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God is not an author of confusion....if you see your partner, you will know. it's like a 6th sense

PastorKosi:
GOD TOLD ME YOU ARE MY WIFE

“When someone says ‘God told me you are my wife/husband’, that alone is never a strong enough reason to accept a relationship or marriage proposal. God is not an author of confusion. If it is truly from Him, He will confirm it to both of you, not just one person. Remember, God does not force people into marriage—He gives us the freedom to choose. Let God also speak to you personally before making such a life-changing decision.”

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Apparently you need to have some connections within.

Dogalmighty17:
You have been proven right. What exactly is the criteria for this front page sef?

Those days have passed. The most skeptical of humans these days are the religious. They always talk about God showing someone signs yet will always ask if one is sure God showed them a sign.

dangotesmummy:
Lol another lamba church boy format


Church boys and religious manipulation na 5 and 6

😁😁 Oboy go find work jareh, Church nor be d reason for your frustration na
After you carry hand vote for calamity,you go come dey expect make God help you 😁 face Tpain na im dey scatter everywhere with ebi mkpa wa .

We go continue to give Tithe make e pain una well well .

I Love God,all I have is given to me by My God, after all e nor get any amount wey I fit pay for this Life wey Him give me, serving Him with all my substances and might and essence is why I was created in the first place.

Continue to dey face people matter wey nor join you , anybody don come ya House come cry give you se them manipulate am ni

Nigerians suppose to be the World Wide Stage of Stupid People Person go vote bad govt finish come dey expect miracle from God se you neva hear se after God na government?

alizma:
It is not a must that God will confirm to the other person, when he sent angel to tell Mary about the pregnancy, he didn't tell Joseph.

Who told you that. Why did you read Bible and skipped Matthew 1:20

PastorKosi:
GOD TOLD ME YOU ARE MY WIFE

“When someone says ‘God told me you are my wife/husband’, that alone is never a strong enough reason to accept a relationship or marriage proposal. God is not an author of confusion. If it is truly from Him, He will confirm it to both of you, not just one person. Remember, God does not force people into marriage—He gives us the freedom to choose. Let God also speak to you personally before making such a life-changing decision.”

Some people might say, “But God told me he/she is my spouse, so that should be enough.” The truth is, feelings and personal revelations can be very subjective. Studies in psychology show that 90–95% of people tend to interpret strong emotions or desires as “signs” or “confirmation”—even when they are not (American Psychological Association, 2022). That’s why one person’s conviction should never be the sole basis for a lifelong decision.

In fact, research on marriage outcomes shows that mutual agreement and shared vision are far more important predictors of long-term success than one partner’s conviction alone. According to a 2021 Pew Research Center report, couples who made marriage decisions together (rather than one partner leading) reported 35% higher satisfaction rates and 25% lower divorce risk compared to those where only one person felt “certain.”

From a biblical standpoint too, Amos 3:3 asks, “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” That means both parties must hear, understand, and agree—not one person dragging the other in the name of “divine revelation.”

So while God can guide us, He doesn’t bypass your will, peace, or clarity. A relationship where only one person “heard from God” without the other’s confirmation is not divine order—it’s imbalance.

If a man says that to my sister or any of my close relatives, I'll chase him with a cutlass.

correctguy101:
But God told Abraham he'll give him somebody else's land without telling the owners of the land na...

OP, go and check again.

Hmmm. I sure get your drift. But who are we to question or ask probing questions. He is God and He has mercy on whomever He wants to. He doesn't owe us any explanation.

PastorKosi:
GOD TOLD ME YOU ARE MY WIFE

“When someone says ‘God told me you are my wife/husband’, that alone is never a strong enough reason to accept a relationship or marriage proposal. God is not an author of confusion. If it is truly from Him, He will confirm it to both of you, not just one person. Remember, God does not force people into marriage—He gives us the freedom to choose. Let God also speak to you personally before making such a life-changing decision.”

This statement has been used to scam alot of ladies

Something tells me that mariangeles is my wife...


🤭

illicit:
Something tells me that mariangeles is my wife...


🤭

If you don't mind me taking you to Imo state, then...👀

Does this even hold water? Anyone can easily claim this and the marriage would still hit the rocks

alizma:
It is not a must that God will confirm to the other person, when he sent angel to tell Mary about the pregnancy, he didn't tell Joseph.

You don't seem to read your bible well. An angel also appeared to Joseph and told him not to leave Mary because she got pregnant. Read Matthew chapter 1 verse 20 and 21.

Then answer that let me go and tell my husband

PastorKosi:
It's also a good time to be aware not to use that word ''God said you are my wife''
Never lie in the name of God.
Come out plain if you want to ask that girl out more importantly, if you think she fits in as your wife. Blessings.

Thank you. God says HE WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOUR FROM THE LORD
So, it's up to men to find. No one should believe otherwise....never lie in the name of God

PastorKosi:
GOD TOLD ME YOU ARE MY WIFE

“When someone says ‘God told me you are my wife/husband’, that alone is never a strong enough reason to accept a relationship or marriage proposal. God is not an author of confusion. If it is truly from Him, He will confirm it to both of you, not just one person. Remember, God does not force people into marriage—He gives us the freedom to choose. Let God also speak to you personally before making such a life-changing decision.”

Any man that says this line is a walking red flag who must be avoided at all cost.

Ladies should look the other way.

This is the kind of Christian who would use the name of God to absolve himself from blame for any wrongdoing he commits.

This is the kind of man who doesn't have the confidence for any reason(incomplete hometraining, character flaws) to win/woo a woman's heart based on who he is as a person.

He is using God as a threat to make you submit to him.

A word is enough for the wise. Ladies! Run o!! Don't come and cry to us concerning your marriage to your God fearing husband'.

My 2 kobo

Interesting infatuation

Don't dull. It can work o.
No be women, never say never.
She fit know say you dey lie but she'll like it and accept your proposal based on that.

A guy I was dating told me that and l told him point blank that l haven't received my own confirmation.
This guy can lie for Africa, most time it is always lamba,most of them are any where Belle face just to confuse you.
Even in Christiandom as a lady always ask for confirmation from the holy spirit.

RealityKings1:
Why will God tell him, I'm his wife when I'm actually a man?

You don't get the point

Unless there Homo-Gay.

One or the same gender must be the husband and the other acts as the wife. 🤷🏽‍♀️

FavouriteOfGod:
Unless there Homo-Gay.

One or the same gender must be the husband and the other acts as the wife. 🤷🏽‍♀️

I like women

PastorKosi:
GOD TOLD ME YOU ARE MY WIFE

“When someone says ‘God told me you are my wife/husband’, that alone is never a strong enough reason to accept a relationship or marriage proposal. God is not an author of confusion. If it is truly from Him, He will confirm it to both of you, not just one person. Remember, God does not force people into marriage—He gives us the freedom to choose. Let God also speak to you personally before making such a life-changing decision.”

God has better things to think about than telling people who to marry

Not even all his followers got married anyway

Tochi360:
😁😁 Oboy go find work jareh, Church nor be d reason for your frustration na
After you carry hand vote for calamity,you go come dey expect make God help you 😁 face Tpain na im dey scatter everywhere with ebi mkpa wa .

We go continue to give Tithe make e pain una well well .

I Love God,all I have is given to me by My God, after all e nor get any amount wey I fit pay for this Life wey Him give me, serving Him with all my substances and might and essence is why I was created in the first place.

Continue to dey face people matter wey nor join you , anybody don come ya House come cry give you se them manipulate am ni

Nigerians suppose to be the World Wide Stage of Stupid People Person go vote bad govt finish come dey expect miracle from God se you neva hear se after God na government?

o don cast am,body dey pepper am..

Make I bring more buckets so you can cry me a river

dangotesmummy:
o don cast am,body dey pepper am..

Make I bring more buckets so you can cry me a river

Loll na you dey in sefia emotional brutality
We go continue to dey pay tithe,make e pain you well well leave tithe payers alone nor be them tight your sense make you nor fit work na 😁😁😁.

Tochi360:
Loll na you dey in sefia emotional brutality
We go continue to dey pay tithe,make e pain you well well leave tithe payers alone nor be them tight your sense make you nor fit work na 😁😁😁.

lmao haa we need more buckets o

Wetin consain me with your tithes.na my money you dey spend . Church boys and their naive customers

Pele.i see you want more attempts abi?

dangotesmummy:
lmao haa we need more buckets o

Wetin consain me with your tithes.na my money you dey spend . Church boys and their naive customers

Pele.i see you want more attempts abi?

ok so why you come dey die in sefia emotional brutality since the money no join you na😁😁 better face your bad govt instead to dey cry like frustrated fellow ontop tithe wey nor join you,abi na tithe tight your sense make you nor hustle make money use am anyhow wey you like😁 .

Hold something before the sefia emotional brutality reach your chest bcus We dey gather more money to give more tithe oo😁😁😁😁.

Make people matter nor kill you oo😁😁