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What's the big deal?

I never dated black women of any type much in the past. I never ever thought of dating black women from USA or Caribbean. Latin America perhaps.
I have very sound reasons for it. This American woman probably has her reasons whether you like it or not.

So, I see nor biggie here. Everyone has a choice to make.

allow us to post real blackmanopinion on this.

Nnamdipapa:
I believe African men know how to take care of women, we don't split bills on outings, I wonder why this lady does not want to date African men.

Cos there's a strong group called FBA Google it

Dancebreaker:
What's the big deal?

I never dated black women of any type much in the past. I never ever thought of dating black women from USA or Caribbean. Latin America perhaps.
I have very sound reasons for it. This American woman probably has her reasons whether you like it or not.

So, I see nor biggie here. Everyone has a choice to make.

Latin America keh...from frying pan to fire niyen lol

Na her choices... nothing concerns anyone

Angelfrost:
This is the problem.

A lot of African men still think paying bills and doling out money are the sum total of healthy and successful relationships.

No wonder most of your ladies are comfortable collecting that money while getting their "affections" from other less financially endowed but virile young men.


Another thing she mentioned above which might have flown past your head was "having small kids around".

Most African and African-American men struggle deeply with fidelity in their relationships and marriages.

Look at Nick Cannon, Wizkid, Davido, Flavour, Ginuwine, etc (the list is quite endless).

So, maybe ladies and guys in that Black race might need to start dating outside their "gene pool".

Just maybe... That might bring some sanity to the few decent individuals among you.

Eiya, Bill Clinton, John Major, and Arnold Schwarzenegger, the best of the oyinbos who cheated nko?
They are black but painted themselves white.
Cheating is colour blind, dude.

Everybody has the right to date who they want. No biggie.

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

They want who they can control....

Nnamdipapa:
I believe African men know how to take care of women, we don't split bills on outings, I wonder why this lady does not want to date African men.

You should know alrready, inferiority complex.

Professor822714:
Latin America keh...from frying pan to fire niyen lol

Lol. I am not looking for any o. I mean, it's the only place I might have dated from, decades ago. Especially Brazil. Not Escobar's daughter from Medellin .

wallrichy:
Different strokes for different folks...... imagine, the same black men that most white ladies are dying to have as husband.....this life!!!!!!

Nowhere white ladies are dying to have black men as husband.

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

Her life, her choice.
They are millions of women who would want African men, why is her choice your headache?

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

because she has free will to choose
Black men so make such choices
Have their pitchforks changed anything

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

You also have the power to exercise that choice not to date them. It is beginning to seem as if you are appealing to them for some form of acceptance. Do you think Asians will care about such post if she said it to them? No! They won't care. Her choice will only be relevant if it stops Africans from breathing. If not,make she gerrout...

She said "African" men. Not all black men. There are black men everywhere. She just doesn't want an African man. It is her choice

Nnamudi abeg free the young lady, she didn't do anything wrong. It's her preference, where is the crime?


Don't we have Nigerian guys even on this forum that vow never to marry a Nigerian lady?


There is no cause for alarm here honestly, you are making a case where there is none

Dancebreaker:
Eiya, Bill Clinton, John Major, and Arnold Schwarzenegger, the best of the oyinbos who cheated nko?
They are black but painted themselves white.
Cheating is colour blind, dude.

Everybody has the right to date who they want. No biggie.

Please add David Beckham, Bill Gates, Former Israeli President, former Italian Prime Minister Belusconi, etc.


White folks cheat more than black folks, it's just their strict divorce law and other laws that's making them pretend while in their country, but wait until the same man enters Africa, Jamaica, or Caribbeans

Lol 26 & she still has pride okay maybe oyibo will find her soon
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The same reason once African American men make it they cross road to the white side.

Bad attitude!

They even have a movemnet called passport bro.





The whitem-n can have the lot of u.

It's her choice, leave her alone.



For instance most men are obsessed with women with big baka but I don't see anything special in them.....I prefer my woman slim and curvy.

Nnamdipapa:
I believe African men know how to take care of women, we don't split bills on outings, I wonder why this lady does not want to date African men.

the average african man in the usa doesn’t have the income to be a sole provider. Alot of African men are traditional while the African American women are not. Its normal to have 3 kids with different men something many african men would frown at

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

Why would a post from one woman trouble you this much. Get busy and go make money. You would be less concerned about a single lady's dating preference.

Most well travelled African men equally prefer white women, if they had a choice.

brain54:
Everyone with the choices they make...


And what they want.

I have seen and heard black men say same thing about black women.

It's personal choice and decisions.

Nothing to see here!

As in, I tire oh
Is she the only girl in the world?
She no wan date African man be say she no wan date African Man as simple as that

Nnamdipapa:
I believe African men know how to take care of women, we don't split bills on outings, I wonder why this lady does not want to date African men.

That is her own cup of tea. Avoiding African men has not brought true joy

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

why are you complaining? the type of thing you black african men write on nairaland makes no girl from ohio want to date you. she must have seen your posts on nairaland or those irritating posts you boys share on tiktok in the name of content creation.

no be by force to date african men.

Nnamdipapa:
I came across this on FB and I want to know your thoughts on this, why would a black lady disclose she is not dating African men? Imagine if a black guy makes this kind of post and indicate they would not date black or African ladies, them black ladies will come with pitch forks.

Black ladies, stop discriminating against African men.

Na una wey dey even send this kind idiots I blame... mtcheww

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! She has a right to choose whom to date or not date, same as

2. Black men make these kinds of statements all of the time; they race shame/body shame/age shame black/African women any chance they get.

3. Abeg, find yourself a better job to do; stop going around trying to genderize meaningless things. 🙄🙄🙄

The girl is not interested in African men, and it is her prerogative. 🥱🥱

the thing pain OP so tey e create thread for nairaland