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A lady has sparked debate on social media after sending a blunt message to men about spending money on women.

In a post on her official X (formerly Twitter) handle, a lady identified as @Big_yemm boldly stated that women will not take men seriously if they do not spend money on them.

She further added that any man who does not make life easier for a woman cannot be taken seriously.

Her post read “Unfortunately, no woman will take you seriously if you don’t spend money or at least make her life easier.”

However, @Big_yemm’s post has sparked debate on X (formerly Twitter) as many rejected the ideology while others supported it.

Mazi Chubby wrote: “We never hear things like this from elite and rich ladies. Always the kpangolo almajiri’s.”

Hollumuyiwa wrote: “It’s quite disgraceful to see how these Almajiris have reduced healthy relationships to mere transactions. Apart from Ethiopians, Nepalis and pillipinas, i don’t see other women prioritising money over real affection in a relationship. What our ladies are becoming is so sad to imagine.”

KC wrote: “It’s funny to see that many modern Nigerian women seem to reduce love to a transaction. They prioritize money and spending, which means that the highest bidders can easily win them over.

“In the end, it feels like everything is just about making a deal. If you expect them to take you seriously, it often comes down to providing financial support in exchange for s*x.”

Chiamaka wrote: “True, you can repeat that again and again and again. I mean, if you’re not going to be making my life easier then don’t be in my life. It’s that simple. Nobody is going to trade no woman is going to trade that piece of mind for anyone who’s going to make their life chaotic.”

Thank you for this piece, I have worked and save.
I want to spend it all on you dear
Let me give you all my money baby... Since I don't have my own ambition to invest in and you also don't have your own money.

We will be doing a routine research now before we could date any girl for a serious relationship cos if anything like this write up is found, make she just know say na abandoned goat, many of them go begin cry now say them no see husband when they were only digging for sugar daddies, awon wehrey weh get hand but no fit work

The problem is not spending on her. The issue is, Is she worth it?. Will she be loyal??. More often than not, No.

DyshApp:
A lady has sparked debate on social media after sending a blunt message to men about spending money on women.

In a post on her official X (formerly Twitter) handle, a lady identified as @Big_yemm boldly stated that women will not take men seriously if they do not spend money on them.

She further added that any man who does not make life easier for a woman cannot be taken seriously.

Her post read “Unfortunately, no woman will take you seriously if you don’t spend money or at least make her life easier.”

However, @Big_yemm’s post has sparked debate on X (formerly Twitter) as many rejected the ideology while others supported it.

Mazi Chubby wrote: “We never hear things like this from elite and rich ladies. Always the kpangolo almajiri’s.”

Hollumuyiwa wrote: “It’s quite disgraceful to see how these Almajiris have reduced healthy relationships to mere transactions. Apart from Ethiopians, Nepalis and pillipinas, i don’t see other women prioritising money over real affection in a relationship. What our ladies are becoming is so sad to imagine.”

KC wrote: “It’s funny to see that many modern Nigerian women seem to reduce love to a transaction. They prioritize money and spending, which means that the highest bidders can easily win them over.

“In the end, it feels like everything is just about making a deal. If you expect them to take you seriously, it often comes down to providing financial support in exchange for s*x.”

Chiamaka wrote: “True, you can repeat that again and again and again. I mean, if you’re not going to be making my life easier then don’t be in my life. It’s that simple. Nobody is going to trade no woman is going to trade that piece of mind for anyone who’s going to make their life chaotic.”

Exactly o. Tell them o, my sister! Please tell us so that we can learn.

That is why the men will pay a little money, sleep with all of you women, and move on.

It is now a transaction. “Transaction completed…please take your receipt”


So my sister, Please help me tell the men o. So that the men too will see the idiocy in what relationships have become. The model is.

-Attraction is there (note I didn’t say “LOVE”).
-The feeling is mutual
-The man spends money
-The woman opens her legs
-The man moves on
-The woman ( always lacking taking accountability of her loose legs and thighs) says “men are scum”
-The cycle continues

Dear Men. None of these women will take you seriously o. So as you have heard, spend some money, taste her body, and move on.

As for the women too, knowing that it is spending of money you want, note that none of these men will also take you seriously either. So give your body and spend their money too.

Na so. Let the business transaction… the buying and selling….the kara kata…. the exchange of money for service..the money for hand back for ground…. Let it Continue.


There was a time…as humanity developed and our sense of decorum expanded there was a time when the woman kept her chastity and did not trade it for financial gain and comfort. The man also kept his resources,did not pressure the woman for sex, and majorly spent when it was time to pay for her hand in marriage.

Then we don’t know who started it, but the men foolishly thought they could get her, by gifts. The women also foolishly thought they could get a better life by opening their legs for gifts.
And here we are. And the rule is simple. But selfishness and greed. Selfish pursuit of pleasure and material things will not let you people have sense at all. There was once a solution to this wahala. No one was motivated by selfish desires. Intentions were pure.

THE RULE STILL REMAINS:

1. Women: DO NOT OPEN YOUR LEGS FOR ANY MAN UNTIL MARRIAGE AND DO NOT REQUEST FOR MATERIAL NONSENSE WITH THE ENTITLEMENT OF THE LADY HERE.


2. Men: DO NOT ASK FOR SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE AND DO NOT GO SPENDING TO IMPRESS A WOMAN UNTIL THE TIME FOR THE MARRIAGE RITES.

Very simple.

Make every body Dey their Dey! But una go gree? No. Woman wan buy latest phone and go shopping and live “baby girl life”, and man wan find where him go dump cum inside, add the willing girl name to the list of women him don sleep with. So that him Ego go inflate more and more say him be man and him be “conqueror” of female genitals.

Make the madness continue sha.

Never listen to what a woman says.


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If u see hook up girls talk,u wil know..don't go and work,keep depending on men na ur toto go catch fire 🔥

No problem...!

Same way I don't honestly expect any sensible and right-thinking man to consider a money-centered woman for long-term relationship.


You all should continue...!

More GehGeh are springing up daily.

Correction* U mean to say no broke woman will take a man seriously if he doesn't spend on her.

An independent woman irrespective of if she has money or not will take a man seriously.

ur position only suggests the man is buying her love, which is possible for many but defective and dangerous.

I'm not saying the man won't spend in her but if she only takes him serious after he spends money that's a red flag.

Then the woman should remain with her parents. Stay @ Home & earn my respect.
Relationship is not by coercion. Please Stop dating men, rather focus on yourself.
I don't know why these ladies keep seeing it as transactional when they don't want to spend on their men too. I don't have issues with men spending, but I have issues with women not agreeing to spend since it is transactional.
Since it has been commercialized, it should be done across board.

DyshApp:
A lady has sparked debate on social media after sending a blunt message to men about spending money on women.

In a post on her official X (formerly Twitter) handle, a lady identified as @Big_yemm boldly stated that women will not take men seriously if they do not spend money on them.

She further added that any man who does not make life easier for a woman cannot be taken seriously.

Her post read “Unfortunately, no woman will take you seriously if you don’t spend money or at least make her life easier.”

However, @Big_yemm’s post has sparked debate on X (formerly Twitter) as many rejected the ideology while others supported it.

Mazi Chubby wrote: “We never hear things like this from elite and rich ladies. Always the kpangolo almajiri’s.”

Hollumuyiwa wrote: “It’s quite disgraceful to see how these Almajiris have reduced healthy relationships to mere transactions. Apart from Ethiopians, Nepalis and pillipinas, i don’t see other women prioritising money over real affection in a relationship. What our ladies are becoming is so sad to imagine.”

KC wrote: “It’s funny to see that many modern Nigerian women seem to reduce love to a transaction. They prioritize money and spending, which means that the highest bidders can easily win them over.

“In the end, it feels like everything is just about making a deal. If you expect them to take you seriously, it often comes down to providing financial support in exchange for s*x.”

Chiamaka wrote: “True, you can repeat that again and again and again. I mean, if you’re not going to be making my life easier then don’t be in my life. It’s that simple. Nobody is going to trade no woman is going to trade that piece of mind for anyone who’s going to make their life chaotic.”

Only a foolish man or yahoo yahoo will spend his hard earned money on a woman that is not his wife.

I made that mistake once, she was evicted, I took her in, even bursted her door to move her things to my place when her landlord locked up her things. I was forming Rambo.

She got pregnant and I was buying well being (only if you know that medicine for pregnant women), spent N1.6m buying babies things, she had her baby at Abacha Barrack hospital through CS) which cost N250k, she forced me to move to a flat then from my lovely self contain.

To cut the long story short, the lady eventually left when my cash Waka.

Whenever you're tempted to spend on a woman, buy a land and fence it. In doing this, whenever you're broke, nobody has to know. Not even your wife. No woman should know your survival strategy not at this times we're in. She can even get you killed.

A woman who have survived by opening her legs to a spender cannot be trusted.

To be ‘taken seriously’ is to be seen as capable of suffering, aspiring, and building meaning together. That comes from discipline, purpose, and emotional presence not disposable income. A man who cultivates his mind, owns his journey, and respects hers doesn’t need to pay for attention. He commands it through substance.

Alimajiri

Always thinking of how they'll spend money on you all in returns for Bleep

Almajiri mode activated.

No man will take a woman seriously if she doesn't spend money on him.

Na these kind girls wan render seun bankrupt. Ike beans

No thief will take you seriously if they don't steal from you.

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Why not save yourself relationship stuff enter ashawo full time, pay as you go

[quote author=Brilliancepower post=136833645]Only a foolish man or yahoo yahoo will spend his hard earned money on a woman that is not his wife.

I made that mistake once, she was evicted, I took her in, even bursted her door to move her things to my place when her landlord locked up her things. I was forming Rambo.

She got pregnant and I was buying well being (only if you know that medicine for pregnant women), spent N1.6m buying babies things, she had her baby at Abacha Barrack hospital which cost N250k, she forced me to move to a flat when from my lovely self contain.

To cut the long story short, the lady forming she is from Chad (nah Jos babe o) eventually Waka when my apalapala Waka.

Whenever you're tempted to spend on a woman, buy a land and fence it. In doing this, whenever you're broke, nobody has to know. Not even your wife. No woman should know your survival strategy not at this times we're in. She can even get you killed.

A woman who have survived by opening her legs to a spender cannot be trusted.

TruthOrDareMe:
To be ‘taken seriously’ is to be seen as capable of suffering, aspiring, and building meaning together. That comes from discipline, purpose, and emotional presence not disposable income. A man who cultivates his mind, owns his journey, and respects hers doesn’t need to pay for attention. He commands it through substance.

Does it look like these almajiris are interested in your speech? 🤣

Dey play!

I hate this gender,they have useless entitlement..

SeverusSnape:
The problem is not spending on her. The issue is, Is she worth it?. Will she be loyal??. More often than not, No.

Some are loyal because they want the subscription to go on, I don't prioritize women at all but myself. If my life isn't easier just as I make yours easier I take a leave. Most women think a man's life should be harder compared to when he was single while a lady's life should be easier compared to when she was single. Pathetic

Men de suffer o.

Imagine you have to work hard only to please a woman.

This nature of a man desiring a woman is very cruel to men.

Normal warped logic of women who monetize their attention & affection and expect not to be treated like prostitutes.
Most men even get better loving from professional call girls than these so called regular girls with all kinds of bad attitudes, STD & STI.

jmoore:
No thief will take you seriously if they don't steal from you.

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So true
Absolute fact

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Some say "women are hard to understand". But this one here is trying to communicate to you guys 👌the rationale behind the controversy the society has subjected their gender, but all you guys do is to chastise.

Yes, just as Men value their money, Women also value their body.
That, what you value you have to give it up to get what you want. It's simple as ABC.
You have to sacrifice something to get something you want in return. (law of nature).
To prove you're interested in her, your money, time and effort are needed to show how serious you are.
What are you paying for?? Her time too, her love and emotional support, her attention.
Will the love stops when the money stops flowing? That's none of my business. My job is to justify what she says here is nothing but the truth.

Like I always say, our stories are different. What matters is how you are playing your game.

All these beggars disguised as content creators

COMRADES, the lady said nothing but the truth, that's why you see I don't time for this boyfriend and girlfriend of a thing...person go just manage marry shikena

These new generation ladies are just wild and almost useless... a lot of them, not all
Love and marriage is business for them.