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Do you think it's easy it's easy to tell someone that is notaware they smell or have some funny odour that they actually do smell?

Just tell him/her to go and brush if it’s mouth odour or to go and shower if it’s body odour and constantly remind him of using deodorant

I won't have the chance to tell her because someone with that problem CANNOT be my partner.

Filth attracts filth. For the partner to have mouth odour means the person who selected has the same trait. The person should fix him or herself and the partner will follow suit.

kpankpangolo:
Filth attracts filth. For the partner to have mouth odour means the person who selected has the same trait. The person should fix him or herself and the partner will follow suit.

na lie, it's not about filth attracting filth,
Sometimes,u won't know until you are deep in the relationship, and both of u started spending much time together under the same roof..... who goes out on date or short visit with smelly mouth?

Scarrr:
na lie, it's not about filth attracting filth,
Sometimes,u won't know until you are deep in the relationship, and both of u started spending much time together under the same roof..... who goes out on date or short visit with smelly mouth?

If it’s the person’s natural state, there is no way it will not be fished out with time. There is no way you’ll spend a weekend with such person and not discover. My opinion stands; filth attracts filth.

kpankpangolo:
If it’s the person’s natural state, there is no way it will not be fished out with time. There is no way you’ll spend a weekend with such person and not discover. My opinion stands; filth attracts filth.

dey play! So your partner is aware of all your bad habits, you don't have something you'd prefer her not to know?

Scarrr:
dey play! So your partner is aware of all your bad habits, you don't have something you'd prefer her not to know?

Mouth odour and body odour are poor grooming characteristics, not bad habits. Bad habits are things like not flushing toilets after use, talking while eating and not greeting. There is a difference.

kpankpangolo:
Mouth odour and body odour are poor grooming characteristics, not bad habits. Bad habits are things like not flushing toilets after use, talking while eating and not greeting. There is a difference.

😂 you are confused, some people can go a whole a day without having their bath cos they are indoor, what category will u place them? bad habits or poor grooming?... Also ,u mean u will get to know about that just a weekend together during courtship when both parties are still trying to act all fresh and frosh?

Kobojunkie will debate with you all day. I’ve made my opinion known. I don’t care to defend it.

Scarrr:
😂 you are confused, some people can go a whole a day without having their bath cos they are indoor, what category will u place them? bad habits or poor grooming?... Also ,u mean u will get to know about that just a weekend together during courtship when both parties are still trying to act all fresh and frosh?

kpankpangolo:
Kobojunkie will debate with you all day. I’ve made my opinion known. I don’t care to defend it.

Of course, it's normal to walk away from a debate when it becomes clear that your opinion doesn't really hold water.
And again, it's just your personal opinion ,you don't have to defend it. Thank God you're not the authority on what's right or wrong."

Nooneonline:
➜Do you think it's easy it's easy to tell someone that is notaware they smell or have some funny odour that they actually do smell?

It is not easy but it must be done and in the politest of ways too. Many times, a simple brushing of one's teeth will not make the problem go away, and this can happen to any one of us. It becomes very important, then, to ensure we are informed on the many possible causes of bad breath. (Bad habits or poor grooming are not the only reasons for bad breath.) This way, we don't go in assuming it is exactly for the reasons we think in our tiny minds.

Right now, I know my breath is bad. I do brush and floss, but it's mainly because I have not seen my dentist for my regular cleaning for a very long time now. So, whenever someone complains, I let them know that I already have an appointment to see a dentist for a cleaning soon, and smile. That typically puts the person at ease.

Kobojunkie:
It is not easy but it must be done and in the politest of ways too. Many times, a simple brushing of one's teeth will not make the problem go away, and this can happen to any one of us. It becomes very important, then, to ensure we are informed on the many possible causes of bad breath. (Bad habits or poor grooming are not the only reasons for bad breath.) This way, we don't go in assuming it is exactly for the reasons we think in our tiny minds.

Right now, I know my breath is bad. I do brush and floss, but it's mainly because I have not seen my dentist for my regular cleaning for a very long time now. So, whenever someone complains, I let them know that I already have an appointment to see a dentist for a cleaning soon, and smile. That typically puts the person at ease.

One of those "rare" times kobojunkie is making use of his cerebrum before posting.🥱

When people are sure that your intention is good, you can tell them things like this and they wont feel insulted. The realest relationship is one that is built on foundational structures such as being a safe space, honesty and truth.

Most importantly, don't just tell them the faults, but profer solutions to overcome it. With every finger you use to point at a fault, use the others to correct it.

Nooneonline:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p8O_-4CMWkE

Do you think it's easy it's easy to tell someone that is notaware they smell or have some funny odour that they actually do smell?

Very simple.
Pick out one of their dresses that has an odour and bring it to their nose for them to smell and say, "xyz,how about we do something about this?".

I suggested this to a friend whose gf had vagina odour. During a make out session,deep one finger in there and bring it to her nose to smell and say, "honey,let's do something about this".

I won’t date her in the first place

Seun pls add the 13 more characters needed

If you can't tell them, then you shouldn't be their partner.



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Before we become friends/partners, i go don use one number text am say he or she dey gbaaa

Craziest part be say some people no even know say dem dey gbaa, if dem enter AC like dis everywhere go choke. No disrespect!

I go tell him bluntly.
I no dey hide feelings.
The was a guy I was dating around Garki 2 before that was a baker. He gets body odour aside pressing tooth paste from the middle like an illiterate.
https://www.nairaland.com/7815967/why-broke-up-ex-after

COMRADES, I don't think there's anything wrong telling your partner about their weaknesses, faults or shortcomings

I can't even have a partner with a mouth odour to start with because I like kissing.

Never had one with the problem.


But I know a lady that always happens to have bad breath each morning. Gods, me no dey even shy tell her to go brush before she talk to me. Although, it's always in a way she'll laugh and try to put the gutter in my face.

And na still this werey dey refuse to kiss me each time I ate snake meat.....

Inside life sef.... Smh

the real question is this- how she wan take be my partner if she get mouth odour

Baby what did you drink your mouth smells somehow. make sure you asked this same question to him or her 3 times in a week he or she go know say him mouth don roti

Kobojunkie:
It is not easy but it must be done and in the politest of ways too. Many times, a simple brushing of one's teeth will not make the problem go away, and this can happen to any one of us. It becomes very important, then, to ensure we are informed on the many possible causes of bad breath. (Bad habits or poor grooming are not the only reasons for bad breath.) This way, we don't go in assuming it is exactly for the reasons we think in our tiny minds.

Right now, I know my breath is bad. I do brush and floss, but it's mainly because I have not seen my dentist for my regular cleaning for a very long time now. So, whenever someone complains, I let them know that I already have an appointment to see a dentist for a cleaning soon, and smile. That typically puts the person at ease.

Rain go fall ooo. Kobojunkie did not post off topic 2day.

Buy him or her toothpaste, toothbrush and mouthwash as a gift for mouth odor. Cologne, deodorant, soap and sponge as gifts for body odor.

Partner o'boy you get mouth odor...

You be odoryewu. Your mouth dey oooze kpa.

Case closed!

Just so you know, if you don't brush your mouth last thing before going to bed, your breath definitely stinks. Yeah!

If he has a bad breath:
"Babe, have you brushed your teeth today?"

He'll surely answer yes or no and check his breath by himself.


If he has body odour:
"Babe, have you had your bath today?

He'll surely answer yes or no and will certainly know the reason behind the question.

If you are tired of the relationship, just bounce. Don't look back, just step.

Tell the person before you marry them so they can think about it before saying I do