecting a backlash from you but you wow me with your reply.
I don't have anything else to say other than you are spot on. Good day.

Kobojunkie:
They should stop playing victims in all of this, abeg! Na person tell them say make dem continue to live life like mumu? Abegi!

2. Why did she do that if that was only to then come complaining to the world about it? If you are going to stand by someone sincerely, then accept all the sheet the person throws at you without vexation or complaint. Otherwise, you should not be doing that nonsense.

3. That's not love but mental problems, abeg! It is not about being understanding either, but being something of a pushover for someone else. Don't accept a poor individual if you are not ready to accept and condone all that goes along with being in a relationship with a poor individual.

Once again you're spot on. You always say it as it is and I always marvel at your replies.

bigdammyj:
My husband brags to his friends how am a strong woman and how I have been with him since he had nothing till now he still has nothing but he shamelessly tells them how i can endure anything.

Noted.

the man hasn't made money she's been manipulated by friends. It's better not to marry a poor women from a poor family there wahala too much

This nonsense happens only in christian homes. Muslim go bring another wife 🤷

Merry100:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/17MBgNkKgP/

(Not my story. Came across this and it really hit me. What do you think?)

You better tell the owner of the story to keep enjoying herself.