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There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

Run oooo, if he is not ready to commit to the relationship
Before he turns you to Baby Mama and the whole naija men will bash you as the wayward one.

My little advice

Well, my dear, you are actually satisfying his hoooge sexual appetite.

You are dating a hooge time waster.

So if you know what's good for you, sign off.

motionarena:
Run oooo, if he is not ready to commit to the relationship
Before he turns you to Baby Mama and the whole naija men will bash you ad the wayward one.

My little advice

Thank you for the advise. I will give it a thought

AffiliateGuruNG:


Well, my dear, you are actually satisfying his hoooge sexual appetite.

You are dating a hooge time waster.

So if you know what's good for you, sign off.

Like his commitment level is zero, but he's someone who cares.

You're dating a guy who hasn't shown you off to any of his family members and friends.....he isn't even committed just like you said....

Truth is that once a guy choose you to be the partner whom he intend to spend the rest of his life with, he'll constantly be showing you off, steadily...


Ask any good tailor around you and he/she will tell you those materials are big enough to sew a big red flag

My dear,run for your dear life cuz it's very obvious he's only using you to quench his se*ual urge...

ZaraArewa:
Like his commitment level is zero, but he's someone who cares.

The guy is just using you to pass time until his spec comes along

Kobicove:
The guy is just using you to pass time until his spec comes along

Trust me i am his spec

ZaraArewa:
Like his commitment level is zero, but he's someone who cares.

Reverse phscology

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

smh. What are you still doing in there? He no even rate you. Why do you girls keep making wrong choices!

ZaraArewa:
Thank you for the advise. I will give it a thought

you would give it a thought? Seriously....are you kidding me right now? A man wouldn't waste so much time before introducing you to his mom if he adores you. No say dem no warn you. I take it you're in your early 20s? Are you a northerner?

Tenrack:
smh. What are you still doing in there? He no even rate you. Why do you girls keep making wrong choices!

Reasons why i came out to seek for help

Sonnobax15:

You're dating a guy who hasn't shown you off to any of his family members and friends.....he isn't even committed just like you said....

Truth is that once a guy choose you to be the partner whom he intend to spend the rest of his life with, he'll constantly be showing you off, steadily...


Ask any good tailor around you and he/she will tell you those materials are big enough to sew a big red flag

My dear,run for your dear life cuz it's very obvious he's only using you to quench his se*ual urge...

I weak for her bro. Later they'll be saying all men are scum. The red flag is big enough to see

ZaraArewa:
Trust me i am his spec

What's his spec? What did he tell you?

ZaraArewa:
Reasons why i came out to seek for help

all right.

ZaraArewa:
Trust me i am his spec

. Spec indeed......I no fit laugh abeg

Its very obvious no amount of advice will make you think well.....

Sonnobax15:
. Spec indeed......I no fit laugh abeg

Its very obvious no amount of advice will make you think well.....

I hope she go dey strong enough to come give us update. I feel sorry for her gan.

Till nairalanders end your relationship...
It's just 1 year and maybe he's still observing u.
If he doesn't love u he won't care...

Give the relationship time and enjoy the gbola de go... U enjoy it too no lie 😉

She actually likes the sexual urge of the guy that is why she is giving advices a thought. She is just looking for online validation. I no de shook mouth for man and woman matter except there is physical abuse

What's the assurance that if he shows you off to his family and friends now you won't start misbehaving as nothing is ever satisfying to your gender.
The relationship is just a year old so who knows maybe the guy is just patiently studying the girl he is dating before letting everyone know so he doesn't regret anything.

Nobody advises a woman in love. It’s like talking to a brick wall.

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

How long ago have you been living together?

That's how ghost dey do, you better find out ASAP.

Chevrolet076:
How long ago have you been living together?

We live (stay) together
Staying with my parent in Abj

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

I guess you are enjoying the sex, because obviously he has no plan for you beside sex and more sex

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

You are so hot and sexy that's why, maybe you are very neat too. Start been dirty and don't dress nicely again, he will leave you alone

ZaraArewa:
Like his commitment level is zero, but he's someone who cares.

He buys you gifts and shower you with money . Cares kwenu

Sonnobax15:
. Spec indeed......I no fit laugh abeg

Its very obvious no amount of advice will make you think well.....

The guy rod is good and he is loaded. There is a way you will sex a lady or woman and she will keep coming back for more. To leave you will hard for her

Emeka511:
Till nairalanders end your relationship...
It's just 1 year and maybe he's still observing u.
If he doesn't love u he won't care...

Give the relationship time and enjoy the gbola de go... U enjoy it too no lie 😉

You get the points, the guy got game, the gboola dey sweet her. Maybe naa her first love and it was the guy that disflower her

Very abnormal

Sex should be twice or thrice at most in a week

Three times is even much!

This is for married people

Single people just like you and your partner is no sex, kissing only...at worst, smooching

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

he doesn't love u

Sharp guy is just trying to use the best time available to him now before kasala burst.

At least if he has eaten from there a thousand times he won't b bothered if things later go sour


Local man is making the best use of his time, just like a team will like to score like 15 goals to boast their goal difference when they see a weak team