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Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie: 5:33pm On Sep 09, 2025
Hypnotise:
His own 19 Commandments of dating, reasonable but e 4 2 add thou shall always be loyal and obedient to complete twenty.
Reasonable in what sense? huh

If your daughter or sister were to bring home such a man as a suitor, would you consider these ideas reasonable then? undecided
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:34pm On Sep 09, 2025
EvilMerodack:
Where did you see this?

Or the things he wrote gave a different meaning when translated to your local dialect
You never see woman argue before.

They will gaslight and put words in your mouth.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Gbadebo19(m): 5:35pm On Sep 09, 2025
Samantha125:
What's there to discuss when your response already says it all?

Your actions alone have proved my point... And this is what your ladies have to endure on a daily basis.
You were the one who made a claim of physical abuse. It's your responsibility to prove it.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:36pm On Sep 09, 2025
Kobojunkie:
This here is the reason why so many women continue to fall prey to toxic men. undecided

A man literally promised to be abusive to any woman he ever gets into a relationship with, but here you are playing down his threats. For what? So you can see women damaged and possibly unalived by him later on, only for you to then switch up and state that he did warn them beforehand? undecided
The guy stated things that will make him WALK AWAY from a relationship.

Which part is abusive again?
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Angelfrost(m): 5:36pm On Sep 09, 2025
Good old days when people actually kept written diaries of their innermost thoughts, and only shared such with deeply close pals.


I mean... People actually thought things through before speaking up.


Now, Social media has become the playground where adults now toss every silly thought out for strangers to dissect.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by brain54(m): 5:37pm On Sep 09, 2025
Neatb:
Abeg o..i come late,what is the meaning of GBV?
Gender based violence...

Thank me later!
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:38pm On Sep 09, 2025
Gbadebo19:
You were the one who made a claim of physical abuse. It's your responsibility to prove it.
You can’t win a woman in an argument, she go just change lane - as she said nothing earlier.

Just say your piece and leave it there.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie: 5:39pm On Sep 09, 2025
BuddhaPalm:
➜The guy stated things that will make him WALK AWAY from a relationship. Which part is abusive again?
Does walking away from a relationship after emotionally, verbally, physically, or financially abusing the other partner mean there was literally no abuse involved? huh

The list literally suggests that any woman in a relationship is stripped of her individuality, a violation of her basic human right...much of what he terms boundaries is literally a stamping out of what are his partner's rights/freedoms.... but you all conveniently turn a blind eye to it to claim absolutely that there is no abuse contained. How? huh

Your criminal code in Nigeria literally indicates that no human has the right to impede or violate another person's rights as a human. How does the violation of this basic not constitute abuse? undecided
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Threedoorsdown: 5:42pm On Sep 09, 2025
Samantha125:
The man just announced to the entire world how he's physically abusive towards women and you don't see anything wrong there?

It's like you guys have normalised GBV over there to a point that a man can even comfortably brag about it publicly without any fear of repercussions.
This is how you ladies throw false accusations on men when you don't have your way. Tell me how on earth what he said translated to him being physically abusive or abusive in any sense

If you don't accuse him of being a narcissist it's domestic violence or aggression or even rape. The list goes on

It is well with you people
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by ShoeMarket: 5:53pm On Sep 09, 2025
Jokes, the guy na real lover boy don't let him fool you. The unfortunate thing about this kind of posts is that people will fall flat for it.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie:
Threedoorsdown:
➜This is how you ladies throw false accusations on men when you don't have your way. Tell me how on earth what he said translated to him being physically abusive or abusive in any sense. If you don't accuse him of being a narcissist it's domestic violence or aggression or even rape. The list goes on It is well with you people
. The list is blatantly narcissistic, and it will, in turn, appeal to individuals(women included) who favor their narcissistic personality. That there is not a list made up for someone looking for a loving, romantic relationship, but clearly an individual seeking (near absolute)control over the other individual(slave) in the relationship. undecided
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by dominique(mod): 5:56pm On Sep 09, 2025
Kobojunkie:
This here is the reason why so many women continue to fall prey to toxic men. undecided

A man literally promised to be abusive to any woman he ever gets into a relationship with, but here you are playing down his threats. For what? So you can see women damaged and possibly unalived by him later on, only for you to then switch up and state that he did warn them beforehand? undecided
I want to believe you saw my last sentence
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by rolams(m): 5:57pm On Sep 09, 2025
His mother can't meet up with all those stupid conditions.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by callmemakaveli: 5:57pm On Sep 09, 2025
This one na selfish man no two ways. Well, online no be reality. Redpiller online, woman wrapper offline.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie: 5:57pm On Sep 09, 2025
dominique:
➜I want to believe you saw my last sentence
The first statement contradicts your last is what. undecided
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by pretydiva(f): 6:00pm On Sep 09, 2025
Most of the things he stated are unrealistic. I believe it’s all cruise tho
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Samantha125(f): 6:09pm On Sep 09, 2025
Why should I point out something that is obviously normalised there? If you can't see it, then there's no need for me to point it out.

You guys are the same people complaining of how the law favours your women abroad, making it difficult for you to be using GBV to control them... That alone speaks volumes.
Gbadebo19:
You only need to point out the "physical abuse" you claimed in the post. Or physical abuse has a different meaning from what we see in dictionaries?
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by sfinkzslot(m): 6:12pm On Sep 09, 2025
Chilipepper:
Man causes stir on social media after he shared the "disadvantages" of dating him
Hmmm, an intentional man cheesy
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Samantha125(f): 6:12pm On Sep 09, 2025
Another GBV sympathiser...😢😢😢
Threedoorsdown:
This is how you ladies throw false accusations on men when you don't have your way. Tell me how on earth what he said translated to him being physically abusive or abusive in any sense

If you don't accuse him of being a narcissist it's domestic violence or aggression or even rape. The list goes on

It is well with you people
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by TheOldGods: 6:19pm On Sep 09, 2025
Samantha125:
The man just announced to the entire world how he's physically abusive towards women and you don't see anything wrong there?

It's like you guys have normalised GBV over there to a point that a man can even comfortably brag about it publicly without any fear of repercussions.
there is a clear difference between being abusive and being strict
The man only shows he is strict period. There is nothing abusing in what he said. His principles. Either you choose or leave. Go and learn the term abusive my dear and stop using it carelessly


Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Kobojunkie: 6:22pm On Sep 09, 2025
TheOldGods:
there is a clear difference between being abusive and being strict
The man only shows he is strict period. There is nothing abusing in what he said. His principles. Either you choose or leave. Go and learn the term abusive my dear and stop using it carelessly
This from someone who clearly does not realize the very meaning of the term abusive? huh
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by ledaman: 6:24pm On Sep 09, 2025
Best of luck to him. Easier said that done.
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by PhilipEboh: 6:34pm On Sep 09, 2025
Mine Is "Have your own money"
You are my darling!
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by correctguy101(m): 6:43pm On Sep 09, 2025
That sharing of clothing matter.... Me wouldn't say a thing but those I've been with always notice I avoid whatever of my clothing they choose to wear.

Me no know o, I never liked that shiiit....
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Mcslize: 6:48pm On Sep 09, 2025
Haba! I am an every woman's dream kind of young man. I must say, those principles are too much.

I won't list all those for a lady. For me, just be respectful, love my family like yours (that is if you have some love to offer), stay decent in your fashion sense without exposing too much of your body to the whole world to see, have your own common sense that can prevent you from being influenced negatively by bittered feminists and those who had vowed never to be loyal to the leadership of a man as prescribed by the Bible and we will be good.


Feminists take note:

Ephesians 5:22–24 (NIV) – Instruction to Wives:

"Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church... Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything."
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by folake4u: 7:11pm On Sep 09, 2025
Make I nor wear man polo?? Maka how? I go wear am oh. All those oversized polos are sweet to wear/steal. cheesy tongue
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by Puss360(f): 7:13pm On Sep 09, 2025
bluefilm:
I like the guy already

He spoke my mind

Relationships are not meant for the weak minded
Relationship is not meant for the weak abi, until you kee person that's when Ur eyes will clear...
Nothing like weak or strong in relationships. Once love fades better seperate or divorce...
Re: Man Causes Stir On Social Media After He Shared The Disadvantages Of Dating Him by SAMBARRY: 7:24pm On Sep 09, 2025
Lmaooo general idi amin


werey re o.make him kuku marry him mama ,robot or buy dog put for house.though some of his demands are reasonable but most just shows lack of common sense,emotional intelligence ,decency and empathy

The ones that are reasonable: no wearing of thirst trap clothes or posting private moments on social media or having male friends

Unreasonable ones: no social media other than WhatsApp, no friends, don't give me attitude, etc.men like this are narcissistic.
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