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Ask yourself sincerely on this question. As a guy or lady, can you stay in a relationship for 5 years without cheating sexually? This could be marriage or relationship leading to marriage...

You may have heard people say "we have been together for 5 years" e.t.c. If so, where they faithful throughout the five years?

Rate yourself if you can stay in a relationship or marriage for 5 years.

Sure
I don't cheat
Cheating is bad
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It’s all about mindset. If she carries her weight in the relationship and looks good, of course. Know beforehand that you’ll see attractive people left and right. Women will literally throw themselves at you because they can sense when a guy is in a relationship. Put on your blinders and pour any frustration you face between her thighs. You will be good.

Very doable. It's all about being intentional about it. This year will make it 5 years as a married man, and no other woman has seen my unclothedness asides my GORGEOUS wife. Mind you I ain't a broke fellow!!

If you’re secretly texting someone, it is also part of cheating. Cheating does not only do with having multiple s€xual partners

Why not?

Dating/Marriage is 5yrs plus now and I haven't cheated on her. Why would I even think of cheating when I got married to my spec?

She got everything I need in a woman and has given me a pretty baby girl so I ain't got time for distractions.

My focus now is to give them the best life.

Yeah

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Ask yourself sincerely on this question. As a guy or lady, can you stay in a relationship for 5 years without cheating sexually? This could be marriage or relationship leading to marriage...

You may have heard people say "we have been together for 5 years" e.t.c. If so, where they faithful throughout the five years?

Rate yourself if you can stay in a relationship or marriage for 5 years.

Two weeks sef I don begin toast new babe...


Cause I know say if the girl jam person wey pass me, higher probability dey say she go free me, so I'm ahead of my time....

😁😁😁

Therock5555:
Two weeks sef I don begin toast new babe...


Cause I know say if the girl jam person wey pass me, higher probability dey say she go free me, so I'm ahead of my time....

😁😁😁

bad boy

Will she give me peace of mind for 5 years?

Not possible....xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Ask yourself sincerely on this question. As a guy or lady, can you stay in a relationship for 5 years without cheating sexually? This could be marriage or relationship leading to marriage...

You may have heard people say "we have been together for 5 years" e.t.c. If so, where they faithful throughout the five years?

Rate yourself if you can stay in a relationship or marriage for 5 years.

Before you ask "Can someone stay faithful for 5 years?"—ask instead:
"Why do we assume 5 years of faithfulness is impossible?"

People brag about loyalty in friendships, jobs, even sports teams.
But when it comes to love and commitment, we suddenly treat self-control like rocket science?

Yes, 5 years is a long time. Temptations exist. Life happens.
But discipline, values, emotional maturity, and intentionality still exist too.

Let’s stop making cheating seem like an inevitable milestone.
There are men and women who stayed 5 years faithful—some 10, some 20. It’s not loud, but it’s real.

So, rate yourself not just by your urges, but by your principles.
Can you stay faithful for 5 years? If your answer is no, ask why?
And if your answer is yes, ask what systems or mindset will help you keep that promise?

Faithfulness isn't about being perfect—it’s about being committed, even when it’s hard.
Your capacity to be loyal might say more about your character than your partner.

Why not? I can 100% what will I gain by cheating? I will remain faithful to my partner I hate cheating and dislike it.

Yep....

Very possible.... Not so difficult.
It's called contentment....

That's is a very difficult task for some of us, the concept of loyalty is a difficult one, may our loyalty never be tested

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Ask yourself sincerely on this question. As a guy or lady, can you stay in a relationship for 5 years without cheating sexually? This could be marriage or relationship leading to marriage...

You may have heard people say "we have been together for 5 years" e.t.c. If so, where they faithful throughout the five years?

Rate yourself if you can stay in a relationship or marriage for 5 years.

If she isn't lazy sexually and not a loose gal. Why not..

If a person isn't your spec...

Then walk away.

Why cheat?

It's understandable for one to explore and sow one's wild oats at a certain stage or period in life.

But it comes a time for "serious business" where one has to have understood what they want in life and be more stable.

Cheating is for the weak and young... who haven't understood what they want in life or their purpose.

Nothing glamorous about it!

Therock5555:
Two weeks sef I don begin toast new babe...


Cause I know say if the girl jam person wey pass me, higher probability dey say she go free me, so I'm ahead of my time....

😁😁😁

Lol 😂. Mehn local man has trust issues and low self esteem...😁😁😁

Cheating is a thing of the mind. Once you make a resolution not to cheat on your spouse, you will achieve it easily. Besides, there's nothing like 'cheating by mistake '. Every act of cheating is premeditated; consciously or unconsciously.

I dated someone for 3 years without cheating because she was not billing me.

Doable. Very doable. Especially when that is not your weakness. But if it is your weakness it is nearly impossible. I pray for those with any kind of weakness that God will give them grace to overcome.

clevybrown:
Not possible....xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I am in a relationship for 13years with out cheating. Something must be wrong with you, you need to reevaluate yourself holistically.

Therock5555:
Two weeks sef I don begin toast new babe...


Cause I know say if the girl jam person wey pass me, higher probability dey say she go free me, so I'm ahead of my time....

😁😁😁

That relationship won’t last. You should leave brother.

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I am in a relationship for 13years with out cheating. Something must be wrong with you, you need to reevaluate yourself holistically.

He probably just found out that cheating is the norm in modern society. But it truly takes an enlightened mind to not judge the majority by the few, no?

Bahamas95:
Why not?

Dating/Marriage is 5yrs plus now and I haven't cheated on her. Why would I even think of cheating when I got married to my spec?

She got everything I need in a woman and has given me a pretty baby girl so I ain't got time for distractions.

My focus now is to give them the best life.

love this nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

debbydams:
Sure
I don't cheat
Cheating is bad
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you way give Adam apple chop

😁😁😁

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Only 5yrs? For those of you who say you cannot stay without cheating, pls forget marriage and serious commitments.

this year makes it 7 years we've been dating.... been tempted but we standing strong

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Ask yourself sincerely on this question. As a guy or lady, can you stay in a relationship for 5 years without cheating sexually? This could be marriage or relationship leading to marriage...

You may have heard people say "we have been together for 5 years" e.t.c. If so, where they faithful throughout the five years?

Rate yourself if you can stay in a relationship or marriage for 5 years.

I can do without cheating in a relationship. If anything go kill me no be woman e go be. If u set me up with a woman, na waste of time, money and effort self.

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
I'm a one-woman kind of man.

I shudder at and detest premarital and extramarital affairs.

So, yeah, it's a given that adultery and fornication are not in my lexicon.

I can't imagine myself doing otherwise.


Una wen dey sample numerous people, how una take dey sleep for night abeg?

Na programming. If the program runs deep in the mind. The man go over cheat without feeling any remorse.