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gregyboy:
What has changed, too much western influence 8s destroying Africa, cheat if your husband nor go drive you from house

wash02:
Just as someone rightly termed the above post, a "blanket statement"; I'm inclined to agree. Experiences tend to differ based on a plethora of variables. But, asserting that an individual can't find love at 30 and above is not just wrong, but delusional.

You can love and be loved at any age of your life. The post just goes to buttress the deplorable reality we find ourselves living in; one where love has become a victim of our insecurities.

koladata:
This mainly applies to Nigerians who don’t prioritize fitness. If you take care of your body and stay active, even after 30, you can still look very attractive and well put together.

While OP might be partly true, but it’s not the full story if you ask every man above 30. Many women are naturally drawn to older partners, and some even find them more appealing than younger guys and this has nothing to do with money... growing up, my immediate elder sister won't date you if you are not above 30, she believes younger guys plays lot of games and for some other weird reasons, she prefers the matured mustaches and stuffs, this my sister later got married immediately after university , she didn't even serve before the 35 year old Banker married her as a virgin.

Now, here is another surprise: do you know that some women actually find pot bellies attractive! And it’s not always because they assume those men are richer. For a few, it’s simply a personal preference, maybe a unique attraction or "fetish" that draws them to men with that body type.

Me personally, i've got more younger ladies when clocked 30 than i did when i was in my 20s, and trust me it has nothing to do with money.

Diamond098454:
oooohhhh it's natural for a man to cheat? Wow, I thank God things has changed now.

bigpriik:
op which planet you dey live? I will just say you have low self esteem which is why nobody loves for who you are, how can someone love when you don't even love yourself .
your 30s is the most attractive period of your life as a man as both younger and older women will want to date and Marry you,I discovered that I attract ladies more now I am in my 30s that in my 20s sometimes I ask what changed.

Bsssss:
Evolutionary speaking yes, it's natural for men to cheat...but society with their customs and traditions have increasingly demonised that tendencies in men. Look at other sister creatures to men like the primates without superimposed cultures, the creatures goes around doing their things without limits and nobody is giving a hoot about them. That's how men supposed be.

By the way, people call it cheating, the real name should be craving.

Bendeco02:
The Op is Correct

I have a girl that still visits me without getting money in return. She comes for sex when she's in the mood. Therefore without that sex she won't visit me because she don't gain any other thing from me.

If you're not rich, a girl can only be managing you if you're good in bed and that's still a benefit to her but know that she still have other guys she flirts with for financial benefits, she can't be loyal to only you if you're not financially stable.

Those of you arguing and attacking the Op are not sincere to yourselves. Even if you're attractive without financial benefit to offer a lady, she won't stay with you for long. With time she will see you finish and that your handsomness won't attract her anymore

Starz825:
You get...

As handsomeness no dey pay bills


I think the op is somewhat right...he stated the obvious tho

This is the summary...


As you get older into your thirties...

You already entering into full adulthood....

Your fine boy/girl...bad boy/girl stuffs... isn't the most important anymore...


What you're bringing to the table...is all that matters .. to your romantic partner


Unlike back in school days when you were so young...no responsibilities... nothing....just the looks and small English speaking skills will do..


And this goes to both gender....as a lady sef...Most men no wan marry 30 yr old liability again.....what are you bringing to table....no be sheybi I am fine na...

No be your beauty go help take care of me and the kids ...

Op is saying you have to be more than just your look at that age 30+..you got to have substance that stands out before anyone can notice you.... especially for a man

Starz825:
You get...

As handsomeness no dey pay bills


I think the op is somewhat right...he stated the obvious tho

This is the summary...


As you get older into your thirties...

You already entering into full adulthood....

Your fine boy/girl...bad boy/girl stuffs... isn't the most important anymore...


What you're bringing to the table...is all that matters .. to your romantic partner


Unlike back in school days when you were so young...no responsibilities... nothing....just the looks and small English speaking skills will do..


And this goes to both gender....as a lady sef...Most men no wan marry 30 yr old liability again.....what are you bringing to table....no be sheybi I am fine na...

No be your beauty go help take care of me and the kids ...

Op is saying you have to be more than just your look at that age 30+..you got to have substance that stands out before anyone can notice you.... especially for a man