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Man causes stir on social media after he shared the "disadvantages" of dating him

Social media is not real life.

Take x influencers seriously at your own peril

Plenty plenty talk no de work anything women will leave ur sorry ass...

At least he's being real......But unfortunately,most Nigerian bannies will never want to date a guy like him...They prefer who they can easily manipulate and turn to their puppets to dating an alpha male who will highlight his principles to her .....

By the way, why's the commenter right before me angry with the poster?

The man just announced to the entire world how he's physically abusive towards women and you don't see anything wrong there?

It's like you guys have normalised GBV over there to a point that a man can even comfortably brag about it publicly without any fear of repercussions.

Sonnobax15:

At least he's being real......But unfortunately,most Nigerian bannies will never want to date a guy like him...They prefer who they can easily manipulate and turn to their puppets to dating an alpha male who will highlight his principles to her .....

By the way, why's the commenter right before me angry with the poster?

Samantha125:
The man just announced to the entire world how he's physically abusive towards women and you don't see anything wrong there?

It's like you guys have normalised GBV over there to a point that a man can even comfortably brag about it publicly without any fear of repercussions.

. His principles !!!!! If you can't adhere to them,steer clear from him . That's not too difficult to comprehend nahhh . BTW,I don't understand your point,of him being abusive when everything he just stated can simply be rejected by a manipulative woman by simply not dating him

This kind of men , na them dey mumu pass for relationship

He wanna trend, bloggers must chop nah, they no fits chop stones

Wow... So GBV is regarded as a principle in Nigeria and not an offence punishable by law?

No wonder we hardly hear any GBV related cases from there despite your ladies getting unalived by their men... It's never regarded as GBV... Wow! This explains why some of them end up reporting their husbands to the authorities upon getting abroad.

Sonnobax15:
. His principles !!!!! If you can't adhere to them,steer clear from him . That's not too difficult to comprehend nahhh . BTW,I don't understand your point,of him being abusive when everything he just stated can simply be rejected by a manipulative woman by simply not dating him

Abeg o..i come late,what is the meaning of GBV?

d man will go to lab to construct his perfect woman.


Cos even my friend that was a Major back then in 2018, received hot slap from his wife and Las Las na him still go apologise.

Being a pacifist doesn't make u a weak man.

Everything shouldn’t be a topic of discussion. That’s a verified account baiting for engagement. It's 2025, activate your brain. Don't be the content.

His own 19 Commandments of dating, reasonable but e 4 2 add thou shall always be loyal and obedient to complete twenty.

Samantha125:
The man just announced to the entire world how he's physically abusive towards women and you don't see anything wrong there?

Where did you see this?

Or the things he wrote gave a different meaning when translated to your local dialect

adamkkk:
Cos even my friend that was a Major back then in 2018, received hot slap from his wife and Las Las na him still go apologise.

Being a pacifist doesn't make u a weak man.

Your first line shows both you and your friend are advocates of domestic abu-s-e against men

Your second line justified that cruelty

We suppose fit vote cast-ratio-n of other men. I go just mobilize 100000 vote for you two

Woow!!! I'm speechless... I now understand why some Nigerian ladies have to do what they have to do upon getting abroad, the system keeps failing them in Nigeria...😢😢😢

EvilMerodack:
Where did you see this?

Or the things he wrote gave a different meaning when translated to your local dialect

Samantha125:
The man just announced to the entire world how he's physically abusive towards women and you don't see anything wrong there?

It's like you guys have normalised GBV over there to a point that a man can even comfortably brag about it publicly without any fear of repercussions.

Abusive? Point out it , list them let's see. Is it keeping quite while he talks and vice versa or taking responsibility for yourself as an adult?

If you can't see it, then there's no need for me to point it out... Clearly it's normalised there.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Abusive? Point out it , list them let's see. Is it keeping quite while he talks and vice versa or taking responsibility for yourself as an adult?

Samantha125:
If you can't see it, then there's no need for me to point it out... Clearly it's normalised there.

Since you can't list for us to discuss it means you are talking with emotions rather than with facts, have a nice day.

What's there to discuss when your response already says it all?

Your actions alone have proved my point... And this is what your ladies have to endure on a daily basis.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Since you can't list for us to discuss it means you are talking with emotions rather than with facts, have a nice day.

Samantha125:
The man just announced to the entire world how he's physically abusive towards women and you don't see anything wrong there?

It's like you guys have normalised GBV over there to a point that a man can even comfortably brag about it publicly without any fear of repercussions.

Exactly! Real! Because omg imagine a man claiming he will beat his woman cuz her food isn’t good enough omg. I can’t even breath omg I’m literally shaking rn like omg like literally omg 😦

People like these are lions on social media and kittens in real life. Na his type dey wash pants behind closed doors. Seriously women need to stay as far away as possible from walking red flags even if they're not as menacing as they appear

The Boss way things.. Not quite bad to protect his mental health and financial health.

hahn:
Social media is not real life. Take x influencers seriously at your own peril

Really? But when the police come to investigate these same people, na their social media dem been dey get evidence or clues of their potential crimes from?

Chilipepper:
Man causes stir on social media after he shared the "disadvantages" of dating him

Someone here says here that his standards amount to gender based violence. Lol..And then out of the blues also claims this is why wives leave their husbands overseas. NO. The wives when they get oversea, they leave because they never loved the man the way they met him anyway. They just wanted to marry to ''pepper'' their stepmother and friends, to have a wedding that people will come to and see that they have ''upgraded'' and they also marry to find a cheap meal ticket in Nigeria. But as usual, they make bad decisions, influenced by nonsense, lack strong sense of character and will power, marry the wrong man, then claim it is the man's fault.

See this one now, she has rushed to tag it Gender Based Violence Because his standards do not ''benefit'' her and her gender. She has quickly accused him of gender based violence. These are the ones that are quick to lie and cook up stories that you raped them or touched them inappropriately just to get back at you. Hahahaha.. These women.

Let us face facts. It is a choice. He has not written anything there that is a crime. Those are his standards. When you women set standards that are unrealistic, men simply respect ourselves. We do not shout ''classism'' or ''discrimination'' . Again, just like when women do their Modern Woman boss bitch thing ...''I want a man 6ft tall and makes not less than 5m per month, with a house in Lekki, Cooks for me, takes me on trips regularly,etc. ….''

It is left for a woman to also accept him that way or not. Each action we take have consequences. We just should very responsible and accountable enough to face the consequences. After all, Many of you women open your legs and get pregnant by men worse than this, you made the choice. You live with the consequences. So, please, if his standards are too strict for you, walka pass. Please.

In my years of dating, I have only dated women who are not addicted to Social Media. It is one of the major things I look out for. They have accounts but they do not post. And no, their phones are not passworded.

He has set his standard. If the standards are too high then say so ...shout...complain...cry...But move on. Walk on by.

I like the guy already

He spoke my mind

Relationships are not meant for the weak minded

Oga even this your post is a thirst trap...


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Samantha125:
Woow!!! I'm speechless... I now understand why some Nigerian ladies have to do what they have to do upon getting abroad, the system keeps failing them in Nigeria...😢😢😢

You only need to point out the "physical abuse" you claimed in the post. Or physical abuse has a different meaning from what we see in dictionaries?

adamkkk:
d man will go to lab to construct his perfect woman.


Cos even my friend that was a Major back then in 2018, received hot slap from his wife and Las Las na him still go apologise.

Being a pacifist doesn't make u a weak man.

Oho so it's now okay for couple to slap each other, especially if it's a woman that's the agressor?

dominique:
People like these are lions on social media and kittens in real life. Na his type dey wash pants behind closed doors. Seriously women need to stay as far away as possible from walking red flags even if they're not as menacing as they appear

This here is the reason why so many women continue to fall prey to toxic men.

A man literally promised to be abusive to any woman he ever gets into a relationship with, but here you are playing down his threats. For what? So you can see women damaged and possibly unalived by him later on, only for you to then switch up and state that he did warn them beforehand?