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| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie: 5:33pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Hypnotise:Reasonable in what sense? ![]() If your daughter or sister were to bring home such a man as a suitor, would you consider these ideas reasonable then? ![]() |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:34pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
EvilMerodack:You never see woman argue before. They will gaslight and put words in your mouth. |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Gbadebo19(m): 5:35pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Samantha125:You were the one who made a claim of physical abuse. It's your responsibility to prove it. |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:36pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:The guy stated things that will make him WALK AWAY from a relationship. Which part is abusive again? |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Angelfrost(m): 5:36pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Good old days when people actually kept written diaries of their innermost thoughts, and only shared such with deeply close pals. I mean... People actually thought things through before speaking up. Now, Social media has become the playground where adults now toss every silly thought out for strangers to dissect. |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by brain54(m): 5:37pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:38pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Gbadebo19:You can’t win a woman in an argument, she go just change lane - as she said nothing earlier. Just say your piece and leave it there. |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie: 5:39pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
BuddhaPalm:Does walking away from a relationship after emotionally, verbally, physically, or financially abusing the other partner mean there was literally no abuse involved? ![]() The list literally suggests that any woman in a relationship is stripped of her individuality, a violation of her basic human right...much of what he terms boundaries is literally a stamping out of what are his partner's rights/freedoms.... but you all conveniently turn a blind eye to it to claim absolutely that there is no abuse contained. How? ![]() Your criminal code in Nigeria literally indicates that no human has the right to impede or violate another person's rights as a human. How does the violation of this basic not constitute abuse? ![]() |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Threedoorsdown: 5:42pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Samantha125:This is how you ladies throw false accusations on men when you don't have your way. Tell me how on earth what he said translated to him being physically abusive or abusive in any sense If you don't accuse him of being a narcissist it's domestic violence or aggression or even rape. The list goes on It is well with you people |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by ShoeMarket: 5:53pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Jokes, the guy na real lover boy don't let him fool you. The unfortunate thing about this kind of posts is that people will fall flat for it. |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie: 5:54pm On Sep 09, 2025*. Modified: 6:50pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Threedoorsdown:. The list is blatantly narcissistic, and it will, in turn, appeal to individuals(women included) who favor their narcissistic personality. That there is not a list made up for someone looking for a loving, romantic relationship, but clearly an individual seeking (near absolute)control over the other individual(slave) in the relationship. ![]() |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by dominique(mod): 5:56pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:I want to believe you saw my last sentence |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by rolams(m): 5:57pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
His mother can't meet up with all those stupid conditions. |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by callmemakaveli: 5:57pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
This one na selfish man no two ways. Well, online no be reality. Redpiller online, woman wrapper offline. |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie: 5:57pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
dominique:The first statement contradicts your last is what. ![]() |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by pretydiva(f): 6:00pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Most of the things he stated are unrealistic. I believe it’s all cruise tho |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Samantha125(f): 6:09pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Why should I point out something that is obviously normalised there? If you can't see it, then there's no need for me to point it out. You guys are the same people complaining of how the law favours your women abroad, making it difficult for you to be using GBV to control them... That alone speaks volumes. Gbadebo19: |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by sfinkzslot(m): 6:12pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Chilipepper:Hmmm, an intentional man ![]() |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Samantha125(f): 6:12pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Another GBV sympathiser...😢😢😢 Threedoorsdown: |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by TheOldGods: 6:19pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Samantha125:there is a clear difference between being abusive and being strict The man only shows he is strict period. There is nothing abusing in what he said. His principles. Either you choose or leave. Go and learn the term abusive my dear and stop using it carelessly |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie: 6:22pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
TheOldGods:This from someone who clearly does not realize the very meaning of the term abusive? ![]() |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by ledaman: 6:24pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Best of luck to him. Easier said that done. |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by PhilipEboh: 6:34pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Mine Is "Have your own money" You are my darling! |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by correctguy101(m): 6:43pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
That sharing of clothing matter.... Me wouldn't say a thing but those I've been with always notice I avoid whatever of my clothing they choose to wear. Me no know o, I never liked that shiiit.... |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Mcslize: 6:48pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Haba! I am an every woman's dream kind of young man. I must say, those principles are too much. I won't list all those for a lady. For me, just be respectful, love my family like yours (that is if you have some love to offer), stay decent in your fashion sense without exposing too much of your body to the whole world to see, have your own common sense that can prevent you from being influenced negatively by bittered feminists and those who had vowed never to be loyal to the leadership of a man as prescribed by the Bible and we will be good. Feminists take note: Ephesians 5:22–24 (NIV) – Instruction to Wives: "Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church... Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything." |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by folake4u: 7:11pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Make I nor wear man polo?? Maka how? I go wear am oh. All those oversized polos are sweet to wear/steal. ![]() |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Puss360(f): 7:13pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
bluefilm:Relationship is not meant for the weak abi, until you kee person that's when Ur eyes will clear... Nothing like weak or strong in relationships. Once love fades better seperate or divorce... |
| Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by SAMBARRY: 7:24pm On Sep 09, 2025 |
Lmaooo general idi amin werey re o.make him kuku marry him mama ,robot or buy dog put for house.though some of his demands are reasonable but most just shows lack of common sense,emotional intelligence ,decency and empathy The ones that are reasonable: no wearing of thirst trap clothes or posting private moments on social media or having male friends Unreasonable ones: no social media other than WhatsApp, no friends, don't give me attitude, etc.men like this are narcissistic. |
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