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Once a cheat, always a cheat. The screenshot is a chat this evening btw an ex and me .

Mind you I was the one that broke up with her but she no won gree cut communication except she first do me strong thing She probably want to get loan from me before she Ghost me but I dey expose than her. I am aware Women can be very manipulative. Know this and know peace.

Brahamimo:
I'm here and open for relationship.

I already quit

Dm me then let take it up from there

Entanglement:
scary!

Na your type dey cut men preek ohh

Me na lover girl na. But omo u have to be fully in ooo because I no go tolerate nonsense of the past

Bro, just end it right now. I ended my first relationship after we already did introduction. As in , I went with my parents and also collected wedding list from her parents. And also fixed wedding date. I had to tell myself the truth after those things I detest kept reoccurring.

At this moment, all you need do is tell yourself the TRUTH.

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

I don swear already for you say if you pardon and resume this relationship, make God take you home!!

You deserve much more than this shitty babe... Leave her and leave her for good, let no one convince you that a cheating woman will change..... She is set up to kill u... Don't ever go back to her, u will end up raising kids that are not yours

Pegi23:
Oh dear. If u are really done with your now ex

You can come to me let me show you true and real love.
Only if u are done with your ex. Because the way I can show true love is the one I will destroy u if u mess with my heart.
I love me a loyal man. My type of guy I want

I dey for you

Brahamimo:
No the guy isn't better than me. I already got details of him.

Think about anything, in all ramifications, I'm better than him. Remember, a cheat is always a cheat. You can satisfy a woman sexually, care for her, gift her, respect her, yet she would still cheat

You are weak man. You are weak. It’s obvious
I am too sure you won’t work on any advice here. You lack confidence, you even went to make research about the guy.
Confident guy will break up with the girl and move. If she is really ready , she will be the one that will pursue you with evidence she has broken up with the other guy.
God created us differently sha

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I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.


You did well
The only fcck up you will do is if you ever take her back again
Her type na only for nacks nothing more and less

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

I can't believe i just read this nonsense and the simp forgave her and still continued the relationship 😂😂😂😂.... Over my dead body should i continue a relationship were i find my partner cheating.

Boss leave that babe now
No let anyone use you as option B you self na spec
It's either she stays loyal or you kick her out of your life you no be 16yrs old boy number of years you dated doesn't transcend to the emotional trauma you will experience if you continue with her

Probably someone who isn't loved at home, wether na low self esteem you get abi you deliberately like to be trampled on despite how insecure you sound, break things off guy what's forgiveness, if you're so cool with being cheated on and you've forgiven no need bringing it online, infact give her more benefit of the doubt and see if it ends well, na simp you be fr.

Pegi23:
Oh dear. If u are really done with your now ex

You can come to me let me show you true and real love.

Only if u are done with your ex. Because the way I can show true love is the one I will destroy u if u mess with my heart.

I love me a loyal man. My type of guy I want

you won finish am kpata kpata abi.

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

Kiddo take this advice and thanks me later
First , there is nothing like love in relationship, what you have to find in a relationship should be understanding

Second , Good guy attracts bad girls
If you no get it forget it

[b][/b]told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

If not for this part that I read I was going to call your father and ask him questions.. that’s why I advise men to always have options .. see as over thinking wan finish you now

emmabest2000:
Kiddo take this advice and thanks me later
First , there is nothing like love in relationship, what you have to find in a relationship should be understanding

Second , Good guy attracts bad girls
If you no get it forget it

Senior man, I gat u bro.
Thanks for your advice

YemyTemmy:
I don swear already for you say if you pardon and resume this relationship, make God take you home!!

You deserve much more than this shitty babe... Leave her and leave her for good, let no one convince you that a cheating woman will change..... She is set up to kill u... Don't ever go back to her, u will end up raising kids that are not yours

Haba!
E never reach this level na. U wan use swear finish me?

Bros, I don't know if you will see this message, but I hardly log in these days on Nairaland or even if I do, probability is that the first 2 pages has been already occupied.

I Don't know how old you are? Probably in your mid or late 20's or early 30's.
Take everything you read on the 1st 2 pages here with a pinch of salt.
It's nature of humans to cheat. IT IS BOUND TO HAPPEN. That should be least of your worries if you're SURE of the relationship. It hurts but it's part of human nature. It's bound to happen.

As the World Technologically advance(Globalization and Woke society) more of these are bound to happen. It will be a normal trend.
But the real question here is; How do you want to protect your relationship?
If she comes back begging, with sincerity please accept her back and work things out and that should not be the norm for you to start misbehaving.

Lastly this term Redpill is controversial.
Please use your brain and do not digest every story you read on line cos all our struggles are different.

Ikorodurealtor:
Who in their right senses forgives a cheating woman ?
Come on bro .

So the only thing you're benefitting from your relationship is toto?
I pity your life.

Pegi23:
Me na lover girl na. But omo u have to be fully in ooo because I no go tolerate nonsense of the past

Anambra women chai 😂😂
I dey fear Una ohh.

But make Una stop to dey bill men na! You go see better man.

You both are players…
May the best mn win.

Oga op for your own good and mental wellbeing please call it a quiet now that you still can before water pass garri

You don’t forgive a woman after cheating on you as a man!
You sit down, take a deep breath, if you want to cry, you can cry for heart break (cos that’s the end of that relationship). Pull yourself together and play along with her until you find a replacement because if you confront her and break up with her immediately without having a replacement, the pain will be times two.
At that point if you have a touch of wickedness, you can use her.

Whois:
Once a cheat, always a cheat. The screenshot is a chat this evening btw an ex and me .

Mind you I was the one that broke up with her but she no won gree cut communication except she first do me strong thing She probably want to get loan from me before she Ghost me but I dey expose than her. I am aware Women can be very manipulative. Know this and know peace.

So why did u now offer her loan twice before the third request?

Adele200:
Bro, just end it right now. I ended my first relationship after we already did introduction. As in , I went with my parents and also collected wedding list from her parents. And also fixed wedding date. I had to tell myself the truth after those things I detest kept reoccurring.

At this moment, all you need do is tell yourself the TRUTH.

Wow.. I'm so sorry for your experience. What were the things she kept doing that u detested?
Do u mind highlighting me?

iInjureHerYansh:
I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.


You did well
The only fcck up you will do is if you ever take her back again
Her type na only for nacks nothing more and less

Thanks bro 🙏

wallaze:
Boss leave that babe now
No let anyone use you as option B you self na spec
It's either she stays loyal or you kick her out of your life you no be 16yrs old boy number of years you dated doesn't transcend to the emotional trauma you will experience if you continue with her

You're completely right bro.
I appreciate you a lot. God bless you Sir 🙏

dauntless15:
Probably someone who isn't loved at home, wether na low self esteem you get abi you deliberately like to be trampled on despite how insecure you sound, break things off guy what's forgiveness, if you're so cool with being cheated on and you've forgiven no need bringing it online, infact give her more benefit of the doubt and see if it ends well, na simp you be fr.

Must u be uncouth?
What's the meaning of "Someone who isn't loved at home".
If you don't have anything meaningful to say, just stay quiet please

Germi9:
[b][/b]told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

If not for this part that I read I was going to call your father and ask him questions.. that’s why I advise men to always have options .. see as over thinking wan finish you now

😂😂😂😂😂😂
Abeg o

7demons:
Bros, I don't know if you will see this message, but I hardly log in these days on Nairaland or even if I do, probability is that the first 2 pages has been already occupied.

I Don't know how old you are? Probably in your mid or late 20's or early 30's.
Take everything you read on the 1st 2 pages here with a pinch of salt.
It's nature of humans to cheat. IT IS BOUND TO HAPPEN. That should be least of your worries if you're SURE of the relationship. It hurts but it's part of human nature. It's bound to happen.

As the World Technologically advance(Globalization and Woke society) more of these are bound to happen. It will be a normal trend.
But the real question here is; How do you want to protect your relationship?
If she comes back begging, with sincerity please accept her back and work things out and that should not be the norm for you to start misbehaving.

Lastly this term Redpill is controversial.
Please use your brain and do not digest every story you read on line cos all our struggles are different.

Thank you so much brother.
I appreciate. Most of the commenters who are bashing me and calling me all sorts of unprintable names are even worse than me. Some of them still wash and cook for their wives and girlfriends. They are more of simps than me.