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Why though? I thought this was just a Naija issue abi cruise sef.

I’ve actually advised my female relatives between 18 and 26 years old to marry early. In fact, two of them were the ones who brought this post to my attention, they felt really bad for the lady.

So when people warn us to be cautious of folks from certain places, it’s actually a sign for us to be more careful.

It’s not just about her age, even where we live can influence others perceive us.

It’s well.

FineUsername:
Why though? I thought this was just a Naija issue abi cruise sef.

I’ve actually advised my female relatives between 18 and 26 years old to marry early. In fact, two of them were the ones who brought this post to my attention, they felt really bad for the lady.

wow crazy
Times indeed
What happened to people now

Let's be careful with generalizations. It's better not to make conclusions based on just a few online stories or what's trending. One person's situation doesn't define the full reality.

Real-life experiences show that:
Many women in their 30s are not struggling to find men. Some are just taking their time because they know what they want and they understand the weight they carry.

Men, both in Nigeria and abroad are still marrying women that are in their 30s. It's not as rare or problematic as people make it seem.

If a woman in her 30s is attractive, smart, emotionally stable, and focused; she's still very much in the game. Many men don't settle down until they reach their financial or career peak; which often doesn't happen until their late 30s to 50s. At that stage, they're not always chasing 20-year-olds.

In general:

Men between 30-35 often prefer women aged 22-28

Men between 36-45 often prefer 24-32

Men between 46–55 often go for 25–35

To be honest; many men marry women they connect with, whether they're younger or close in age. Men who want emotional compatibility, shared values, and peace of mind usually appreciate a woman with maturity.

Though, it's true that many men are attracted to younger women; especially for short-term or casual relationships. But when it comes to serious commitment, most men care about more than just age.

Once a woman is in her 30s some people assume she is "too picky" or "she has missed her chance." They don't understand that some are just being intentional and not rushing into the wrong relationship.

It's okay to encourage women who want early marriage to prepare early. But don't use one example to discourage or criticize all women over 30. Everyone's journey is different.

Everyone should be allowed to make decisions based on self-awareness and readiness; not fear or social pressure.

It’s not even only men bashing her,her fellow eve are only on the same wavelength…





But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes

This is another perspective, I kinda agree that we shouldn’t generalize.

In reality, women in their 20s often still have the upper hand when it comes to the marriage market. Most men within the age brackets you listed tend to tilt their preferences towards younger women (usually within their 20s) even if they end up marrying someone in their early 30s.

Very few men in their 30s or 40s actively seek out women who are 30+, unless there’s already a personal connection. So while compatibility, maturity, and shared values matter, ‘age’ especially for men kind of plays a big role in men’s decision.

Pls, I am not discouraging those in their 30s.

Merry100:
Let's be careful with generalizations. It's better not to make conclusions based on just a few online stories or what's trending. One person's situation doesn't define the full reality.

Real-life experiences show that:
Many women in their 30s are not struggling to find men. Some are just taking their time because they know what they want and they understand the weight they carry.

Men, both in Nigeria and abroad are still marrying women that are in their 30s. It's not as rare or problematic as people make it seem.

If a woman in her 30s is attractive, smart, emotionally stable, and focused; she's still very much in the game. Many men don't settle down until they reach their financial or career peak; which often doesn't happen until their late 30s to 50s. At that stage, they're not always chasing 20-year-olds.

In general:

Men between 30-35 often prefer women aged 22-28

Men between 36-45 often prefer 24-32

Men between 46–55 often go for 25–35

To be honest; many men marry women they connect with, whether they're younger or close in age. Men who want emotional compatibility, shared values, and peace of mind usually appreciate a woman with maturity.

Though, it's true that many men are attracted to younger women; especially for short-term or casual relationships. But when it comes to serious commitment, most men care about more than just age.

Once a woman is in her 30s some people assume she is "too picky" or "she has missed her chance." They don't understand that some are just being intentional and not rushing into the wrong relationship.

It's okay to encourage women who want early marriage to prepare early. But don't use one example to discourage or criticize all women over 30. Everyone's journey is different.

Everyone should be allowed to make decisions based on self-awareness and readiness; not fear or social pressure.

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The niggur asking to check the airbag got me rolling on the floor.

FineUsername:
This is another perspective, I kinda agree that we shouldn’t generalize.

In reality, women in their 20s often still have the upper hand when it comes to the marriage market. Most men within the age brackets you listed tend to tilt their preferences towards younger women (usually within their 20s) even if they end up marrying someone in their early 30s.

Very few men in their 30s or 40s actively seek out women who are 30+, unless there’s already a personal connection. So while compatibility, maturity, and shared values matter, ‘age’ especially for men kind of plays a big role in men’s decision.

Pls, I am not discouraging those in their 30s.

I agree that some men may not actively seek women over 30 unless there's already a connection. But for many men, maturity and compatibility start to weigh more heavily as they grow older.

It's not always about 'seeking'; sometimes it's just about meeting the right person at the right time.

Many of those connections form naturally through shared environments; like work, social circles, or professional interests.

For women in their 30s who still look youthful or are undeniably attractive, connections can still happen instantly; anywhere, even before age ever comes up.

Mehnn, These people are beast-mode brutal.

This is not just about her age, but where she's from, there's something they're not telling us.

Peakdesign23:
This is not just about her age, but where she's from, there's something they're not telling us.

Maybe that is the HQ of hookup in that country/locality

Beside you dey fin husband, shey you won’t dress the way you want to be addressed.

It just tells You can take a lady from the streets but you can’t take the streets from her.

Hahahahahhahahahahaha haha, desperate woman, while dress like that.

Age & location. It’s a known fact that most older cars have higher mileage/wear&tear than newer cars. I hope you can decipher that, it ain’t about vehicles & mileage.

Peakdesign23:
This is not just about her age, but where she's from, there's something they're not telling us.

Any man wey don useless a girl deserved to marry his type.
Life must be karma.

Whether she’s 22 or 32, the real question is: does she have character, peace of mind, and purpose?

Age and mileage talk won’t matter when a woman adds value and builds with you. Maturity is not a flaw, it’s a gift. ✨

[quote author=Peakdesign23 post=136149368]This is not just about her age, but where she's from, there's something they're not telling us. [/q
Hahaha

Goodlady:
Any man wey don useless a girl deserved to marry his type.
Life must be karma.

Men don't force any girl to be used

Women present themselves to be used.

The reason many men discriminate against ladies of 33+ when it comes to marriage isn't really because of the 'old age' as alot of people think rather the fear of their past and sometimes the result of their past deeds.

Let's take for instance, a lady from her 20th age will start jumping around and dating numerous men old enough to be her father, at that age she sees young men of 2, 4, 6 age older than her as small broke boys she can never have anything to do with. Fast forward to when she's 32 and above, she'll then want marriage from men within the same age range or sometimes younger men.

That's when most men get infuriated that they can't marry left overs.

What most ladies don't understand is that the game is no longer easy as before. They feel while they're jumping around with far older married men and sugar daddies, young men should go and work so they'll be capable of getting married to them and when the far older men are done with 'em, they can switch sides to marry the young men who were busy building wealth.