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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Smithwilliams826: 7:21pm On Sep 11, 2025

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

I no 1 in salt u.
U break d relation🚢 move on with ur life.

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by DenreleDave(m): 7:21pm On Sep 11, 2025

Brahamimo:
Thanks so much brother. God bless you for your kind words. I appreciate

U really lac k

What kind of men are we raising in this generation

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Bullman(m): 7:22pm On Sep 11, 2025

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

As an OG I have had my fair share of breakfast ..see women will frustrate you intentionally when they have found your replacement , the idea is not to break up with you but to provoke you enough so you can initiate the breakup so they can play d manipulative pity card when people that know u guys get to ask her what’s up.

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by kiddaz: 7:27pm On Sep 11, 2025

Pegi23:
Oh dear. If u are really done with your now ex

You can come to me let me show you true and real love.

Only if u are done with your ex. Because the way I can show true love is the one I will destroy u if u mess with my heart.

I love me a loyal man. My type of guy I want

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 7:30pm On Sep 11, 2025

Hamachi:
Stay firm: If she truly respected and loved you, she wouldn’t have left you with no choice but to sign out. Don’t let her incessant calls weaken your stance.

Protect your dignity: Picking her again without proof of genuine change would put you in a weaker position, and resentment would build up.

Allow space: You need time to heal, reflect, and regain your emotional balance. Even if she keeps reaching out, you don’t owe her a response right now

You acted wisely by leaving when she failed to respect your boundary. Forgiveness doesn’t mean tolerance of repeated disrespect. Stay firm, focus on your healing, and remind yourself that being loyal, faithful, and principled is not weakness — it’s strength.

Thanks so much 🙏🙏🙏

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Entanglement: 7:31pm On Sep 11, 2025

Pupanchie:
Girls or women r pigs bro, I can understand from ur perspective and for ur peace of mind, l can only advice you to cut all ties with the lady for your own peace of mind and let her family knows you r no longer dating just in case the new man will eventually use her for sacrifices, do not forgive a cheating woman, and never ever take back a cheating woman as if you do, just believe you are digging soon to ur grave, shilom

I should correct you on this!
Forgive a cheating a cheating woman, but never ever take her back

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 7:31pm On Sep 11, 2025

id4sho:
Why did you have to forgive her after finding out she cheated on you
You messed up big-time bro

I really messed up. I did. Honestly!

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 7:33pm On Sep 11, 2025

Viserion:
whatever you do, don't accept her back.

You shouldn't have accepted her back in the first place. Let her continue with the first guy

Exactly. I'm out

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 7:38pm On Sep 11, 2025

Stephen0mozzy:
What happened to standards!!!!
What happened to real men.

Are you afraid of finding someone else who will respect her own body and your relationship so much that infidelity is not even an option?

You should heal from whatever makes you feel that you don't deserve better.

Btw, if I'm the one. We stopped dating already.
Infidelity is a red flag so big, it soils everything else.

Thanks so much. I'm out already

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Entanglement: 7:39pm On Sep 11, 2025

Pegi23:
Oh dear. If u are really done with your now ex

You can come to me let me show you true and real love.
Only if u are done with your ex. Because the way I can show true love is the one I will destroy u if u mess with my heart.
I love me a loyal man. My type of guy I want

scary!

Na your type dey cut men preek ohh

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 7:41pm On Sep 11, 2025

Pegi23:
Oh dear. If u are really done with your now ex

You can come to me let me show you true and real love.

Only if u are done with your ex. Because the way I can show true love is the one I will destroy u if u mess with my heart.

I love me a loyal man. My type of guy I want

I'm here and open for relationship.

I already quit

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 7:42pm On Sep 11, 2025

Pegi23:
He isn’t a simp. He is just properly home trained and emotionally available

Thanks so much dear

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by HRTOFAKNG(m): 7:49pm On Sep 11, 2025

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

I believe the guy must have promise to marry her as soon as possible. She's now weighing options in order not to be disappointed by you. Keeping her up to 5yrs before getting married is risky in my opinion.

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Difrent: 8:02pm On Sep 11, 2025

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

You did right. She clearly will be insubordinate.
And will toy with your emotions
Your woman is out there somewhere you only need locate Her. Wish you all the best

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Brahamimo(op): 8:04pm On Sep 11, 2025

Difrent:
You did right. She clearly will be insubordinate.
And will toy with your emotions
Your woman is out there somewhere you only need locate Her. Wish you all the best

Thanks so much Sir

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Ifyz0001: 8:10pm On Sep 11, 2025

Brake up with the girl if you want to have peace of mind, because she will always cheat on you.

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Munzy14(m): 8:14pm On Sep 11, 2025

Brahamimo:
No the guy isn't better than me. I already got details of him.

Think about anything, in all ramifications, I'm better than him. Remember, a cheat is always a cheat. You can satisfy a woman sexually, care for her, gift her, respect her, yet she would still cheat

She is tired of you..

Keeping her will be a recipe for disaster in waiting.

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Oluwadare316(m): 8:24pm On Sep 11, 2025

Entanglement:
scary!

Na your type dey cut men preek ohh

Is if for Eba or content🤣🤣

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Oluwadare316(m): 8:26pm On Sep 11, 2025

Munzy14:
She is tired of you..

Keeping her will be a recipe for disaster in waiting.

He has done the right thing by leaving her.

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by sfinkzslot(m): 8:31pm On Sep 11, 2025

Brahamimo:
why talk about yourself in the 3rd person na however, there is no dealing with this kind of relationship, let me say it here, no woman that is truly in love with you, will cheat on you based on any issue whatsoever, dont be deceived please,

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Achor1111(m): 8:34pm On Sep 11, 2025

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

Confirmed SIMP.
She go use your head fry akara!

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Bahamas95(m): 8:38pm On Sep 11, 2025

I stopped reading half way after the guy said he forgave her for cheating on him.

Nothing can ever make me take back a woman that cheated on me, even if all the pastors on earth gather to beg me I will NEVER accept her.......it's better we go our separate ways than being with a woman I can't love again.

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Usmanovic95(m): 8:38pm On Sep 11, 2025

Brahamimo:
No the guy isn't better than me. I already got details of him.

Think about anything, in all ramifications, I'm better than him. Remember, a cheat is always a cheat. You can satisfy a woman sexually, care for her, gift her, respect her, yet she would still cheat

After knowing all these,why are you still trying to personalize her.Hope say she never serve you vegetable chop🍛

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Bennyvibez: 8:42pm On Sep 11, 2025

Brahamimo:
Thanks so much dear

Dear ke 😂 She already warned you oo.. If you do anyhow this one will cut your prïćk throway.

Next time, never take back a cheating girlfriend. End things with her same day you find out and she will always respect you for that ever.

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by folake4u: 8:42pm On Sep 11, 2025

This should be a troll account.

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Sep 11, 2025

The moment you ask her to choose between you and the other guy..you already a simp bruh..

Don't never ask a woman to choose nothing..We choose them..

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by sulakishop(m): 9:15pm On Sep 11, 2025

You don't have any girlfriend

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by VicM6: 9:19pm On Sep 11, 2025

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

So what's our concern now...Cuz bringing this to the table doesn't change anything at all

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Kaycee9242(m): 9:43pm On Sep 11, 2025

[quote author=Tenrack post=136765935] grin

Baba said he forgave her despite finding out she cheated. Lmao. You're wrong. He's no simp. He's a whole SIMPOsium[/quote

Lol omo I dun laugh fall for ground. You just nailed it and you spoke the mind of so many men.

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Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by Marc3500: 9:49pm On Sep 11, 2025

maxiuc:

What kind of nonsense is this dame who's this okoko

What a nonsense simp okoko you must learn the hard way

u sound like somebody on nairaland

Re: How Would You Handle This Relationship? by EXPRESSSMAN(m): 10:00pm On Sep 11, 2025

Baba, go and carry wine or do a simple introduction on her head before you claim legitimacy. The world is moving everyday and you are expecting her to wait for you till 5 years time . Stop complaining when you're ready you will get a woman to marry. For now, you are not mature or ready for what you are pushing yourself into.

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