₦airaland Forum

tanigororo:
Whoever lied to women that marriage is not an achievement is doing them wrong.

osazsky:
[b]Pot calling kettle black..she attended my first wedding now the second one.[/b]when u get to the p6th wedding pls invite her since na competition una day do

Guide777:
Some Pastors are good storytellers sha! Is it not wonderful that a divorce is giving relationship advice to the singles?

Kobojunkie:
Your friend is probably luck she did not engage any of those men you introduced to her. Those Passport-brothers you introduced to her would have likely led to the death of her or her regret in marriage.

A woman should remain single rather than running around filled with regret in marriage. Africans still have not normalized divorce, so it is difficult for many to get out once they are imprisoned in such situations.

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On another note, something tells me that this woman telling this story is herself a single-married woman, seeing as she is all wrapped up on tales of Boaz and all that religious nonsense— religious delusions —, while openly demeaning her friend for having standards.

Chilipepper:
Canada-based Nigerian Pastor, Temmy Omoileri recounts how her 42-year-old friend has remained single because of her strict policies and expectations from her partners.

She was reacting to a viral video of unmarried women wearing wedding gowns in a church event.





https://x.com/Temmy_omoileri/status/1967618692860317826?t=sM0QoMwf0Ya-mtjrUxwIrA&s=19[/quote]I remembered telling my husband that, "any pretty woman that is approaching her 40s with no husband has a bad character that she needs to fix"

He smiled, analyzed it, thought of the people around him that's aged but not married and concluded that it's true.

headbasher96:
Nothing new here but what caught my fancy was she attended my first wedding and now the second one.
Our sister really the poach men overseas.

RevenuesBoost:
➜I remembered telling my husband that, "any pretty woman that is approaching her 40s with no husband has a bad character that she needs to fix"
He smiled, analyzed it, thought of the people around him that's aged but not married and concluded that it's true.

BATified2023:
Nairaland is now a dumping site for Twitter


Na 3 days ago news we Dey read

flokii:
➜She is 42 already.. she should leave standards or looks and get hooked to a man.
Ladies that are staying that long are trying o.

AngelicDamsel:
Menopause

saintkel:
Guess u didn't even read it at all...cos it's not about religion here but her principles....she did set standards for herself I guess.....that's way wrong.....when u set standards for urself.....loosen up especially when a man is close u....don't be too tough....men hate tough girls

saintkel:
➜Guess u didn't even read it at all...cos it's not about religion here but her principles....she did set standards for herself I guess.....that's way wrong.....when u set standards for urself.....loosen up especially when a man is close u....don't be too tough....men hate tough girls

ednut1:
Many use religion to hide their lack of social skills

MrBadNews:
➜You think it's by social skills.

Kobojunkie:
You want a woman to have to settle for a man in order to be married. When this same woman decides later on to abandon the man after locating the man that meets his standard or decides she no longer wishes to settle, you will come back to stab at her for settling in the first place, right?

saintkel:
sincerely, I am not understanding ur assertions here

Kobojunkie:
Your friend is probably lucky she did not engage any of those men you introduced to her. Those Passport-brothers you introduced to her would have likely sealed her death or regret in marriage.

A woman should remain single rather than running around filled with regret in marriage. Africans still have yet to normalize divorce, so it is difficult for many to get out once they are trapped in such situations.

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On another note, something tells me that this woman telling this story is herself a single-married woman, seeing as she is all wrapped up in tales of Boaz and all that religious nonsense— religious delusions —, while openly demeaning her friend for having standards.

shogotermies:
This is one of the believable stories.
A lot of people are like this

semid4lyfe:
Not all women will get married. Ditto men.

Gracefilled01:
This is not biblical. The Bible says none shall lack her mate (Isaiah 34:16), and let every woman have her own husband (1 Corinthians 7:2) . So, as long as anyone desires marriage, he/she is meant to have it. Some don't desire it, and that's fine too.

Kobojunkie:
Stop using the Bible to tell what are obvious lies!

The book has it that some were created eunuchs from birth, some were made eunuchs in this life, while others chose to live as eunuchs for the sake of the God of Israel, clearly indicating that about half of the population— both men and women — are not meant to be married. The same man who said this went on to declare that his blessings belonged only to women who lived as eunuchs or were barren. This man lived and died never marrying; the same as his followers after him, then where do you get this deluded notion that all women are meant to be married according to that book?

As far as humans have been maintaining records, it is reported that at least 25% of people born in every generation, men and women alike, go on to never marry and/or procreate. So, even if a person desires it, the fact that there are not enough people out there to marry will always be an issue against this suggestion that it is all driven by desire alone.

Gracefilled01:
➜It is you who should stop peddling lies. I'm quoting scriptures, you're quoting statistics. Even your statistics is wrong, because technically, the population of males and females in the world is almost same, God cannot lie.
➜ Regarding eunuchs, do they desire marriage? Or you didn't read the part I said some don't desire marriage? Again, the bible is clear, for anyone who desires a life partner, you have God's promise, he will definitely come through for you according to his word!

13 Thorns and wild bushes will grow in all the beautiful homes there. Wild dogs and owls will live in them. Wild animals will make their homes there. Big birds will live in the grasses that grow there.
14 Wild cats will live there with hyenas.[g] Wild goats[h] will call to their friends. Night animals[i] will spend some time there and find a place to rest.
15 Snakes will make their homes there and lay their eggs. The eggs will open, and small snakes will crawl from the dark places. Birds that eat dead things will gather there like women visiting their friends.
16 Look in the Lord’s scroll and read what it says: Not one of these will be missing. Not one will be without its mate. God said he would make this happen, so his Spirit will bring them together.
17 God decided what he should do with them, and then he chose a place for them. He drew a line and showed them their land. So the animals will own that land forever. They will live there year after year. - Isaiah 34 vs 13 - 17

1 Now I will discuss the things you wrote me about. You asked if it is better for a man not to have any sexual relations at all.
2 But sexual sin is a danger, so each man should enjoy his own wife, and each woman should enjoy her own husband. - 1 Corinthians 7 vs 2

Peacecore:
Another tale buh it's possible.

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