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Xso666:
I never said I didn’t trust my wife if it was her previous act that brought about all of this if you check my previous post you will see what I caught her doing and that’s what prompted all of this

It's clear you don't trust her. Your actions will only serve to drive a wedge between you two, let her breathe, you cannot regulate who she talks to, she's not a child

Samantha125:
What if the child is his? What then? Do you think she'll ever forgive him?

He should just free the woman from that prison he calls marriage and let her go and find a man with no insecurities.

But now this is what I fear because I don’t want to hurt her by over reacting

AllBlack:
You keep brand new virgin nympho for house and you are marking sex calendar for her with excuses of being busy now smoke is coming out of your ears. You do well.

Is this what you want to go and tell her family? you want to go there and be explaining your sexual TIMETABLE to the whole community. 😂😁

Please your advice will be much appreciated at this time

Xso666:
I never said I didn’t trust my wife if it was her previous act that brought about all of this if you check my previous post you will see what I caught her doing and that’s what prompted all of this

Save up for a paternity test upon delivery. Congratulations in advance.

[quote author=franugo post=136590990]It's clear you don't trust her. Your actions will only serve to drive a wedge between you two, let her breathe, you cannot regulate who she talks to, she's not a child [/quote

Samantha125:
What if the child is his? What then? Do you think she'll ever forgive him?

He should just free the woman from that prison he calls marriage and let her go and find a man with no insecurities.

The wife is the one who broght the issue of insecurity, why is she going aroind with another guy,? visiting a guy's house who is not your relative.

The Man should run test o

End time wife.

Esthered:
Save up for a paternity test upon delivery. Congratulations in advance.

I really didn’t prepare for something like this and that’s why I am pained honestly

Xso666:
That’s my fear because I don’t want to be fooled at the end of the day but I’m confused

Don't be afraid, just do NIPP now. DNA doesn't lie.

Esthered:
Save up for a paternity test upon delivery. Congratulations in advance.

Upon delivery ke..what if the child isn't his, who'll refund ??

correctyourself:
Stop been confused, if you can afford the test do it now, it's still ok.

The most important thing is to clear your doubt so that you can prepare to father the child.

She knows my work is not so solid now and I feel she knows I can’t afford the dna for now which is why she is trying to make me accept anything knowing fully well I can’t do anything about it for now

Felimax:
I will spare you cos you plead not to be insulted.
Oga I beg you carry your wife enter house. When una don read rubbish online finish una go start to build skyscrapers for una head.

Scan cannot tell you the day you made love to your wife and get her pregnant. You hear me.

If her libido is high and you know that is even good for you. Don't you think so?

She is 2 months pregnant and I came back from work a month and 3 weeks which was when we had sex so how come the pregnancy is 2 months already when I have not stayed up to 2 months in the house

Cerebellum:
Are you very sure she was virgin??
Girls dey run scam o, tighten laps and virg!na wall during period o bro!
When I read your story it was obvious the guy was Bleep!Ng your wife and pls stop "we promised not involved third party", yous family
It's irritating my eyes, be a man!

She is a virgin and the part that scares me the most is how she suddenly became addicted to sex and even sometimes she jokingly tells me my d**k is not big enough and I don’t satisfy her and we will jokingly laugh it out

Xso666:
She knows my work is not so solid now and I feel she knows I can’t afford the dna for now which is why she is trying to make me accept anything knowing fully well I can’t do anything about it for now

Ok, like i said earlier inform your parents, they would help you clear your doubt.

Send her to your parents and see if she would resist not going just tell her first that she would be going to see your parents and see her reaction

Xso666:
I am just managing my life I don’t really think I can afford a dna test and that is why it’s breaking my heart and she has sworn that she has never cheated on me and I’m still thinking if I am over reacting to this

You're not over reacting how many weeks did the scan indicated??

You've not answered any of my questions.

correctyourself:
The wife is the one who broght the issue of insecurity, why is she going aroind with another guy,? visiting a guy's hoise who is not your relative.

The Man should run test o

End time wife.

Samantha125:
You've not answered any of my questions.

You asked if the child is his? that would be fine and we pray for that. in terms of forgiveness, why wound;t she forgive when the Lady know the role she payed, seen with another guy on different occupations with excuses, did she expect the man to giver her award?

In fact he needs to report the matter to his parents as he does not even know how would be the outcome in future, or else if they happened to know from other source, they wouldn't take it likely with him. We are Africans, and we respect the role of parents in our life/marriage.

You dictating who she should associate herself with already screams narcissism and emotional abuse.

Free that innocent woman because clearly you'll keep blaming her for your insecurities.

Xso666:
Thanks for your contribution but i don’t maltreat my wife or treat her bad in anyway just that the problem started from when she started associating herself with people on the street which I don’t really like and if you read my previous post I explained what happened in there so I think you should check my previous post before you judge me please

What he needs is to free her from that marriage... Is she not supposed to hold a conversation with men from down the street because she's married?

correctyourself:
You asked if the child is his? that would be fine and we pray for that. in terms of forgiveness, why wound;t she forgive when the Lady know the role she payed, seen with another guy on different occupations with excuses, did she expect the man to giver her award?

In fact he needs to report the matter to his parents as he does not even know how would be the outcome in future, or else if they happened to know from other source, they wouldn't take it likely with him. We are Africans, and we respect the role of parents in our life/marriage.

Samantha125:
What he needs is to free her from that marriage... Is she not supposed to hold a conversation with men from down the street because she's married?

When she was asked where was she lied was at home not knowing the hospital has since arrived, Walk down the street to see her with the same guy her husband is not comfortable with. And she knew.

The result of the examinations she has been writing in that guy's house is Outt and She Passed the exam.

I wouldn't reply you again Samantha

She probably lied because he's a control freak and always wants to keep taps of her movements.

And he's not comfortable with her conversing with other men due to his insecurities, he's the problem here.

correctyourself:
When she was asked where was she lied was at home not knowing the hospital has since arrived, Walk down the street to see her with the same guy her husband is not comfortable with. And she knew.

The result of the examinations she has been writing in that guy's house is Outt and She Passed the exam.

I wouldn't reply you again Samantha

A4alpha:
This guy sound like a cool-headed man without womanology experience at-all, say said
a. " I am confronting my wife now and begging her,
b. I didn’t want to take the matter to the village because I was advised not to,
c. I don’t know if I am overthinking things or I am doing too much on this,
d. but she always have a way of making me feel like I am too in-secured and I end up apologizing to her,
e. I married her a virgin but her high sexual libido is my greatest insecurity as I feel like I might not be enough for her"

This guy don buy market.

You get the point bro.
Make I no talk Wetin dey my mind. Na them dey insult us when we expose women's manipulative strategies.

I'm not a fan of marrying a virgin or a small girl but at the same time girls dey run men street with this virgin stuff and this man is the kind of man that will never understand this.

Samantha125:
She probably lied because he's a control freak and always wants to keep taps of her movements.

And he's not comfortable with her conversing with other men due to his insecurities, he's the problem here.

You siding her wouldn't hold any water and the cost is clear.

She was asked Who is the owner of the pregnancy? She didn't pick offence! RED FLAG

Where you there when she was asked?🤔🤔🤔

correctyourself:
You siding her wouldn't hold any water and the cost is clear.

She was asked Who is the owner of the pregnancy? She didn't pick offence! RED FLAG

Xso666:
I really didn’t prepare for something like this and that’s why I am pained honestly

You're thinking the worst and that's the only advice I can give as your mind is fixed.

Openair:
Upon delivery ke..what if the child isn't his, who'll refund ??

He's the one doubting the paternity of the child so he has to spend to clear his doubt.

My prayers is for you not to father bastards 😂😂😂
You duh enter o e chance with that woman.
Wait for her to put to bed and conduct a DNA test. I can't tell a grown man like you what to do na. I have 2 boys btw.

ediko5:
You get the point bro.
Make I no talk Wetin dey my mind. Na them dey insult us when we expose women's manipulative strategies.

I'm not a fan of marrying a virgin or a small girl but at the same time girls dey run men street with this virgin stuff and this man is the kind of man that will never understand this.

Tell me street wey virgins dey run men o....bcus I marry my wife Virgin

Why not wait till when she gives birth then u run a DNA test,seems u re rushing things too much nd might disgrace both urself nd ur wife

How come a virgin is pregnant.
I thought virgin knows no man.

samwash:
How come a virgin is pregnant.
I thought virgin knows no man.

Please read my previous post to understand what I am talking about

Dyfynezz12:
Why not wait till when she gives birth then u run a DNA test,seems u re rushing things too much nd might disgrace both urself nd ur wife

She knows my business is not going well for now and so she is so sure I can’t afford the dna which is what is giving me concern

Rexymania:
Tell me street wey virgins dey run men o....bcus I marry my wife Virgin

Some are true while some are just something else waiting to be unleashed but above all it all depends on the personality of the person