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Another one don enter trap.

ZaraArewa:
✓ There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?
Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

The question you should be asking instead is why are you still with this person whom you are certain does things that clearly bother you? Why not show yourself a bit more love and go off to find yourself someone else whose mannerisms and demands would not bother you at all?🥱🥱🥱

Why not choose yourself and not allow others choose you for their own purpose? 🥱🥱🥱

motionarena:
Run oooo, if he is not ready to commit to the relationship
Before he turns you to Baby Mama and the whole naija men will bash you as the wayward one.

My little advice

If only you know that with this thing you just said, you just made that poor girl fall doubly in love with that her beloved time waster.

ZaraArewa:
Trust me i am his spec

His spec but hasn't introduced you to any member of his family?

Don't worry you'll learn the hard way.

Immediately he finishes drilling you he'll introduce his real spec to his family and leave you with this........

ZaraArewa:
He will go days without talking to me

You have your answer already.

ZaraArewa:
Thank you for the advise. I will give it a thought

You will give it a thought or run with immediate effect!?



If a man will marry you, the first thing he does is to show you to his people!

You allowed a man to run you for street, having sex with you without paying any dine, honestly I still don't understand how some people reason, I wonder what you want us to do. He has already access the main thing, the highest you can do is to leave because to him, you value has reduced to nothing. As it stands now, any man you meet again will also get his own share because you are not a virgin.

Am I allowed to say Gbimm?

U nor understand?

ZaraArewa:
Thank you for the advise. I will give it a thought

You are not serious.

See as dm don Shangbala this one everyday.

Na one guy for NL go marry the pot hole soon.

Ijapa Meta

He wan chop ur biscuit finish

SonofElElyonRet:
You are not serious.

I think say na only me.

saintkel:
Take away the fact that he's not serious about making her his wife ....is it normal to demand sex almost everyday for a man/woman in relationship/marriage?

It's normal but you have to choose someone that matches your sex drive so that both of you could really enjoy yourselves.

However, there are lots of variables you have to look at. If the lady or guy has other qualities that makes sense, that's if you are looking at a long time relationship, then you have to push sex aside.

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

If you are not benefitting anything from him.. you won't be here reporting him...

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

He has turned you to his intimacy gadget.

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

Wether you give him sex according to his demand or not, a man that will stay will stay and the one that will leave will eventually leave regardless of how many times you give it to him daily.

But advising someone in love is a waste of time I guess

ZaraArewa:
Thank you for the advise. I will give it a thought

Give it a THOUGHT keh... Issalright 🤐[color=#990000][/color]

ZaraArewa:
Trust me i am his spec

see who dem dey advice 😂

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

Sis, it is better you take a decision NOW!

There's nothing wrong in liking sex but everything is wrong with a guy's unwillingness to commit himself to a relationship.

This is a big signal and if you don't decide on time, you may later regret it (God forbid).

Sign off now. If he comes back to do the needful, you can continue with him. Anything short of that, if you continue to stay, it only means that you are just there enjoying the sex while it lasts because it will not lead anywhere.

Note: seek further counsel for validation or diverse opinion before you act.

All the best!

He may not be ready for marriage in the next 5yrs or more

ZaraArewa:
Trust me i am his spec

Belurved1:
That's how ghost dey do, you better find out ASAP.

You actually have a great point ghosts love sex a lot and they don't usually like introducing their victims to their families hope this girl can see this ur comment and give it a deep thought.

Run ohh before your TOTO go make GBIM

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

n you're his booty call. Any man that takes his relationship serious would let everyone know who he's in love with. End the relationship before it ends you.

ZaraArewa:
Trust me i am his spec

You are in disbelief. It's love that is making you reason like that. We are giving advice from a guy's perspective. Love doesn't make one see clearly. You'll keep making excuses for him.
When a guy loves a woman truly, he'll introduce you to the people he cares about. Fvcking is not love.

Stop having sex with him for a month or 2 to know how he'll react with you. That's if you yourself can do wothout having sex for that long too oh...

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

What are you still doing in the relationship? You see the signs but you still foolishly remain?

Sonnobax15:
. Spec indeed......I no fit laugh abeg

Its very obvious no amount of advice will make you think well.....

When your rod dey touch the vandros point, they can never think well again, just forget it 😂

tejumorelar:
Stop having sex with him for a month or 2 to know how he'll react with you. That's if you yourself can do wothout having sex for that long too oh...

Somebody when the guy dey rod her soul na him you dey advise to leave the rod for a month? You want to kpai her abi?

ZaraArewa:
Like his commitment level is zero, but he's someone who cares.

That's what he is using as a cover up.
U are still wasting time giving it a thought. The caring part is to compensate you for satisfying his sexual urge. He is not committed to you and you know it. Look for som1 serious and quit ASAP.

Hahaha no reason am.
It's my little advice naaa...
Abi u have not heard this quote "before he fall in love he don don straff her tire bfr love begins to grow" I guess she's still in the process 😂

Successsearch90:
he is observing her and he dey knack am carelessly steady anyhow over a year nw.
Walai you will not make heaven for this evil advice wey u give am.