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Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by obaidan: 4:13pm On Jul 22, 2025
oyeb15:
U will never marry if u see some girls as broke. It's money a man must use to buy d loyalty of a woman
And what happens when she meets another man with more money than you, she sells the loyalty again to the richer man.
Stop dating people that only see your value through the lens of materialism and money
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by labake1(f): 4:13pm On Jul 22, 2025
Every lady is expensive to date so go for the one you are capable of taking care of.
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by D00msDay(m): 4:14pm On Jul 22, 2025
Silentgroper:
Fend ke ... Is she disabled wtf ..

She drop kpekus, I drop gbola .. how the matter take different na..
My bele don burst wit 2much laff. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by pocohantas(f): 4:15pm On Jul 22, 2025
I would have taken this serious if you guys do not complain of every woman. Broke. Rich. Short. Tall. Educated. Uneducated. Religious. Irreligous. GenZ. Millenials. Lawyers. Bankers. Nurses.

The real problem would be a woman who falls for this divide-and-conquer technique.
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by RealityKings1: 4:16pm On Jul 22, 2025
motionarena:
Why is it when u start dating all these hungry girls they will begin to fall sick every week
Hahaha this is funny but true.
I don't know if I am laughing at Gehgeh or the post
🤣🤣🤣
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by eepeepook: 4:18pm On Jul 22, 2025
Very lazy things. The worst is one doesn’t have to date them. Once they believe you’re doing well aka content, they add their responsibilities to yours.
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by maasoap(m): 4:19pm On Jul 22, 2025
Silentgroper:
And their friggin data ...


I can't believe how some of them can't get data for themselves ...


One asswipe even told me not to tell what to use her data for that my own is to buy for her ...
Data that would take a man one week to exhaust, many of them would exhaust it in one day, two max.
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by Teymanhenry(f): 4:25pm On Jul 22, 2025
Those girls are so lazy eh. Honestly see them as scammers 😂
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by maasoap(m): 4:27pm On Jul 22, 2025
labake1:
Every lady is expensive to date so go for the one you are capable of taking care of.
You don't get it, that's the point. Why taking care of what is not your responsibility? Two people are dating, not married, but one already assumed that it is the responsibility of the other to take care of her even when both are struggling.
It is only in Nigeria a struggling man is not expected to date but a lazyass lady has every right to date cheesy
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by nonny1212:
ednut1:
Rent is always due. Their phone bad and their mother sick hahahaha
Next week is always their birthday


E tire my tire honestly
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by yemmit90:
motionarena:
Why is it when u start dating all these hungry girls they will begin to fall sick every week
No girl is hungry or broke, they are just being greedy and lack contentment. A rich girl can equally drain out your resource by incessant billings. One thing is to come from poor home, another thing is to be contented with what you have or little you are giving.

Some of these girls just want to live the kind of life they can't afford. I know this working class lady whose her man was giving enough money despite having her own, yet this girl would wasted it all on frivolities and keep demanding more until she lose several men to the same attitude. I know one back then who was a student, this girl can cook a soup worth of 5k and finish it the next day. The same soup her mate will cook with just 1k and manage it for days. She change men like clothes due to this over demanding attitudes. She is close to 40years now with no husband or children.
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by bigpicture001: 4:29pm On Jul 22, 2025
The most painful are the banker ladies...

They earn about the highest income in every state . Yet they won't allow u rest for billing.. they bill customers, bill uncle's, bill toasters, bill bf.. bill everybody and be lieing it's only money they are counting in the bank... When in just a year they have gathered 2million...

Lying ladies and very stingy bank ladies
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by streetpaddy(m): 4:32pm On Jul 22, 2025
Entitlement mentality
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by Twoclans(f):
Nigerians ladies need to step up and learn skills and learn how to fend for themselves.And also how to make money and build carrers.

When a woman makes her own good money she will understand that this other gender has absolutely nothing to offer.

That is why ladies in the diaspora are stingy with their kpekus and also stingy with their womb,this is because they are emancipated from beggy beggy character.

Just look at the comments of the males you guys open your legs for....so embarrassing.
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by Exceed15: 4:36pm On Jul 22, 2025
What are you doing with them? Will they date you if you were broke too.
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by EDGEof2MORO: 4:36pm On Jul 22, 2025
Dogalmighty17:
My brother I tell you the truth. A broke girl is the worst thing any man can do to himself. The disturbing part of it is when only sex is what most women have to offer, they still aren't good in it. How can someone be fundamentally useless and still you are lying like a log of wood in bed?

The same school the man went, she went. Got the same degree and everything and yet she thinks she is a man's responsibility? Then why did her parents bother sending her to school? I begin to understand the point of view of the Taliban in Afghanistan. If a woman won't be a co-co tributor, why should she go to school?

A man can't be permitted to be broke. Society will call him lazy but a woman can be broke and every one is fine with it because?

The reason Nigerian men die early is our accepted culture of entering relationships with liabilities who can't pull their weight. They shout equality but when it comes to sharing bills they say it is the man's job alone. No wonder they go outside the country and find no one to date them. Because that typical Nigerian female mindset they have makes them struggle with dating dynamics in western societies.
lol. nothing you wrote here is a lie grin grin grin
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by alphaNomega: 4:39pm On Jul 22, 2025
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Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by Gerrard59(m): 4:59pm On Jul 22, 2025
"Love cannot exist in the world's poverty capital" - Tensazangetsu20, 2022.
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by Sanctecosma(m): 4:59pm On Jul 22, 2025
Dating a broke girl is not the same thing as dating a hungry girl,
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by Gerrard59(m): 5:03pm On Jul 22, 2025
Twoclans:
Nigerians ladies need to step up and learn skills and learn how to fend for themselves.And also how to make money and build carrers.

When a woman makes her own good money she will understand that this other gender has absolutely nothing to offer. That is why ladies in the diaspora are stingy with their kpekus and also stingy with their womb.because they are emancipated from beggy beggy character.

Just look at the comments of the males you guys open your legs for....so embarrassing.
Thing is: our men like the easy access to sex, but the rise in the spate of complaints is because the economy isn't performing well enough. The average Nigerian man likes to spend on women, both related and non-related. But as the economy has gotten tougher and women chanting equality as well as they (women) competing in the same labour market as men, the men are beginning to demand the women earn an income.

And truly, when women earn their own money, they become more selective and have higher standards/requirements for men. It's the reason our women in the abroad can decide to remain single for eternity and also why our men in the abroad love to visit Nigeria every year because sex is cheaper and easily accessible in the country.

Both genders know what they are doing, but they are not honest towards themselves.
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by Lovelydaisies: 5:06pm On Jul 22, 2025
If the ladies are ready to work, who will employ them? How much will they be paid? Will it be enough to cater to at least their basic needs - accommodation, feeding and clothing?

And are the men ready for a working lady and all the inconveniences that it might come with?

These are things to look at.

Ladies should also be able to control their desires, especially when they're dependent or broke/jobless. Don't be a burden to someone, cause that person could start to abuse you or feel entitled to your body.

Be decent in all your dealings. Who's for you will come.

The men here be sounding like they ALL jobs or well paying jobs. If you meet a broke girl, ditch her. Don't hang on because you want to be eating the cookie and then complain about billing.
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by kayyyy44: 5:09pm On Jul 22, 2025
Let me tell you guys the ideal girl to date or marry

A girl very young 21-26

May not have money

But from a rich family cool
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by Meedon: 5:13pm On Jul 22, 2025
It is not by force to date. Broke girls did not tell you to date them, leave them to those who can shoulder their responsibility without whining like a kid
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by Meedon: 5:14pm On Jul 22, 2025
Men are the problem. Always crying about broke girls broke girls like it is an anthem
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by Meedon: 5:18pm On Jul 22, 2025
imagrg:
Can't blame some of them. Country don hard except for the greedy ones.
Fend for the honest ones as much as your budget can carry but not at your own detriment after all she dey give you free kpekus fvck. It's not cheat outside you know.
😁😁😁😁😁😁
This your comment the make me laugh abeg.
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by Hhh4444: 5:28pm On Jul 22, 2025
labake1:
Every lady is expensive to date so go for the one you are capable of taking care of.
say what you know. Only broke, lazy, entitled nigerian gals are expensive to date.
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by GoldenJAT(m): 5:56pm On Jul 22, 2025
HeatSeeker:
grin grin grin

You just reminded me of something I witnessed during my NYSC days. cheesy cheesy cheesy

The surprising thing is that if you take such a lady to the clinic for check up, the doctors won't be able to detect anything sad

As a man, you will soon realise that some ladies are a drain on your resources. The moment you commit to them romantically, their mission to to suck out as much as possible by every emotional means available to them. The next thing is to make you financially responsible for sorting out the problems of her family and extended relations.

Just look for something she will do to annoy you, escalate it and dump her. That's a lesson I learnt during my service years.
When I was still dating, the moment you become a pest to my emotional and psychological well-being, off I go! I don't need to set anything for you to send you packing!
Of a truth, I do not know how some guys stay with girls/ladies that drains them financially, psychologically, emotionally and other wise.
I was loved/still love at home! Where I place myself no go allow me take some kind rubbish because you be my girlfriend!
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by labake1(f): 5:58pm On Jul 22, 2025
Hhh4444:
say what you know. Only broke, lazy, entitled nigerian gals are expensive to date.
Anyhow you think
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by davit: 5:58pm On Jul 22, 2025
You will hardly see ladies comment on this thread. Mark my words. 😂🤔🤔
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by Bobxin(m): 6:12pm On Jul 22, 2025
labake1:
Every lady is expensive to date so go for the one you are capable of taking care of.
This right here is the problem. You still come here to defend this egocentric bigotry. Like why can't everyone take care of themselves? Double standard!
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by MatrixCircle:
Every time: I dey hungry. She can never bring any credible discussion. My mother is sick and in the hospital. My rent go soon expire. They never pay us salary. I no well. I no get transport. e be like say I don miss my period. I dey with belle. I wan do my hair. My cream don finish.

Men run for your life and sanity. This kind lady full every where for Naija. grin
Re: Dating Broke Girl Is Stressful by benpuzzy(m): 6:26pm On Jul 22, 2025
motionarena:
Why is it when u start dating all these hungry girls they will begin to fall sick every week
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