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These cripple people again who can not work for themselves
Entitlement mentality has damaged their brains

Which means no true without money 😞😞😞

Okechinwadike:
Why not save yourself relationship stuff enter ashawo full time, pay as you go

Hmmmmm 🤔😊

jmoore:
No thief will take you seriously if they don't steal from you.

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Chai🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This your comment got me

Brilliancepower:
Only a foolish man or yahoo yahoo will spend his hard earned money on a woman that is not his wife.

I made that mistake once, she was evicted, I took her in, even bursted her door to move her things to my place when her landlord locked up her things. I was forming Rambo.

She got pregnant and I was buying well being (only if you know that medicine for people), spent N1.6m buying babies things, she had at Abacha Barrack hospital which cost N250k, she forced me to move to a flat when from my lovely self contain.

To cut the long story short, the lady eventually left when my cash Waka.

Whenever you're tempted to spend on a woman, buy a land and fence it. In doing this, whenever you're broke, nobody has to know. Not even your wife. No woman should know your survival strategy not at this times we're in. She can even get you killed.

A woman who have survived by opening her legs to a spender cannot be trusted.

But to start with are u the one that got her pregnant I mean the baby she has now does it belong to you

DyshApp:
A lady has sparked debate on social media after sending a blunt message to men about spending money on women.

In a post on her official X (formerly Twitter) handle, a lady identified as @Big_yemm boldly stated that women will not take men seriously if they do not spend money on them.

She further added that any man who does not make life easier for a woman cannot be taken seriously.

Her post read “Unfortunately, no woman will take you seriously if you don’t spend money or at least make her life easier.”

However, @Big_yemm’s post has sparked debate on X (formerly Twitter) as many rejected the ideology while others supported it.

Mazi Chubby wrote: “We never hear things like this from elite and rich ladies. Always the kpangolo almajiri’s.”

Hollumuyiwa wrote: “It’s quite disgraceful to see how these Almajiris have reduced healthy relationships to mere transactions. Apart from Ethiopians, Nepalis and pillipinas, i don’t see other women prioritising money over real affection in a relationship. What our ladies are becoming is so sad to imagine.”

KC wrote: “It’s funny to see that many modern Nigerian women seem to reduce love to a transaction. They prioritize money and spending, which means that the highest bidders can easily win them over.

“In the end, it feels like everything is just about making a deal. If you expect them to take you seriously, it often comes down to providing financial support in exchange for s*x.”

Chiamaka wrote: “True, you can repeat that again and again and again. I mean, if you’re not going to be making my life easier then don’t be in my life. It’s that simple. Nobody is going to trade no woman is going to trade that piece of mind for anyone who’s going to make their life chaotic.”

A man is only loved for his utility, the day you stopped being useful. That love of your life becomes hellbent messenger of well calculated narcissist.

When a lady says seriousness is based on money changing hands, she just told us that she is a candidate of one chance.

7demons:
Some say "women are hard to understand". But this one here is trying to communicate to you guys 👌the rationale behind the controversy the society has subjected their gender, but all you guys do is to chastise.

Yes, just as Men value their money, Women also value their body.
That, what you value you have to give it up to get what you want. It's simple as ABC.
You have to sacrifice something to get something you want in return. (law of nature).
To prove you're interested in her, your money, time and effort are needed to show how serious you are.
What are you paying for?? Her time too, her love and emotional support, her attention.
Will the love stops when the money stops flowing? That's none of my business. My job is to justify what she says here is nothing but the truth.

Like I always say, our stories are different. What matters is how you are playing your game.

Then let her go stand on the streets like her mates.. thats where she belongs , and disconnect with the serious women

Brilliancepower:
Only a foolish man or yahoo yahoo will spend his hard earned money on a woman that is not his wife.

I made that mistake once, she was evicted, I took her in, even bursted her door to move her things to my place when her landlord locked up her things. I was forming Rambo.

She got pregnant and I was buying well being (only if you know that medicine for people), spent N1.6m buying babies things, she had at Abacha Barrack hospital which cost N250k, she forced me to move to a flat when from my lovely self contain.

To cut the long story short, the lady eventually left when my cash Waka.

Whenever you're tempted to spend on a woman, buy a land and fence it. In doing this, whenever you're broke, nobody has to know. Not even your wife. No woman should know your survival strategy not at this times we're in. She can even get you killed.

A woman who have survived by opening her legs to a spender cannot be trusted.

God bless the senior man🙏

My advice to men is simple: let a woman love you for who you are, not for what you have. Only lazy women look for men to spend on them. It’s better she leaves because she thinks you’re broke or stingy than for her to stay only because you’re a heavy spender. When the money stops or a bigger spender comes along, she’ll leave anyway.

Men should learn from women. Most women invest money into their looks, and men should do the same. Some men starve themselves to “package” their women, and in the end, those same women become so upgraded that they no longer see their men as equals.

So in all you do, invest in yourself, both in your looks and financially. Success is attractive. Women respect successful men, whether those men spend on them or not.

Tzar:
Normal warped logic of women who monetize their attention & affection and expect not to be treated like prostitutes.
Most men even get better loving from professional call girls than these so called regular girls with all kinds of bad attitudes, STD & STI.

so you sleep with hookup gals. Smh

This lady is still jonsing. The time of one man 7'women is already here.
Nor worry, you go teee for your papa house.

She will never leave young na
Both me as a man till my 80 I go still dey FXXK but she never hahaha 🤣

Nicoddemus:
But to start with are u the one that got her pregnant I mean the baby she has now does it belong to you

Ah🙄 baby she abandoned when he was one year 4 months, he is going to 6 years now. He is my G. Super intelligent.

And that is why men will only see them as commodity that they pay for and will not take them seriously, knowing that with his money he control them like leash on a dog.

[quote author=Brilliancepower post=136833788][/quote]Hmm!!!!

Very true.
Wise words

freddie009:
My advice to men is simple: let a woman love you for who you are, not for what you have. Only lazy women look for men to spend on them. It’s better she leaves because she thinks you’re broke or stingy than for her to stay only because you’re a heavy spender. When the money stops or a bigger spender comes along, she’ll leave anyway.

Men should learn from women. Most women invest money into their looks, and men should do the same. Some men starve themselves to “package” their women, and in the end, those same women become so upgraded that they no longer see their men as equals.

So in all you do, invest in yourself, both in your looks and financially. Success is attractive. Women respect successful men, whether those men spend on them or not.

100% true.
Wise words

Yes... exactly! That's why I don't want any woman to take me seriously.

How is that your business? Busy body! 🤣😅
How many of these girls in Nigeria aren’t low key hookup girls? Most committed guys are just wasting their lives with most of these serious girlfriends.

Katcall:
so you sleep with hookup gals. Smh

Well said.

freddie009:
My advice to men is simple: let a woman love you for who you are, not for what you have. Only lazy women look for men to spend on them. It’s better she leaves because she thinks you’re broke or stingy than for her to stay only because you’re a heavy spender. When the money stops or a bigger spender comes along, she’ll leave anyway.

Men should learn from women. Most women invest money into their looks, and men should do the same. Some men starve themselves to “package” their women, and in the end, those same women become so upgraded that they no longer see their men as equals.

So in all you do, invest in yourself, both in your looks and financially. Success is attractive. Women respect successful men, whether those men spend on them or not.

Brilliancepower:
Ah🙄 baby she abandoned when he was one year 4 months, he is going to 6 years now. He is my G. Super intelligent.

Then you lost nothing

Okechinwadike:
Why not save yourself relationship stuff enter ashawo full time, pay as you go

ASAP

Brilliancepower:
Ah🙄 baby she abandoned when he was one year 4 months, he is going to 6 years now. He is my G. Super intelligent.

One naive bro here said a woman isn't capable of killing her child. Lmao. Some women are useless.

[quote author=Brilliancepower post=136833788][/quote] you learn the hard way what about your kid and what about her